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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm at my wit's end and don't know what to do, anymore.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm really at my wit's end, i don't know what to do anymore. I've been together with my boyfriend for 1,5 year now. I'm 25, he's 28. Everything was going great until a few months ago. Here's what happened: my mother never really trusted him (there was his exgirlfriend who still ... (465 words)

I'm having trust issue and my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I'm 18 and I have a male friend. We get on well but he's much older. 12 years older in fact with a daughter. I stayed up his one night because he was down and ever since I did my nan has been different towards me. She has made comments about my parents and their ... (167 words)

I'm not sure how to handle this new revelation about my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am i wrong? Ive got this problem, my husband and i have always been very sexually adventrous, mutual masturbation, threesomes, anal, you name it we have done it. But recently my husband as told me, he thinks he might be bi-sexual, and wants me to watch him have sex with ano... (140 words)

I need some good advice..now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sure this isn't the usual question due to the amounts of sex and relationship questions but I don't know who to turn to. I'm 17, though i'm more mature than most teenage girls my age. The last thing i'm looking for is pity. I've had a pretty rough life. I've b... (344 words)

I think my best friend has a crush on me, but I'm not sure I want a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I hav been best friends with a girl for two years now and things started getting more intament recently but im not sure if i want a real relation ship with her at this point because honestly im still young and want to explore my options befor a commit to the serious ... (72 words)

I'm not sure of is relationship status, but I really like him, and need some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy when i started uni last year and I instantly had a crush on him. I instinctively thought he was too cool for me so I didn't try and pursue it. A couple of months after we started uni he started getting to class early (like I did) and we would chat. He was really ... (422 words)

Is it possible to overcome a SO kissing someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my SO and I are in a long distance relationship for about 20 months. we've seen each other every 3 months or as often as out jobs/school and pocket books allow. out next planned visit is less than a month away. each summer, my SO goes out of state each year to volunteer at camp ... (491 words)

I'm not sure what she's wanting from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m so confused. I met this amazing girl at school in the fall semester of last year and we hit it off pretty easily. We started spending time alone together and eventually had sex. We spent most of the day after that cuddling on the couch watching a couple movies. I ... (353 words)

Can someone explain the difference to me about love and lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Can someone explain the difference to me about love and lust? See I've been crushing over this guy for ages, but I can't decide whether I feel love or lust. I know that only I can tell for sure whether I am in love but I cant decide whether it's just lust. I've been crus... (109 words)

I need some advice on sex toys.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my guy and i have a great sex life; neither one of us have ever had veryy many complaints about it at all. but here lately, i've been wanting to surprise him by spicing things up a little bit. one of the main ways in which i was thinking of doing this is buying s... (161 words)

Is this man too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 years old gay guy and I've something like a question about situation in my life. I'm receiving attention from a man who's much older than me. He's 32, actually very handsome and he does all he can to get my attention. Several times he has asked me to go to the cinema or ... (199 words)

I noticed a small lump at the entrance to my vagina, and it hurts, I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have sex with my boyfriend alot...at the beginning we were averaging around 5 times per day but now 8 months on we're not doing it as much, we have days where we dont do it at all but on average its still atleast twice a day. Well the past week I've been hurting a little... (146 words)

We broke up a month and a half ago and she wont let me see my kids. I need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - will my girlfreind and i broke up a month and a half ago..we have kids..shes started sseing a guy rite after we seperated..i still help her out with our kids..and lately shes wont let me see my kids..its been a week tht i haven't seen my kids i really miss them why do women do ... (237 words)

Is it time to move on and file so I get my rights to my son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My Girlfriend and I broke up after over 2 years. We have had our issues in the past and none have lasted this long. This has been the longest and after 3 weeks she wanted to take it slow. I pushed when I shouldn't have and it made us fall apart. She told me it was done and ... (551 words)

Is it normal if he doesn't talk for half an hour between sentences??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help!!!! (btw my age thing is broken, I'm 16) Right. So. February, I started a LDR with an American guy (I'm Irish). We were great- we had that crazy addicted, thoughtful, romantic, always-on-my-mind kind of connection. I was far from perfect and yet everything was p... (285 words)

I know how to keep this relationship alive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - HEy everyone! So i need some advice, yeasturday i planned this romantic evening for my boyfriend, i knew hes been stressed at work and tired, so i put some rose petals on the bed, fake ones, and his favorite cady, i planned on givinging him a back rub and nothing else, so he co... (341 words)

