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writes:me and my bf are planning to have sex in 2 weeks as he staying at mine. he a virgin and im far from being one (9 guys) he saying that even though ive been with that many guys in his eyes im still a virgin as i never loved those guys but i love him. my friends saying my bf most likely thought he would lose his virginity to a virgin and now he making up excusses to feel better about i am not one is my friend right
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (6 March 2007):
 It was Great hearing back from you! It`s always Lovely to have a Follow up! Thank you for taking the time. I`m glad, in this guy, you`ve found someone to love and trust; as it certainly sounds like you haven`t had it easy. Good Luck & Best Wishes to the Both of you, Heather.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (6 March 2007):
 The reason your boyfriend is saying this to you is simple... it doesn't matter to him about your past, what matters to him is the here and now! He has a lot of feelings for you and cares for you very much. Forget about the past and concentrate on building a wonderful bond with him.
Good luck!
Eve
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni know it's bad that i went with 9 guys but i had my reasons behind it (mainly they took advanage of me when drunk or suicidal) and my bf knows these reasons. i do love him with all my heart and soul. thats why ive waited to sleep with him as i wanna make sure my feeling for him were true as i didnt wanna do anything with him and then not like him as i dont ever wanna hurt him.
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (5 March 2007):
It`s a shame you gave yourself to nine guys you didn`t love, but if your boyfriend is cool with that, then that, I think, shows he must care for you a lot, as this would put a lot of guys off. I hope that this guy you really DO care about.I agree with Farris, take him at his word, but be gentle with him!!! Kind Regards, Heather.
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reader, Farris +, writes (5 March 2007):
 The only person that can tell you what he really meant is your boyfriend. If it really bothers you, then you should ask him.
Otherwise, I think that you should just take his word for it. If he is happy losing his virginity to you, then there's not reason why anyone, other than yourself, should really have any say in it.
Best wishes.
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