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I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?

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Question - (6 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 March 2007)
A female Mozambique age 41-50, *let writes:

I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?

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A female reader, Gwyneth United States +, writes (6 March 2007):

Gwyneth agony auntIf I knew a bit more, I might be able to make suggestions. For instance, how long have you been married? Are you still in love with and attracted to your mate? Is he still into you?

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2007):

AskEve agony auntWhy have you gone off sex? How long have you been feeling like this? How long have you been married? Is there someone else? Are there any other problems going on in the marriage that is making you feel like this? Do you have any children?

Give us some more information and we'll try to get to the bottom of your problem.

Eve

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2007):

willywombat agony auntThat is about the least helpful question I have ever read on here!! C'mon, can you please give us some more information.

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A female reader, Millyella Ireland +, writes (6 March 2007):

Millyella agony auntYou haven't given us too much to go on. Why have you lost interest in sex? Are you on any medications which might cause your sex drive to decrease dramatically? Is it sex itself, or particularly sex with your husband that you have lost interest in?

This happened to me once; i was using Depo Provera as a contraceptive method, and over a period of 5 years my sex drive declined to almost nothing. I changed to Mirena at that stage, and gradually my sex drive returned. It took about a year to get back to completely normal.

If the problem has a psychological cause rather than a physical one, you might need to see a counsellor.

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