Do I have cause to be concerned about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age - I have a partner aged 55 and stay at his at weekends, my problem is babysitting his grandaughter. She is 4 years old and i do think she is lovely. My concern is i do not think a young child should share the same bed as her grand parents, i did myself let my children stay in my ... (270 words)

Text I feel neglected and hurt and I have lost all my self confidence.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age - I feel neglected and hurt and I have lost all my self confidence. My husnd who is 10 years yournger than me ( married 20 years) has been a good provider and our life together has had its ups and downs just like any othr marriage. But hrough out the years there has been t... (466 words)

I don't feel like I'm a priority in his life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone i really need you aunty aunt your opinions please give me some advice im in a long distance right now we love each other despite of the absence, we have ups and down but still i always open up to him and talk about it to work it out because i know hes so weak about ... (333 words)

Obsessing over fiance's ex-boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for about a year now,but have known her since we were little. I have been obsessing about her last "live in" boyfriend that she had been with for 2 years. Here's the kicker that makes it difficult... He played football for the NFL and is black.. I ... (178 words)

I need to move forward but don't want to hurt my husband

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - The one thing that is so diff. B/w me and My husband is he wants material things to make him happy. Always has. Yet these things just create more work for him that stresses him. I get happy from the close moments doing nothing that requires $. My life goal is to be completely ... (134 words)

How do I get over someone I never truly had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Back in March, I started to pursue my crush on my friends sister after she initiated contact with me. She asked me to take her fishing and she said yes. My friend then told me that she told him that we were going fishing and that I was going to be her boyfriend. I was siked. ... (455 words)

When will these feelings for my ex go away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why Is this happening to me? I hate my life:(. Mature answers please? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 15 months ago. I loved him so much, I thought we were in love cause of the way he cared about me. All my friends and family thought he was the one for me. He was ... (333 words)

After everything that's happened we want to be together again but I don't know if I can trust her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Plzz help me i am in a very difficult situation.I was in a relationship for 6 yrs and i used to love her alot.I done everything for her everything.Both of our parent was ready.And i was very possesive for her.Everything was going great but before 6 months i jst dnt knw what was ... (378 words)

I need to break up as painlessly as possible, he doesn't have a clue even though I've tried to give him hints!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing someone off and on for the past few months and I need to end things with him. He really likes me and, despite me trying to "clue him in" the past couple of weeks, he's not going to see the breakup coming. I'm seeing him on Thursday (which he no doubt assumes is ... (175 words)

Should I forget my hopes and dreams for a man who might never get his act together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I am planning on going overseas in a month in order to continue my chosen career as there are no opportunities in my country at the moment. I am also going because I want to explore the world and travel. My bf is aware of my future plans but not aware that it will be so soon. I ... (326 words)

Will I ever get the right guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - okay this is going to sound stupid...I am 15 and 16 in a couple of weeks. Okay i feel propar low my ex split up with me and i got over that but still miss him been around every single ex i have been with has cheated excapt him. Also i hear other girls say they lost there ... (168 words)

I feel like he's my only hope but hes talking like we wouldn't last together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 years old and have been seeing this guy who is 9 years older than me. He lives in the same neighborhood and i've known him for a year as friends. Recently we've been hanging out together even more. We go for movies and long drives. I'm totally into him. I love ... (315 words)

Guys, would you be disappointed to know that the girl you're dating had hair loss and wears a wig? Any ladies out there who have gone through this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - This is a question for guys mainly (or for any girls in my situation or who have been in my situation). I have androgenetic alopecia, I'm 23, so I feel I'm too young for this! :( Anyway, for those who don't know, it means I'm losing my hair. Fortunately, women lose their hair ... (393 words)

Why does sex hurt me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was reading a post about a girl that wants to lose her virginity and she got a few answers saying sex shouldnt hurt. Sex often hurts me, practically every time. Im engaged, have children both vaginal births, and am in my early 20s. I have been examined and there are no ... (164 words)

My boyfriend is perfect and makes me happy yet I'm constantly insecure that he would cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 19 and about two years ago i met a guy and a year later we started dating. He's only my second relationship in my entire life. Everything is great, he's so sweet, he's soo good looking but here's the proublem, he's 1,243 miles away. This has been hard on the both of us. ... (410 words)

