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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I continue seeing this new guy or wait for who I believe to be my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and me are falling in love with each other, he said he is in love with me. Hopelessly I've waited on him for months. But little things make everything unclear and makes me unsure. Like him kissing and flirting with other girls on nights out. Little does he ... (244 words)

If I don't fall in love with a girl does that mean I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hello there guys im so confused right now because i recently liked a girl and then just stopped suddenly. this is not my problem. my problem is that now im starting to think i will never fall in love with a girl and i really want to and have children and a real life, so now i... (109 words)

How can I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm actually going crazy! I've had feelings for this guy for soooo long! we have some history, and i recently found out that he used to have feelings for me. It's impossible for us to be together though, although i sometimes wonder whether he still has feelings for me or not b... (76 words)

Is it me? Or just because he doesn't last long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

- me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half. since we have been together we only have sex once every few weeks. im 23 and he is 29. its not through lack of trying. i try to initiate it most nights but he turns round and goes to sleep. it makes me feel embaress... (198 words)

Am I being portrayed as the underdog?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have known my friend for 5 years and our friendship has grown over years. I have trust issues opening up to people who get close to me, thou I am bubbly and the life and sole of the party and get on with everyone. Most of the time I am perceived as the underdog amongst the ... (296 words)

How should a man treat a women, now a days?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How should a man treat a women now a days, anyways? We se so many shows and have so many social pressures, both on men and women, but mostly on women. Also though i think it's difficult to get to know someone, becuase of that persons past, with relationships. You never know ... (217 words)

Why does my husband think its right to put me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it when my husband puts me down he thinks it's right?i use to be controlling and not allow him to work and follow him everywhere he went and went threw his phone to see what he was doing on his phone and i know that is not right so some of the things i stopped doing ... (222 words)

What are things to consider when planning on getting divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - when planning to get divorced, what are the things to consider. My husband and I are separated and I would like to know what to expect if our marriage does not survive, especially from those in the RSA. Thanks...... (40 words)

I don't know how to find my soul mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello onliners and dears my question goes like this...am now 26 year old middle height length boy i appreciate cute girls, i frequently get such kinds of girls do not get along with me for a long time just because they might love sex or money or sth else rather than long ... (72 words)

Why do girls flirt with other guys and ignore the one they have the crush on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i have noticed this recently, it's not only happened to me but to others. Well i noticed that when a girl likes a guy she does everything to ignore him and get away from him, even when the guy just passes her and says hello, the girl doesnt even look back or anything. W... (229 words)

Is it a good idea to go through with this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an american women dating a turkish guy. We have been talking off and on for the past two years. He comes to virginia beach, virginia every summer on a work visa. We were introdued through texting by my brother which is good friends with my boyfriend. We finally got to meet ... (98 words)

Did my counselor speak in an incorrect way to me in offering to help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Recently I went through a difficult time at home; my mother had a near fatal car accident and is still in the process of recovering. The counselor at my old school heard about the accident and contacted me. He told me that if ever needed to talk could come to hi... (204 words)

Things don't feel right with my boyfriend and I am interested in a guy at work. Things don't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2.5 years and we've had a very bumpy start and mid. At the beginning of the relationship, he wasn't even sure he wanted to date me, but we somehow just started dating. Then, after about 9 months, we moved in which each other and over ... (479 words)

She's messing with my head even though she says she's not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up in march, she fell pregnant with my child and she is 4 months gone. We are trying to get back together or try and attempt but its going wrong all the time. We always argue, she never trusts me and wont let me do anthing without her. It seems she can do... (237 words)

In love with Pisces but attracted to Aries

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4518 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I am currently between my sophmore and junior year in highschool. I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend, we can call her Pisces, since the 8th grade, and have had feelings for her since 7th grade, making it 3 years in a relationship this coming October, and 4 years ... (380 words)

Is it alright to send this love letter?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age - Just hoping for some critiques of the following love letter before I send it. Thanks. Dear J——-, It didn't take me long to recognize you that night long ago. And just as a rose opens its heart to the world with the encouragement of light and warmth, I was also transform... (665 words)

Do posters on Dear Cupid frame their questions in a way that would lead to them getting answers which they unknowingly want?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't a question about myself, it's about all of us in general who post questions here on dearcupid. I think it's an odd set up because, like with any agony aunt site, the only information the answerer has to go on lies with the questioner, and it's got me thinking; is it ... (129 words)

