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*lex1111
writes:The other day i cheated on my boyfriend who i love so much! Hes given me another chance to make things straight but ive got a lot to make up for. what is the best way to win your lover back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Time is the best healer, but during that time you have to never cheat and be the gf that he deserves. The pain from the cheating may never go away in him, so be prepared to maybe split up some time in the future, because some people just cannot forget and move on. The pain wears them down and therefore the relationship suffers.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Time is the best healer, but during that time you have to never cheat and be the gf that he deserves. The pain from the cheating may never go away in him, so be prepared to maybe split up some time in the future, because some people just cannot forget and move on. The pain wears them down and therefore the relationship suffers.
Take care
xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (5 March 2007):
 Show him by your ACTIONS that you really care for him and that he is one of the most important people in your life. Drop him a casual text from time to time saying something complimentary to him, letting him know you miss him or are thinking of him, let him know where you're going, for a few months at least until the trust builds up again. Let him know you have absolutely nothing to hide from him ever and if he wants to check your phone at any time just to say the word.
I'm not saying he would actually do this but at least it lets him see that you are genuine and want to make it up to him. Gradually he will find less reasons to doubt you and slowly that trust will return. If you ever break that trust again though then there will be no way to get it back again so please keep that in mind.
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 March 2007):
 Trust is such a fragile thing. Sometimes when it breaks it's broken forever. His trust for you is broken right now. You can try your hardest to build this up again but there are never any guarantees. My advice is to apologise and make him aware that you understand what was wrong about what you did. Maybe he will understand and maybe he won't but all you can do is give him time and space and hope that true love prevails.
CD
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