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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Pregnant by an abusive drug addict! Help!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - OK1 Here is goes! I am pregnant with a guy who is verbally abusive. He accuses me of sleeping with my neighbor who is gay. He looks at pictures I have sent him and see'sguys arms and condoms on my counter. He calls me every namein thebook you can imagine. Is a known meth ... (267 words)

Is this a relationship I should stay in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my ex partner for 3 years, we have a 2 year old son together. I recently ended the relationship due to him being very controlling. However he seems to think he isn't controlling and hasn't done anything wrong I just wanted to tell you his behaviour and see what you ... (302 words)

I'm having little sister trouble, I need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey! So, my little sister is 4. I'm 13. She is always messing with me and giving me dirty looks and hurting me (most common injuries, scratches, pinches, hard kicks, suffocation (she sits on my face.), hair pulling), she calls me stupid and lots of mean stuff. To make her stop ... (140 words)

Will my crush ever talk to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I thought my crush liked me so I flirted and gave him my number. He texted me a couple weeks later. He is shy so I didn't think much of it when he texted me two weeks after I gave him my number. He started to stare at me a lot, smile, blush, and look away when I saw him looking ... (264 words)

I feel like I'm losing my father to his new girlfriend and her children.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My father's moving abroad while my brother and I are remaining here with our mother; but of course we're completely dreading him leaving but he seems to be counting the days until he leaves to be with his new girlfriend and her children. The other day my dad completely blank... (341 words)

Can You find real passionate love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Reading 'Fifty Shades of Grey' it's got me thinking about my own next to sexless relationship at such a young age and I wonder and my question is... Can you find someone that you're that attracted to that you feel the spark just ignite when you see them? I want to feel ... (82 words)

I feel like my friends and I are growing apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, hey! I feel like my friends and I are growing apart, we have almost nothing in common anymore (once I decided I was too old for watching Disney Channel, Justin Bieber and whatnot). Every conversation we have is rather forced and they call say I belittle them by using 'b... (136 words)

Why are my co-workers encouraging this co-worker to pursue me? I find it so disrespectful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Coworkers are making us an item and it makes me angry! I've been working at a cafe for two months. My guy coworker (coworker #1) has been there longer. At first he seemed nice so we chatted at work as friends but he became more and more annoying. He's two years younger than... (463 words)

How do I make this awful feeling go away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a man for about 6 months, we were friends for 6 months before that. He lived with a woman for 15-17 years before we meet, (they broke up 1 year before we started dating) At some point they became engaged. I do not know much about the relationship other ... (245 words)

How can I be attracted to him and Not be attracted to him at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Thanks for taking out time to read my problem and helping me out with it. My problem is as follows: So I know this person,A, since we were kids. we are family friends and we've grown up together. But during middle school he went away to a boarding school and we gr... (411 words)

I really like him,, but I'm, not sure how he feels about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - so me and this guy have been seeing each other for a while, but we fall out now and then. today i see him because all of our friends meet up - he doesn't look at me, doesn't really talk to me. i ask him why, he said because i haven't spoke to him in ages. i text him first th... (195 words)

I need advice, I feel stuck in this relationship!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age - i am a 58 yr old black female living with a 53yr old black male.we have had our ups and downs,i first moved in with him, and we lived together for 7mos.we just recently moved back in together been here for 3months now,i feel that our relationship is built on me giving him money ... (141 words)

How can I find out if he'd like to go for a drink with me, I don't even know whether or not he's gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - OK. This might sound comparatively trivial in light of some other posts, and perhaps a bit of a cliche as well. Anyway. There's a guy in a shop in my town. He's very attractive, has a great smile... you know the thing. I've been in there several times, but it's a small ... (162 words)

I'm not sure who my baby's father is.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and just had my first child. She was born March 27 2012 . Problem is is I don't know who her father is. I had sex May 30 2011 with my ex boyfriend e and on June 29 2011 with my current boyfriend. I remember the doctors giving me an ultra sound because I wasn't ... (170 words)

