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*harlton
writes:Right okay i have been dating my girlfriend rebecca now for 9 months and yeah i love her but we are always arguing about stupid things and a boy called lewis has been texting her who's in the army and they used to love each other but never told each other.The other day while me and becky was arguing lewis was texting her saying he loves her and he wants to meet up with her before he goes back in the army but she told me about the messages lewis sent her but when she got to my house she told me she deleted them in case i got mad with her and also she is going to meet him next sunday so i said okay yeah you can if you want to.I'm fed up or arguing all the time about other people. there is a girl called laura who likes me she told me yesterday and we're getting on fine as friends. i told her i have a girlfriend and she's fine with that. what should i do as i need advice. should i stay with my girlfriend rebecca or find a new girlfriend and is rebecca hiding things from me? :/
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reader, charlton +, writes (10 July 2012):
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reader, BondGirl72  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 She has told you about Lewis and what is happening with all of it. She has been honest and even was respectful enough to ask you if she could go meet him. If you do not want her to text Lewis and meet up with him, you should be honest and tell her your feelings instead of playing a tough guy. Technically, if she is seeing you, she should not be texting or communicating with other guys at all.
So, what would I tell her. I would tell her if she wants to be with you that you do not like her texting, talking to, and seeing Lewis. You are sorry you told her she could go, but you do not like it because you know he has feelings for her. Also, if she would like to go out with other guys, that you would like to go out with other girls, and that you do not want to be exclusive with her anymore.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 July 2012):
 I don't see how she is hiding things from you, she has been up front and honest with you about this situation, have you asked her why she is going off to meet this guy? Maybe she thinks of him as a friend therefore she is saying a proper good bye to him, at the end of the day you have made a new friendship with a girl who likes you, have you told your girlfriend about that? As long as you are both open and honest with each other then there should not be a problem.
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