I think she is manipulating me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 4 years. My wife and I have an 18-month old daughter. We had our ups and downs when we were engaged, but we worked it out. Lately, I feel like she's being emotionally manipulative, and purposely trying to confuse me. Two weeks ago, my wife had a ch... (355 words)

I think she is cheating again .....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I have been with my girl for about 7 months now. She cheated on me around april of 2012 with my best friend. Now she is ating quite strange. She makes conversations short, always has to go, never tells me anything about why she had to go, stuff like that. Well is it bad that I ... (75 words)

I'm only friend material!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Guess I’m looking for whatever advice I can find. I just don’t know what to think anymore. Here’s my problem. I’m a 26 year old guy and I get no interest from girls. Physically I’m 5’9”, 145 pounds, average build, blue eyes, and short brown hair. People who know me would ... (303 words)

Should we just let the china plate go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - This probably is not the most appropriate place to ask this, but: My wife took a plate of cookies to some new neighbors. They weren't home, so she left a note. They haven't returned the plate, and it's been a week or two. To make matters worse they haven't thanked her. Bes... (66 words)

My dad won't come to my wedding!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I recently got engaged to a wonderful man and we are planning a wedding for spring 2013. I've been with my now fiance for about 6 years now, so I feel like my dad should have had this coming. To put it into perspective, my dad had a cold upbringing which has influe... (442 words)

He leaves, I pay, he comes back, I say "hey" she yells I am not being supportive!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I babysat for a friend for 6 months because her baby's father left her. So I only charged her $70 per week so she didn't have to worry about finding a babysitter and can get financially stable. She then got back with her baby's father within 2 months. I don't care that she got ... (294 words)

Am I overreacting or is he being heartless?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I want to try to make this as unbiased as possible, sorry it's so long. My boyfriend and I are searching for an apartment in an expensive city. We are currently long distance, but have not always been. We agreed on a reasonable budget. We are both very picky about our ... (601 words)

Why hasn't he introduced me to his friends? How long to date before moving into relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm new to the world of dating and I'm really confused about how it works. I've been single for about six months now. I've been on some horrible dates; however, about a month ago, I met a guy I really, really like and we've been dating pretty frequently (2-3 dates a week) for ... (577 words)

When I touch myself I don't get any pleasure...is there something wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I always hear about "amazing pleasure" when it comes to clitoral stimulation but when I touch myself I feel it but i don't get any pleasure. The stimulation is actually uncomfortable for me and I don't understand. My significant other said there must be something wrong with me. ... (53 words)

I have a secure marriage and a satisfying affair!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am very torn, and I need advise not criticism pls. Anyways I have started and an affair with one of my husbands friends. It isn't purely physical, I had some feelings for "Bob" for a few yrs prior. And now they have intensified.. My husband is not very affectionate, he... (287 words)

She loves me more than I care for her...can this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay short and simple but really need your views on this. I met this girl and we started dating. Things were going well until she met my sister who did not like her very much and from there it pretty much went downhill. This girl loves me to bits and i have had many girl... (243 words)

Please help...I am deeply in love with my baby's father

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 23 years old and so is he. we've had a 5 year relationship.. after finding out i was pregnant our problems began.. I left him when I was 7 months pregnant because of cheating suspicions . after my baby was born, he moved on dating an older woman at the age of my mother ... (359 words)

How to tell if women are interested in a married man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am moving away from my wife due to work for 6 months. She realizes that as a type of a male I am, it will be hard to abstain from the natural urge of sex. So she told me that if I really need to have sex I can do so as long as it does not turn into a relationship and I do... (236 words)

Should I contact an ex who's been in an accident?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend broke up with me almost a year ago. At first, I had a hard time dealing with it and even tried to get her back a couple of times to my own detriment. I finally gave up and haven't spoken to her in several months. Yesterday, a mutual friend tells me she got into... (122 words)

My boyfriend kicked me out...should I tell his family how he's behaved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Three months ago my now ex boyfriend of a year and a half broke up with me. He said he wanted it to be civil, which it was in the beginning. I had moved to a different country to be with him and we had decided to live together, but he moved out and told me I could keep the ... (182 words)

What should I do post-break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

23 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, got a question about my breakup. I'm 19, he's 21. Been seeing a guy for just over a month now. Decided properly around a couple of weeks ago that I really wanted this to work. We both agreed that he would come stay with me for a week as soon as he had the money to... (898 words)