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writes:Well I'm in quite a situation, well firstly there is this girl who is a friend of mine. I'm in college and she is a senior at her high-school that she attends. Well she had a bf who broke up with her about a month ago. And me and her always talked and seemed to be good friends. Well she told me she wanted to do something this recent weekend, but bailed on me and she quote "forgot to tell me she wasn't going to come" soon I really upset since I went out of my way to go. Then she told me oh well do something. So so day and I'm sure she will bail on me again. And the worst Part is I was always there for her and was her emotional vent, and its not likening not asking to hook up with her, but I think its not right to treat someone like that. And its had me thinking that maybe I should just stop being involved with her because I don't want to waste time thinking about someone who isn't thinking about me. What should I do?
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reader, Soconfused234 +, writes (10 July 2012):
 Man U totally need to add me so we can talk this out through message because i have A LOT to say that cant be said on this page.
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reader, Soconfused234 +, writes (9 July 2012):
Well thats really messed up. I had a guy bff do that to me before and i totally cutt him off but Im not going to give you that advice because its not good advice. What I want to tell you is to look deep down inside yourself. How much do you really like her? Does she seem like one for you to waste your time and heart on? "I forgot to tell you that I wasnt going to come." Now bro what does that sound like to you?? A lot of B.S.! Sounds like she doesnt care that you probably cancelled some of your plans to be with her. Sounds like she doesnt care that u had to waste your gas (which is pricy) to go out there to be with her. Sounds like she doesnt care. So my last bit of advice is to not waste your time on hoping if she is the one for you or wondering if she is gunna bail on you again because odds are....she doesnt care. Hopefully you can prove me worng and TRUST ME, I would love that! But from what im reading, u should move on to the next one. Ur in college...do ur thing. Hope this helps :) God bless you and dont forget to PRAY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2012): Yeah and today she told me to chill, after I told her how I felt, this is stupid she wanted to talk to me in the first place I told her where I stand and I don't play games. And today she still hasn't went though her promise of chilling. I guess I'm too nice or too good for her so I am getting played/ led on.
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (9 July 2012):
 The girl just broke up with her bf a month ago. She is probably still hurt and confused, but that does not excuse her behavior with you. If she did not want to go out, she should have told you instead of playing games. Not only was that disrespectful, but what she said was rude and inconsiderate. "I forgot to tell you?" So, I guess she is saying you are so insignificant to her that she forgot all about you. I would give it one more try and if she backs out or is disrespectful again, I would not talk to her anymore. You will just be wasting your time on someone who doesn't care about or respect your feelings.
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