I didn't sign on to this marriage for me to be this unhappy and alone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been together for 26 years, married for 18 years. We did things kinda backwards, had kids, bought a house and then got married. The baby is getting ready to go to college this fall and I have been struggling with what to do with my life after she leaves. ... (281 words)

How can I squirt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, here recently, my guy has started working his way up to the point where he can "fist" me. while it hasn't always felt like the most pleasant thing in the world, i have reached the point where i actually really, really enjoy it. on friday night, he managed to... (229 words)

Is he not interested in me or am I thinking way too much about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have a question about online dating. This is my first time trying it. I met a guy on a dating site and we messaged back and forth for about a month before meeting in person for coffee. The coffee meetup was nothing special but nothing horrible either. He w... (204 words)

Should I just stay cool with my friend's situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey I need some help. I've never done this before but I've never been in this of type if situation. In the start of this year me and my ex broke up after 6 years but out of last fours years we were extremely unhappy even tho she says she was we weren't but way stayed together ... (630 words)

She wants me to be more dirty but now I"m not sure we should have started down this path!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I am really unsure what to make with my girlfriend. We've been together 5 months, throughout May we did not kiss or do anything sexual as she'd commented she felt guilty, plus I had things on my mind so I deliberately didn't do anything. From June onwards, we have bee... (280 words)

Am I getting set up to fall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4519 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I started sleeping and intimately hanging out with a girl i've known for some time now. I really like her and when we're together she seems to be enjoying my company. I am concerned however as this is my first fully sexual relationship and I'm aware that I find it easy to fall ... (205 words)

I feel miserable after I ejaculate/Orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I feel miserable after I ejaculate/Orgasm. I have never been satisfied with masturbation and now I have started being sexually active again after some time I was hoping I would enjoy orgasm more but I get the feelings of being loved up with the person but as soon as I orgasm I ... (72 words)

She's not sure what she is and I never experienced that, how can I help her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently met this girl in the past few weeks where I have started to work, we've hit it off instantly exchanging numbers and emails etc. We have since been in contact constantly and a few comments she makes I did question whether or not she was bisexual. She has said s... (181 words)

My guy has never cheated on me but I give him the 3rd degree after he goes out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my man for almost a year now, we get along pretty well and love each other very much. the one problem that has occured repeatedly is me not trusting him when he is out. i have no basis for this except my past seems to be constantly haunting me, i have been ... (149 words)

I'm not sure what this older co-worker's take is on me. I'm attracted to him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on a co-woker who is ten years older. I noticed that he treats me differently than my other female colleagues and it could be for bajillion different reasons. I was just wondering if someone had any ideas. Different how? Well, for starters- he is very flirty w... (575 words)

Ex lives the good life while I struggle to make ends meet for myself and our child. Should I take him to court?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with my partner for 3 years, we have a two year old child together. I called it quits due to arguing and him not trusting me. So we have been apart for 2 months now, and I am trying to be civil for our child, I have been trying to arrange a routine on when he can have our ... (300 words)

My ex and I have a daughter together and although he has contact with me, he doesn't even try to see her. Whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex who happen's to be my child's father has not been in my life for the past 5 years. No contact from him what so ever. He came back around as he was in the middle of getting a divorce from his wife. His first contact was to try to have a second chance at being in our ... (358 words)

My girlfriend got drunk and cheated, she's devastated but I'm not sure what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4513 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So here's the situation. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months and things were going absolutely perfect for us until yesterday/today. She went out to a pub with a friend on sunday night, she asked me if i wanted to go however i couldnt go due to university work. ... (393 words)

Why am I confused about my feelings between guys and girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a 13 year old girl but since year 3 i have had crushes on many females i have had boyfreinds but i never seem to feel the same way about them as i do women why is that i am confised?... (45 words)

My business partner is flirting with my crush and it's causing major waves in our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here goes. My bussiness partner is well known as a "Playa", so we'll call him P. He and I are friends first, partners in bussiness second. P is known for his success in seducing attractive young girls, something that I will admit gets me jealous sometimes. As long as he ... (707 words)

We both love each other but I am jealous about the men he hooks up with!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 18 and have been seeing a boy on and off for well over 2 and a half years. We're both in love with each other but about 9 months ago I found out that he thinks he's bisexual. At first I was so shocked and thought he was jokin with me. We had a big talk about it which ... (309 words)

I'm 13 and all my friends have a girlfriend except me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - I a 13 year old guy. I want to know if it is wired that I don't have a girlfriend. All of my frIends do and I want to know If it is weird for me not to have one at this age. ... (43 words)

