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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is it reasonable after a month to ask him where I stand? Or is it too soon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) Ok, so I'm just looking for some general advice please. Iv had one serious relationship in the past, which was emotionally and physically abusive. After 3 years I got my self out and although I am not the person I was previously, I feel strong enough and over it. ... (338 words)

Will my wife be noticeably affected, physically, and during lovemaking, by our seven month time apart ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Im going to visit my wife in about a week . We are in a LDR . Its the longest we have gone without seeing each other , the last time we had sex was 7 months ago . My question is .... how do i satisfy her on out first time after so long.... i know my stamina isn't going to b... (140 words)

Cheating? Trust broken? But can we make this work, despite the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend (X) and I have been together for almost 4 years now. I like to think of myself as an open minded guy. I'm not morally opposed to having an open relationship, and at times have tried to(and sometimes succeeded) at bringing other people into our bed. This has drop... (469 words)

I could see it in her eyes she was still in love with me. And I'm still in love with her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Okay everybody, Please bare with me as I try to explain. I was with my partner for a long time. We met when we were both 21. I knew I'd met my soul mate. She was the same. We just got each other in a way that I never thought and knew was possible. Anyway, about a year and... (659 words)

I fell out with a friend because he lost his values, now I'm not sure what to do about our friendship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really not sure what to do for the best. I feel out with a really good friend of mine who I've always loved. I know I did the right thing but I just don't know what to do. He was always such a repsectable person with strict values, and in the past he has done things against ... (982 words)

Do you think that he is prolonging this because I know she filed but he was supposed to pay her attorney. or do you think that I'm just being paranoid.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 24 years old and i have a 3 year old girl, i fell in love with a man that is 48. when we met at work i did not know he was married until 2 weeks after we started talking. his wife found out about the both of us and called and told me to get out of her marriage, i told her ... (126 words)

Am I overreacting to this, or are my feelings atleast a little justified?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three years has recently downloaded pictures of naked women to his phone. We live together and have a child together so privacy is not the issue here, and I was not intentionally snooping on his phone. He had taken a picture of our son that I was going to send ... (121 words)

Is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else?

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there. Okay, I've been texting this guy my friend is setting me up with, but the guy already has a girlfriend. I do really like him, and my question is is it ok to ask a guy out while he's still dating someone else. Their relationship is rocky according to my friend.... (54 words)

Could this flat agreement leave me financially screwed if things don't work out for me income-wise this year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a comfortable lifestyle with some good savings in the bank, but I'm really worried about where my future is gonna take me in the next year. Currently I have a year contract for a funded degree at my uni, and it pays pretty well, or at least well enough that I ... (337 words)

I feel we have the world against us. Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid, I apologise if this is all over the place but here goes ... The general score is that my partner and I will be moving in together come September. The trouble is, all people that are close to him are capable of doing is putting obstacles in his ways. To begin w... (464 words)

Is love over exaggerated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can LOVE really exist between 2 people? Can two people really find what they are looking for each other? Or is LOVE an idea that is over exaggerated in movies, songs and novels? Do people really find someone they can be happy with forever? Or is it just NOTHING? ... (53 words)

My girlfriend said I can sleep with prostitutes if I wear a condom

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have the most loveliest girlfriend in the world. She is so sweet and adores me. I love her so much and I can't imagine not being without her. Then 2 days ago she said to me she allows me to have sex with prostitutes if I wear a condom. She said several of her ex-bf said t... (164 words)

Scared, Worried and Confused!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My situation is rather complicated. My boyfriend yelled at my son. He told my son that he needed be spanked him if he doesn't listen. Its a shock because he and my son usually get along well and his boundaries with my son are usually very appropriate. He is positive and pat... (308 words)

Should I Reconcile With My Emotionally Abusive EX?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need advice as I've backed myself into a corner. I recently broke up with my boyfriend after I realized he'd been emotionally abusing me, lying to me, cheated (via email and asking for a girls number at a bar) and one time pushing me and destroying my st... (184 words)

Pain in my stomach when I orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a bit worried, when I orgasm I get a pain in the right side of my stomach. This is causing me distress. I started masturbating alot, I once did it 8 times in a row I know it's bad, it just makes me feel better(yes i am a woman) what could it be?... (55 words)

Do I chose Love or a Career?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Agony Friends... As the title suggests, i'm hitting a period in my life where i need to define my priorities. My boyfriend and I are together since 3 years now: we complete each other on a mental and physical level and see marriage, kids down the road. However our ... (356 words)

Should I get back with my ex and see what happens when we go to college? Or endure the pain of the break-up so I can be single at College?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I deal with this break up? (High school to college) I had been dating one of my best friends for about 9 months until summer rolled around and decisions about college had to be made. Keep in mind while you're reading that this was my first real relationship. We... (780 words)