I think that the financial issue is straining our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is having a financial problem. He's avoiding meeting me, giving me excuses like traffic congestion. He admitted that spending time with me (lunch, tea) makes him spend money. What made me very angry is when he added, "When I stay at office instead of going for ... (83 words)

I need an advice on how to deal with this difficult situation at my work place.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I just need an advice on how to deal with this difficult situation at my work place. There's a co-worker who treats everybody like we are stupid. Worst part is that our supervisor is dating this guy so she is always on his side. He is our quality assurer at the moment ... (207 words)

Why does he want to keep sabotaging my healthy lifestyle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am trying to lose weight. I am not huge at all, but I am too big for my frame and would feel more confident if I lost weight. I also can’t eat a lot of sugary things as they make me feel ill and give me bad skin. My boyfriend knows this, or rather, I have told him this ... (261 words)

I'm confused about a guy abroad...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this guy who is a year younger than me through an online chat site. He's not in the same country as me but we've talked and all for more than a couple of years now. Ive been in a relationship with someone from my own country during this 2 years but im single for ... (325 words)

I want to fall in love with him but I'm scared...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i've been with my boyfriend 7 weeks and been seeing him for 10 weeks in total. we've agreed to go slow (emotionally) as we have both been hurt in the past and we dont wanna rush things. But I fall very easily (normally) but this time I haven't, normally i'd be head ove... (209 words)

Would it be odd to want to be "friends with benefits" with my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Would it be odd to want to be "friends with benefits" with my ex? Back when we were dating I asked him if it was okay for us to become "friends with Benefits" if we were ever to break up and he said yes. It's a been a few months now since our break up and we rarely talk to each ... (117 words)

Should I take them to court over this and see my daughter if she's mine

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm a young father 17 years old (please don't judge) recently my baby's mom and I had a very bad break up. Things were said on both sides that shouldn't have been, but now she is keeping my child away from me. I was not allowed on the Birth Certificate by her and her ... (358 words)

I feel I'm putting in all the effort in our relationship... how can I get him to step up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend at university and this is the first summer that we're apart. I am always trying to talk to him, asking how he is, initiating the conversations and he never gives me anything back. So I left it and thought I'd let him talk to me when he wants to. Nothin... (364 words)

Should I stay with Rebecca?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Right okay i have been dating my girlfriend rebecca now for 9 months and yeah i love her but we are always arguing about stupid things and a boy called lewis has been texting her who's in the army and they used to love each other but never told each other. The other day whil... (207 words)

I can't accept his daughter!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am 24 and my boyfriend is 36. We have been together for going on 3 years. We have a great realationship and I love him so much but there's one thing mentally and emotionally holds me back for him, he has a daughter. She is 14 years old. In the beginning it bo... (171 words)

How can I get her to give my blowjobs again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid... I am 26 years old and I have been with my girlfriend or should I now say "fiancée" for almost 2 years and a half now. I can remember back when we started "hanging out", there was so much passion (to say the least) in the bedroom. I would get anywhere from... (386 words)

Is it possible to tame a guy who acts like player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible to tame a guy who acts like player? I like this guy but he pretty much treats girls like s***, just using them to hook up after he's drinking.(Before I get the lecture, he's actually a very nice person otherwise and I know a lot of guys who treat girls like ... (163 words)

I told her about my past and it's affecting our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I told my girlfriend about me having sex in the past and it really seems to have affected us but i keep telling her i cant change my past but she doesnt seem to be changing how angry she is at me. shes also saying that its not going to affect us and she's mixed emotoins about ... (62 words)

How can I get over this and enjoy sex with my boyfriend again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been happily with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now, he's sweet, funny, and cares about me more than anything. I would never do anything to betray or hurt him. But a little while ago, I received an invite by an old friend to hang out. I've known that this boy has had an ... (183 words)

Help me rebuild my life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Apologies in advance as this is not so much a relationship question as it has more to do with rebuilding a life from the ground up financially. Three years ago I left Australia and spent the entire $20,000 I had saved through my hard work over four years while I complete... (903 words)

