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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi im a twenty year old girl who has been seeing a guy for nearly ten months now, which is my longest relationship ever. We used to get on great and loved hanging out together (we're both at university) we would spend quite a lot of time together and he would often stay over, we would chill out and maybe grab lunch etc.Recently, however, we have not been getting on very well and argue more or less all of the time. It really gets us down. I spend nearly every night in tears and i used to argue fo us but recently ive been so stressed out with work and of ocurse this ive become submissive and lacking hope for the relationship.Im not naive to the fact that he gets down too but he's just not willing to change! i realy honestly have and have tried so many things to make it work! ive let him have so much time to himself and he hasnt stayed over for a while now.Whenever i say we need to talk things over on neutral ground, he goes out with his mates or ends up getting really angry. He even mentioned the other day that he thought if we broke up he would easily be able to cope and didn't think he'd miss me all that much. This seriously broke my heart!!i say we need to talk and maybe get out of either my room or his (where we spend 99% of our time together) and he says he cant afford to! I mean how much does it cost to go for a walk?? he wont work for 'US' what do i do?!Thanks
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reader, AskEve +, writes (6 March 2007):
 This relationship sounds as if it's ran its course. He sounds bored. Why don't you suggest a break for a while and see what he says. If he said he doesn't think it would bother him and that he wouldn't miss you if you broke up I think that speaks for itself. You need to face the facts here... he wants out!
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