No-one has ever asked me on a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunties, My problem is that I've never been actually 'asked out' till date! I'm 18, will be 19 soon. There have been guys who said they liked me but all they ever seemed to want from me was sex. They would chat me up till they got comfortable talking to me and then they... (302 words)

I don't know what to do about my wife anymore, we don't have sex yet I cant mention it to her, and she blames me for everything that has gone wrong in her life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm a 43 yr old male. I came home from work last Friday night and was suprise by my wife of 15 yrs.she was in the bathroom, with only a robe, exposing herself to me. this has very seldom happened in our marriage. as any husband still in love with their wives I was turned on. ... (342 words)

My partner wont let me touch my own baby girl! How do I get him to stop this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my man just had a baby girl about 3 months ago. he will not let me touch her,i have held her only 2 times since she was born and fed her once and that was at the hospital. last night i thought he was asleep so i went to her crib and picked her up he came in and literally ... (114 words)

Is this the behaviour of someone who is mentally disturbed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you think of this behaviour? Is this person mentally dirturbed? I just met a guy to whom i gave my mobile number. He immediately started to text me. He said he was really smitten by me. I barely know him but he started to tell me that he loves me very much, that he's ... (137 words)

What day should I go to London for the convention? And what clothes should I take?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm staying at my friend's house in London this weekend for one night,as we are going to a convention on Saturday, but i'm not sure which night would be best to arrive there?. I'll write down the pros and cons of both and you can let me know what you think. I only need to buy ... (570 words)

My boyfriend can't orgasm during intercourse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together around 9 months. We slept together for the first time around 3 months in, and it was my first time. As we live far away from each other, we only see each other every 2-4 weeks so in our 9 months we haven't slept together many times. ... (102 words)

How can be emancipated given these circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

4 July 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Hi, I live in Washington, 17 yrs old and I need help getting emancipated in some way. Ive looked up how to get emancipated in WA, problem is, i cannot get a license because im not recieving help, nor can i get a job because i cannot get taken to get applications or ... (367 words)

LDR boyfriend and I can't agree on vacation plans!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - im in a ldr situation. my boyfriend and i plan to have vacation together. but theres an arguing thing about me and him like i want to go to beach but he knows it that i want to go there but he always asking me if i really want to go and why i like it there.. i can say that the ... (188 words)

If I haven't had sex in years, would I be a virgin again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have sex when im only in grade school.. but after that i never commit sex again, now im 22 years old.. did my virginity win back after so many years?... (31 words)

Is he going off me already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there, I met a guy at a friends country house wkd away and we just clicked and hit it off and were inseparable for most of the wkd. We did not exchange numbers as we both left at different times, but as soon as I returned from the wkd he had already sent me a fbook mess... (335 words)

G/f and I won't be able to live together after baby is born. Its making me feel bad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - ok, well my girlfriend has told me she is pregnant. We were careful, but the test says 3 plus so i think ( after reading up she maybe 5 weeks pregnant)... i don't want children but she has made up her mind to keep it with or without me, so i have no say in the matter. She said ... (301 words)

An attached man is giving me alot of attention and it makes me feel good. Is it wrong to feel this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) age 41-50 - hey guys i really need advice im panicking and cant understand why ive worked with a guy for 18 months and in the last 7 months weve become friends and told each other stuff but in the last 2 weeks hes confided in me about some major stuff. he has a girlfriend and they just... (211 words)

From FWB to relationship back to FWB?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age - Friends with benefits to relationship then back to FWB? I met a single guy 6 years ago,we chatted started seeing one another once a week,he used to come to my house,i wouldnt allow anymore than once a week as i had my son living with me and thats when he used to go to his ... (268 words)

Did my g/f forgive me for my stupid mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Second time poster here. But I really need some advice... Yesterday me and my friends went out, and we had a good time. My girlfriend showed up as well, everything was fine and we enjoyed our time. My friend, who was very drunk, annoyed my girlfriend. She didn't s... (203 words)

I don't want my ex to hate me for the rest of our lives. Can I get her to forgive me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - K this is kind of hard, my daughters mom, who was my girlfriend of 10 years, well 2 years ago, she got into it with her boss, your typical one person falls out of love with the other story, well I never saw it coming, had no clue how to handle it, and I believe i literally lost ... (624 words)

The man of my dreams has turned into a monster! Why do I always end up with abusive men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner of two years is moulding me to nothing. Where do i start.. The 1st year things were great i got sweet phone calls and txts and when he would come home he would tell me just how perfect i was he was perfect i had a constant smile on my face. Forward a year- argument... (902 words)

Is timing everything in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I told my best friend that I fell Inlove with him. He told me he felt the same way and had never met anyone like me, but wasn't ready for a relationship and we are no longer friends. 2 months later I found out he has a girlfriend and I'm still not over him. Is tiiming ... (74 words)