Will I be bailed on again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm in quite a situation, well firstly there is this girl who is a friend of mine. I'm in college and she is a senior at her high-school that she attends. Well she had a bf who broke up with her about a month ago. And me and her always talked and seemed to be good friends. ... (191 words)

Just started dating a guy and was intimate with him? Could this damper the development of a possible relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I'm pretty sure that I already know what a bunch of you are about to say...but I have a quick question regarding bringing intimacy early on into a developing/dating/relationship. Do you guys think that it will make or break the current situation that I'm in? Here's the dea... (439 words)

Do you think he's into me or is he just looking for 'friends with benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for last couple months. Sometimes we have seen each other, few times a week and sometimes once a week. We have even spent few nights with each other. So 1st time when we spent night together, we started making out and then he stopped and said that he ... (732 words)

Why did my mother-in-law become close to this rumour-spreading ex-friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunties, you have alrready helped me a lot but i still have problems that i need your advice..my problem is this. One of my friend's wife whom i got very close to his husband who is like a brother to me has spread bad rumors about me and even insulted me and my husband in ... (124 words)

I have been in love with him for 8 years, now I'll be in class with him next year, it'll be torture!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this boy I have been in love with almost as long as I've known him, so about 8 years. I didn't know it at first but I know thats how long I have been in love with him. I haven't been in his class at school for the last 5 years. I'm not the soppy kind of person to get ... (117 words)

Why do couples brag about their relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a question that is more general: how do you relate to couples that, you know, are so fond of each other that they can't stop bickering, and saying "I love you" every 30 seconds, making in-jokes that no one understands, and going on about how the other is awesome? I mean... (104 words)

I think I'm bi-sexual but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ever since I was little I've always liked boys but there's also something that has made me admire some women more than normal. When I was 6-7 there was a female teacher that I really admired (though at that age I doubt it meant anything) but there was just something about her ... (395 words)

When does sex feel great?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have slept with 5 people, all except for one were one night stands. During my long term relationship I don’t ever remember thinking sex was amazing, my ex was selfish towards his needs. Now that I have been single for 2 and a half years, I have had a few one night stands, ... (143 words)

Is he attracted to me or am I looking too hard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear agony aunts/uncles, I am into guys but only one person knows (I'm in my final year high school and living with my parents). He is one of my best friends and I have a crush on him, lets call him Bob. I have never told him that I like him beyond being a friend and quite... (488 words)

Should I try and contact him or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I had a one night stand with my friend’s house mate; he is new to this country and has been known to be usually shy. But on that night he had drank a lot. He told me he couldn’t find his phone and did not know his number as he had only been in the country a month. But he did ... (142 words)

Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I wrong for wanting to get out of my relationship? .... We were together 3 years. He abused me emotionally and physically. Everytime i tried to leave he'd manipulate me into giving him anther chance. This time I didn't let him though he tried everything, even threatening to ... (263 words)

Is he just a flirt if he doesn't ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm falling for this guy I've gotten to know over the last few months. We started out just talking a lot and getting to know each other, talking for hours. As friends do. But since then it's developed to flirting a bit. He asked me to go to the ball with him and I said yes, but ... (453 words)

Does this relationship sound unworkable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Our relationship is a bit unusual. We met, became friends, got closer, spent every day and night together for a couple of weeks, then became lovers who quickly felt they loved each other. He quit his job and his whole rural lifestyle to move 4 hours away to be with ... (624 words)

Is he using me for sex? Or could there be something there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - There is this Guy we hung out a few times. The first time we hung out he would say things like he has never dated a girl of my ethnicity but he would if it was me because I'm cute. He was flirting with me the whole night. and the next day at school he talked to me and then he ... (424 words)

Ginger problems: how do I get out of the 'friend zone' with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok… so there is a girl i really like and would really like to date at my school, but she seems uninterested. We have been good friends for about 2 years now and i would like to move out of the "friend zone" as many people call it. Im a tall ginger and she is a short asian. What ... (92 words)

The things he wants me to do for him sexually really bother me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, i really do need a professional help.it bothers me when my boyfriend ask me to do the things that he want, such as in his sexual need.he wanted me to show my body or teasing someone while he is masterbating.is this normal? or is he sick? and he go so ... (101 words)

How do I have a happier life, without jealousy, loneliness, insecurity and pessimism?

