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writes:Reading 'Fifty Shades of Grey' it's got me thinking about my own next to sexless relationship at such a young age and I wonder and my question is... Can you find someone that you're that attracted to that you feel the spark just ignite when you see them? I want to feel that passion for sex, for them the want and need to touch them, love them! Is it possible?
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (10 July 2012):
 You have to keep in mind that fifty shades of grey is fictional and it is a novel designed to excite women, it is not designed to reflect real life.
However saying that of course you can feel passion in a relationship (probably not to the same extremes as in that book), and you absolutely should want sex, enjoy sex and touch your partner.
If in your current relationship you do not desire your partner, if you dont ever want sex and you dont even want to touch him - then your relationship is not working and you should move on.
I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now and I think I actually 'want' him more now than when we first met. I love touching him, I love him touching me, we have a great sex life and both of us still really want sex frequently.
So you should have a very active sex life, regardless of what age you are - as long as you are with the right person. If he is the wrong person then you wont be bothered about sex and that desire wont be there. It wont be as extreme as that book, because that was written as a fictional novel not based on anything truthful. The author has to exaggerate everything to make it more exciting. But passion and desire should always be present in a relationship, and if it is not present that is a very big issue in the relationship.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (10 July 2012):
YES!! It's possible. It's not usually love but lust. And it's not all bad if you realize what it really is and can just enjoy it.
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