My girlfriend is snooping on me via google!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - not sure what to do here, but my gf had found out about an abortion approx 4-5 years ago in a previous relationship she got upset at me because its something important i failed to tell jer, she said she wasnt checking up on me, but googled my name to send me a message on fac... (265 words)

Too tight after a break from sex.. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been sexually active for almost 5 years with no problem. However recently my boyfriend went away for 6/7 weeks and he came back for a weekend to visit and I found it really hard to have sex as I was just too tight and it really hurt! It hurt him too a bit. We managed it, ... (240 words)

Bro-codes or not? Sleeping with your friends ex girlfriend is suddenly okay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I would love to hear peoples, especially guys, opinion on this. Should a guy date/sleep with his friends ex girlfriend? There's a guy I know, we recently met up to catch up and hear how things are. As we talked he started telling me this story, which I found hard to believe ... (241 words)

It broke my heart and I cried my eyes out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I've never done this before and don't know where to even begin. The other night I did something stupid and went through my boyfriends msgs on facebook. We've been together for just over 5 weeks. We have just started renting a property in both our names on contract. We ... (243 words)

I am crushing on a famous person, and I want to stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this is going to sound beyond crazy, but I don't know what to do. Please don't laugh.. So, I really, really kind of like a guy, but the problem with it is, he's famous, and I've never met him. He's a rapper, and I absolutely love his music, and I love who he i... (162 words)

How can I talk to him? or is it even worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I like this boy a lot. And He graduated this past school year, and going to college pretty soon, considering summer is almost over. Well, I'm only to begin being a junior, so pretty soon, I'll never have my chance. I'm really shy, but I've talked to him once. And he ... (274 words)

Please help me with this crazy relationship..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I'm dating a guy and he is so wonderful and sweet and i love him so much! well at least sometimes he is wonderful.. He suffers from ocd, depression and i don't know what else. he also lies about stupid little things for no reason sometimes big things too. its been over nine ... (566 words)

Girlfriend tells me now that she never liked doing sexual things and only did them to make me happy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm mainly just wondering if I should be telling my girlfriend sorry? Or expressing my draining trust in her? The problem emerged quite recently when she told me that she didn't like talking about sex and that she wanted to wait longer for it. I'm not worried about that, ... (195 words)

Did he want a threesome or was he testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4520 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so when i was in high school sophmore year i kissed a girl just a peck it was like a dare and i never kissed a girl ever again so 2yrs. after i met my boyfriend i told him about it and now 4yrs that we have been togeather he asked me recently if any of my beauty school ... (277 words)

He texts other girls, does that mean he could be cheating too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So ive been dating ths guy for like almost 4months an were pretty close. But how do i know he isnt cheating? i mean i know he texts other girls but is that all..? im not really the jealous type, just the curious type. Please dont comment if your just going to say "talk to him".... (56 words)

My dad's family do not speak to their sister, they haven't for years! Is it too late to patch things up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So my dad and my two uncles (his brothers) have a feud with my aunt (their sister). This is the story (or as much of it that i know). When i was a baby (so about 15 years ago) my aunt kind of went off the deep end. She would call my dad and uncles and just scream their ear... (342 words)

My husband disrespected me, should I go back to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is 4 years older than me, we got 3 kids together he's a great father and a loving husband, he's such a nice guy, meaning he's always out there somewhere letting other women cry on his shoulders whenever they in need for someone to talk to. This got to the point ... (542 words)

I like him but am unsure if he's gay and wonder if I'm misreading his body language?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm unsure if this guy in my welsh class likes me, the truth is I'm 15 and Gay nobody knows so it makes it harder for me to be able to bite the bullet with this situation. I think he's rather good looking and I've always seemed to talk to him without really hanging out like fri... (231 words)

My twin sister and I are dating twin brothers. Is that weird?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - We are identical twins and the guys we are with (4 months) are identical twins and we only just found out because we hadn't met each other's boyfriends before and I'm not sure what we all think of it. It's a bit strange. What should we do?... (47 words)

She saved my life, I want to be friends with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey so i was wondering how i should go about being friends with my ex seeing that she saved my life a year ago and i don't want to lose a friend like that. I know we are not ment to be together cause she moved across the country.... (49 words)

How do I pull her up on her behaviour without hurting her feelings?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have been on rocky waters for the past few years. They married young and have found it hard to keep the passion a live. They have been separated for a couple of years but hadn't verified it exactly. They still live in the same house. Recently my mother began to ... (337 words)