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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't want to be a bitch but I want to break up with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Its been three years with this guy. Im over it i'm done.i'm a senior in high school now I need to get my life together and I can't when i'm being held back because of him.I recently went to Paris and its changed my perspective on life and relationships and I know our time has ... (113 words)

I need a job to help my mom pay the bills!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - please help.am going crazy i im in dire need of a job am the first born my brother has finished school and i see how he is stressd at home am stressed too im so broke my mum is a single mum she is really suffering to bring food for us and also school fee iv looked for a job am ... (141 words)

My manager and I have a crush on each other. What advice can you offer on dating, or not dating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My manager and I have "secretly" liked one another for the past three months. We never did anything directly due to professionality but I'm sure both of us could tell. And considering he's extremely busy it probably wouldn't have worked out. Now he's the manager at another s... (121 words)

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'd had female urges when you wer... (106 words)

Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was great, i felt at ease with her pr... (480 words)

Is it possible to be with someone who has someone else?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Pals,I want you to help me on this issues. I have a computer training school. I have many students both male and female that are learning computer. There was a girl in my school. The first day I set my eyes on her, I feel something deep for her. One day we exchange mobile ... (456 words)

Hits and misses but we never wind up together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy. for security purposes, let's pretend that his name is trey. we met back in january and became super awesome friends right from the start--texting each other pretty much nonstop, hanging out all the time...you get the picture. we were... (539 words)

My husband addict masturbating instead having sex with me and he always rejecting me when I tried made move or touch him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just wanna to swear . I'm miserable wife. People kept saying I'm young cus i will be 28 next month. My husband always having masturbating himself since before married me and still now. We already married for nearly 9 years and this has to stop since he always rejectin me when ... (271 words)

Do I tell friend what I seen?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i've just seen my mate flirting with her best friend's boyfriend what do i do?... (15 words)

After asking me to leave and uprooting my life, now b/f wants me to come back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over two years. Recently he asked me to leave because he needed time to think about what he wanted. He has asked me to leave and come back various times in the past aswell. But this time i came back to my family home and ... (233 words)

School found out I like my teacher and its all sorted, but my teacher is still avoiding me! How do I act next year to make things better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm a 14 year old teenager and i have this major crush still on a teacher and at the moment i have summer holidays ,nearly half way through and still feel the same way a lot of things happend last year he even found out because of a student and i even had to go the principal ... (144 words)

We agreed we would only watch porn together, but now I've found loads of porn sites on his computer and phone! How do I confront him about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a few relationships where my boyfriends would watch porn. I had a very hard time with it at first because I felt that I wasn't good enough so they had to look elsewhere... I now have done more research and understand it more - so here comes my problem... ... (612 words)

Would it be bad of me if I went away with my friend and told my girlfriend it was a work convention?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I took her away to Florida in June and we are booked to go back next summer. She is going away with her family for a week in August and i was invited but i cannot get the time off work. I was thinking about going away for a week in September with her and i mentioned it and s... (247 words)

Am I being unnecesarily jealous or do I have a valid point about her fling from the past contacting her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, I'm hoping to receive some impartial advice on a problem I'm experiencing ATM. Been with my GF now for over a year and living with each other for a month. While on holiday it came to my attention that a guy she had 'fun' with between her ex and me has contac... (209 words)

My boyfriend has a very close relationship with his ex, should I be worried or just accept it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here it goes and thanks... This guy I'm seeing for about 3 months seems to have a very close relationship with his ex who's the mother of his two boys. They play hockey together 2-3 times a week, he works for her, then he goes to her house 1-2 times a week.She's married ... (166 words)

Shall I just see how things go even though I don't want a casual relationship, or do I risk telling her how I feel and potentially scaring her off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I slept with a girl drunkenly the other day. She also happens to be a friend/colleague. I wasn't sure whether my feelings for her were anything but friends but now after what has happened I am definitely developing feelings for her. I am starting to get the constant ... (184 words)

She's my Dream Girl. But I'm consumed with jealousy over her past. Can someone help me resolve this huge problem?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - how do I stop thinking about my Girlfriends past and make sure its not the end of our future? I looked at many sites about guys on this subject but Wow all these dudes think they got it bad with like girlfriends having 3-4 partners more then them... I am with the girl of my ... (352 words)

