A
male
age
,
*esparate
writes: i have been married for 21 years to an abused woman. Our sex live is non going. now that her 3 children are over the age of 18 it has got a lot worse even after all the promises, i feel (selfishy) that life would get better (after promises) but in fact it's just getting worst
View related questions:
sex life Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AskEve +, writes (3 March 2007):
In what way was your wife abused? Has she spoken to you at length about her past? Has she always found sex difficult with you? Has she promised you it would get better? How is it getting worse? Do you have a successful marriage apart from the sex side of it? When did you last have sex with her? What excuses does she give? Does she MAKE excuses or just come right out and say no? Do you still sleep together in the same bed/room or do you have seperate beds? How old is your wife?
I would love to help you with this but I need some more information from you. Please feel free to email me personally if you would prefer, rather than put down a lot of personal information for everyone to see. It's entirely up to you. Get back to me and I'll help you work through this so that you and your wife have a fulfilling sex life again.
Eve
|