My b/f was burned badly and has his face bandaged. What if he looks so different that I don't love him anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year was recently involved in an accident at work. He needs much time to recover and most of his face is bandaged due to heavy burns. His body has been badly damaged and he needs plenty of rest but he'll be fine. But I'm so afraid of what I might see when ... (86 words)

Does a strong crush ever fade away completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I want some insights on this. Does a strong crush ever fade away completely? Is it possible for it to return even after one's OVER it? I had a crush on a guy at college, who never really took notice of me anyway. His indifferent behaviour towards me caused to get over him till... (149 words)

My wife never buys me gifts that I like. Am I making a mountain out of a mole hill here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 20 years never buys me gifts I like and never has. This may seem like a small matter, but it is a festering issue in our marriage. She says that I am unappreciative and that she can't do any right by me. From my perspective, I feel like she should know the sort... (316 words)

Who did my wife really lose her virginity to? Her old boyfriend or me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - my wife and I have been married for 2 years now, and have been together for 4 years total. When we met we were both virgins and lost our virginity to each other. At least that is what I have always thought as she told me she was a virgin. Recently I found out she may or may not ... (186 words)

He made tentative plans, said he'd call but hasn't. Should I wait or make other plans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F) - I met a guy from online..we spoke and texted for a week prior and got along great. We met in person and seemed to have a good time as well. We were in alot of contact or some form of contact each day since we started talking either through text or a phone call We have been o... (338 words)

My marriage is crumbling, I have a crush on a guy I went to high school with and I'm contemplating leaving my husband not for the other guy but to make myself happy. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a strange place, and I was hoping someone could shed some light.. I am twenty-three years old and have been with my husband now for three and a half years, married for about ten months. Our relationship has been good for the most part. We get along well, hold commo... (946 words)

Why does he always date my friends but not me? We're just alike!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so there is this guy at my school and we met two years ago. He ALWAYS teases me and messes around with me. He flirts with me alot and makes lots of awkward faces at me to make me laugh. We are super close and he's my best friend. He told me he liked me last year and that he ... (428 words)

My sister-in-law's absolute indifference and apathy towards my wife and me is very upsetting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I try to be nice to my sister-in-law, but her absolute indifference and apathy towards my wife and me is upsetting. My wife and I recently got back from a trip to Europe with my wife's mom. When we got back we wanted to meet with my sister-in-law to give her the gi... (500 words)

Paranoid about my B/f cheating on me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years now. We first got together when I was 14 and he was 15 and things were pretty good for the first year of our relationship. During my GCSE's our relationship struggled as I was so focused on passing them I didn't make much effort ... (471 words)

I want to get to know him! Should I email? Send a text?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I really am tired of being completely single, and I really want to meet someone that is relationship potential. It's so hard to meet guys in this area. So yesterday I met this really cute guy in the phone store and unless he is completely stupid, I'm sure that he could tell ... (162 words)

We broke up, I slept with his best friend, how do I handle things now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I tried to settle on being just friends..the only reason why we broke up is because we fought wayy too much. Anyways..We were both at a party and everyone got super drunk and i ended up having sex with his best friend..who i had a crush on about a year ... (239 words)

My ex is dating someone else but how do I find out if he still likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In a few weeks I'm going on a family vacation where my long distance ex-boyfriend happens to live. We broke up a year ago when we were still in love but incapable of keeping a long distance relationship. Now we're working and more capable, and I want a second chance with him. ... (240 words)

How can you tell when someone you are in a relationship with, is being honest about changing their ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How can you tell when someone you are in a relationship is being honest about changing their ways? My boyfriend used to make profiles on sex sites and would talk sexually with women. This is his last chance to shape up or ship out. We have kids together and were at one point ... (122 words)

Should I ask him for a last goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for about half a year. He's an international student and we come from different cultures which caused many disagreements and misunderstanding although we were in love. Last week we had another argument and I went home without us working it out. Then ... (226 words)

Is he messing with my head or does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok.... there is this boy we have known each other for years about 6-7 years we live in the same area.. but we just used to chat like hello you ok, and that was it. he had a girlfriend they were together for bout 3 years and a half, and i had a boyfriend for a year and a half, ... (763 words)

I need help with my marriage, I can't stand the fact she was talking with someone else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

4 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I need help on what to do with my wife. I just recently found out my wife was talking to an old friend for 2months (I checked the phone records) it started off as text messages such as questions like how you doing or how was your day etc.... After a month they would talk ... (252 words)

I want my parents to accept my 34 year old boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

4 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a good several months now. I was over his place today and he was talking about meeting my parents. He never gave a specific date or anything but he was talking about doing it at some point. I just get worried because im pretty cryptic ... (170 words)