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9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sometimes I feel bad about myself. I feel I'm a bad girl. I jealous easily, so negative thinking, immature, and egoist. I don't like that other woman better than me. I'm really bad about this. I want to change. But how? Its automatically done without my desire to become like ... (149 words)

My girlfriend acts like my mum!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - anyones gf act like your mum? LOL strange question i know, but at times my gf does this, just wana know if anyone else out there experience same thing, and what is the meaning behind it etc, is it a bad or good thing? is it psychological for women just to act like this in her ... (59 words)

His ex can do no wrong, and me and our baby are stuck in the one room with AC while I' get continually criticized!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been needing some outside advice about this situation for some time. This is a bit long, so thank you for bearing with me. My husband and I have been married for 2 years, and we have a 6 month old daughter together. The main problem is my husband's ex-gir... (833 words)

Did showing and explaining sex safety precautions really reassure her or just add more pressure?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I was just wondering if y'all though I did the right thing. Me and my gal have been getting closer and closer every time we are together. We do not have sex but we do fool around a bit, she lets me go farther with her than she lets herself go with me though. That fin ... (274 words)

Besides condoms are there any other precautions we can take to avoid pregnancy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I would really like to take my relationship to the next level and have sex with him. I am not on any form of birth control, we have a condom. but is that enough? I'm scared something will go wrong, I don't n... (80 words)

My boyfriend hasn't contacted me in three days

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My bf usually never calls. i am the one who always initiates the call. lately he is often hanging up the call saying he is busy when i call him. I got pissed off and told him i wont call him anymore unless he calls me, Its been 3 days, he never called or sent me... (114 words)

My friend is engaged to a woman he's only dated for 6 months.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was really shocked the other day when one of my really good friends who I've known since childhood broke the news to me that he's currently engaged to his girlfriend. He only started dating his girlfriend 6 months ago and on top of that this is the first relationship he's ... (542 words)

Despite making myself very clear he insists on pursuing me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

9 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I am in a bit of a difficult situation so if anyone has any advice or comments, it would be greatly appreciated! Just last year I moved back to my home town to attend college, and I got in touch with an old childhood friend. He and I get along great, have so m... (520 words)

I feel pushed aside in my boyfriend's quest for female attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is a huge extrovert and loves to talk to people and start conversation with anyone. He's very charming and I think he also likes getting attention from women in particular. So in social settings it's not unusual for him to gravitate towards women rather than men. I mean ... (230 words)

In love with my best friend's engaged brother

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do. I am in love with my best friends brother and he likes me too. He has a fiance and a 2 year old son. I have felt like this about him since 3rd grade and i am going to be a senior. He has felt this way about me for the same amount of time.I'm stuck on ... (67 words)

Should I confess to my boyfriend that I got drunk and kissed another guy?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my best friend (girl) went away camping for the weekend. On saturday we met some guys who took our numbers and invited us over to their camp site for the evening, so we got there and just hung out. They offered us beers and I took one, then two, then three, and before I ... (318 words)

My boyfriend's family seem to prefer his brother's girlfriend to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help, I feel like I'm going insane!! I have been with my boyfriend for three years now, everything's been fine and we love each other to pieces, we plan on marrying in the future. However, the last couple of months his brother has a new girlfriend on th... (302 words)

My best friend and I have admitted to being attracted to one another

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my best friends and I admitted an attraction to each other one night, we are both girls and her dad is completely homophobic. She led me on to think she wanted a relationship and we kissed. she broke it off 2 days later at school. about a month later I found myself a... (186 words)

Why would my mother in law turn on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

9 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this guy for 6 years we live together for 5 years, we just got married cause I was pregnant with our son he's 9 months old now. My mother in law was always cool with me and I liked her a lot, she always stays out of our business UNTIL we got married ... (438 words)