Did I do the right thing? He cheated, and he asked me to tell him when I do forgive him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out today that my boyfriend of two years has been skyping another girl, calling her 'sexy', 'love', 'cutie', all things that he calls me, telling her she's 20 times hotter than me, that he'll think of her when he's in bed with me, etc. I confronted him about it, to... (223 words)

We broke up. How long will it take him to relent and text me back? He thinks I don't trust him any more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A month ago, my boy friend and I broke up beacuse of a fight we had. Got back as friends and were coming back into our relationship and two weeks ago I went to his place for a movie. I was lying on his chest him cuddling me and everything. Things were finaly geting bette... (637 words)

Is this enough? So even though I think he likes me, does he really like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello aunts. Ive looked this question up but honestly it all just seems a little foolish. I have a friend that ive known since elementary school, he's eighteen and recently moved closer to me. I see him everyday and I know he likes me everyone does, they also know i like hi... (249 words)

Is it okay to experiment with women to gain sexual experience even though I won't be dating them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently I was having a chat with a friend and the subject of my virginity came up. He ask why I still choose to keep it because girls our age aren't anymore. He got me thinking that when I do find a girlfriend that she would have slept with many guys already. I kinda got ... (114 words)

I've known him for years My female friend likes him too. He asked me out. How do we tell my female friend without her getting mad at both of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - My friend and I both like the same guy. he has known me since the 2nd grade but he has only known her for a couple months. He and I have been talking for a long time and he has liked me for years now and i really like him too. he asked me out and now we dont know how to tell ... (97 words)

Could Dylan be the one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I’ve been thinking about this guy, Dylan. We’d gone out on two dates back in February. It’d ended as quickly as it begun. He’d made it so easy for me to lose interest with all his talk about superheroes and comic books. I didn’t want to date a ten year old. But for some ... (436 words)

Would you want to know if your partner was cheating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If you were in love and in a happy relationship and you been togather for along time, If you could chose to find out for certin if you were being cheated on would you? Or would you just continue the happy relationship with out knowing for certin? ... (47 words)

How can you tell if love has faded?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been in a long distance reltionship for two years now. My queshtion is, how do you know when youve lost feelings for someone? We love eachother very much, but past couple months i dont know how i feel about this relationship. We don't get to see eachother very often, in t... (602 words)

This man wants to date with no strings attached

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age - man with bagage from last relationship just wants to hang out, no commitment, supper, movie, site seeing, sex and interrested in other women also what should i do?... (28 words)

My boyfriend says we can no longer be together because my family dislikes him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - so hurt, my boyfriend and I have been together, for 3yrs now, and we just moved to Ohio. we get along with each other pretty well, most of the time. But there's this big issue, that keep us from going any future, in our relationship like marriage. and Its my family, my boyfr... (155 words)

Good relationship or good sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I always wanted the relationship, but is having better sex worth leaving? I love my bf with ALL my heart and we are both stable and mature enough to get married. but my friend wants to sleep with me, and unlike my low testosterone bf, this guy can be the first to make me cum ... (63 words)

How do I choose between two loves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I just broke with my boyfriend of over 3 years about a month ago. He was very afarid of commitment and took me for granted.He would always put me down saying I wasen't skinny enough or I didn't waer enough make up...he is also very wealthy and his work was always #1 in his ... (211 words)

He has a girlfriend, but I get the feeling he's into me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met up with an old friend, who has a new house and a new girlfriend, yet he invites me over every week in the evening when his gf is not there. Is he into me? Okay, the above was basically the cliff notes version. Here's a more elaborate description: When I came back fro... (640 words)

I'm really concerned about the way my mother's boyfriend is treating my younger brother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My mum and her partner moved in together 6 months ago, I'm going to be honest I've never liked him. This weekend I've spent the weekend at their house and I'm apalled by the way that he treats my brother who is 13 and I'll try and list some examples. My brother was desc... (472 words)

My girlfriend of 5 years ended things and kicked me out. Now I think she's playing games with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

25 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend of 5 years ended things over something that most of our friends claim was not a big deal because they understood it as a joke. She however is not the joking type sometimes and over-reacted. I understand why she was upset at some of the stuff but she still ... (240 words)