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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm engaged and my parents still treat me like I'm single.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 22 year old Indian male, who recently got engaged to a 20 year old (turning 21) White female. We've been dating for three years, and I felt as though engagement was a good idea. I thought the process, stipulations, and consequences over for months before doing it, and ... (1141 words)

Did I make the right decision in ending this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend came to the statse with a visa that expired a few months ago. He told me that he was planning on going back to mexico this summer to obtain a new one, but evaded it last minute byecause he didnt want to risk not being able to come back. I love him dearly, and ... (193 words)

I had a one-night=stand, he said he would call and didn't. How long should I wait before I delete him as a friend?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So, I had an unplanned one night stand on Sunday. I normally never do one night stands. Only did it once before. I have heard so much from friends about guys being all nice and then never calling back and that has been my experience too last time, so I genuinely didn't expect ... (306 words)

Do employers look at college transcripts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to be a 4th year in university. I attend a reputable business school but I'm a C-average student. B-average within my GE classes. Do employers look at grades? Unfortunately I chose my major when I didn't know what I want so I'm not interested in studying business. ... (166 words)

What are the benefits of having good credit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What are the benefits of having good credit? I always use cash for personal expenses, and my parents' credit cards for big expenses such as tuition and textbooks. My parents are encouraging me to start using a credit card under my name, although they will be paying. They want ... (99 words)

My wife is offended that I don't want cigarette smoking in our new home. What do I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So, me and my wife have this disagreement, it feels like tit-for-tat in alot of ways, so, what do you think? A while ago, we decided to buy a home, and i was planning to give her a puppy, she loves them, who doesn't right? But today, she dropped the bombshell she doesn't wa... (241 words)

How do you deal with a situation when you just can't let go of a person who has betrayed you in a very deliberate and nasty way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Advice really really needed. How would you go about with a situation when you just can't let go of a person in your life. Both you and him are still very much in love and are both hurting very much. But in the past the guy has betrayed you in a very deliberate and nasty way and ... (107 words)

He married someone else so he wouldn't be deported. How do I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i dated this guy for 16 months, he was the best thing that i ever happened to me. he got me out of the worst relationship ever. we got along so great together we were like two peas in a pod, he made me so happy he brung out the real me.. we broke up 3 months ago. because i ... (299 words)

I helped to build the business but my ex won't lend me money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age - My boyfreind/ exhusband and I have been together for over 20 years. Our realsonship has had many ups and downs (hence exhusband) Ten years ago we started a business that has been very sucessfull. Three homes, a forty thousand dollor boat, alot of money in the bank, and a ... (205 words)

She just broke up with her b/f -- does it sound like she's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi I met this girl at work a few weeks ago and as soon as we met we got on really well. I fell for her looks and personality and every now and then she would mention her ex, so I thought she may have been single. However, she later mentioned she had a stable boyfriend. I... (188 words)

Was it wrong timing or does my guy friend actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I made out and ended up having sex with a guy friend while we were both drunk one night. Before we hooked up, we talked about our friends, families, life etc. We've been friends for over 4 years and he is part of my main social group. He says that we have a really "good vibe" ... (278 words)

Why is my husband watching porn when we have sex every week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Can anyone help me out here? I accidentally click on the history on my husband's mobile and realise my husband have been watching porno films in it. In fact, quite oftenly. We have sex like every week once or twice, but I just feel very bothered that he's actually watchin... (113 words)

Do I really owe her money?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys i dont know what i should do about this problem im having with a friend. The problem is she says i owe her gas money but i dont think i do, so i was wondering how do you know if yo do owe some one or not? The thing is she would call me and say hey i got to go to the ... (172 words)

How can I change my feelings?

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5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling really guilty right now, I'm in love with my boyfriend's older brother... but his brother doesn't know. I'm really confused, i love my boyfriend and he gave me the greatest gift i could ever get: a daugther. My boyfriend is really sweet with me, he treats me well ... (177 words)

I'm being bullied, what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Since the year above us left school, everyone has moved back a bit, on the bus. I've been sitting on the back row now for a few weeks. There is a boy who gets on at my bus stop, who also sits at the back. But he has sat on the back row for a few years because of his sister. ... (297 words)

Am I normal for feeling this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I normal or abnormal for feeling like this. I was dating this guy. While I was dating he had someone whom we were sharing him that woman was 5 yrs older than him and I was 2 years younger than him. As I was dating him that other got pregnant and I found out after the child ... (119 words)

Why do I always have to compromise for what he wants, not what We want?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. Yesterday me an my boyfriend we had a fight. My problem with him is that when he want something I have to be the one who has to compromise for everything. Yesterday he was off duty at work. He was at his place. I don't know what he was doing the whole day but when I ... (131 words)

Is it worth it to have my parents put their house in my name now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - can someone help me please with a bit of advice on what to do about parents house. my parents in their 60s but own their own house. im live with them but cause im not working at the moment and finding it hard find work i cant move out. im on the housing list i want to move out ... (174 words)

Is it stupid that I feel love so early?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid I feel so weird because i feel like i'm in love with my current boyfriend. We've only been dating for three months so sometimes i feel stupid for having such strong feelings already but i cant help it. I've never been this way with any guy and usually i get si... (266 words)

How do we tell our parents about this unplanned pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So...going from my previous posts, we have established my girlfriend of 3 months is pregnant and is refusing to have a termination or place the child up for adoption. She is 19 and i am 24. Lou hasn't met my parents yet, i have met her family loads ( i am over most nights... (212 words)

I feel badly because I don't want to hang out with my friend because of her lifestyle and yet I want to help her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - We've been good friends since we were kids... we've definitely drifted apart throughout the years, but we still get together and talk when we can. We are now both almost 23 years old. She's been meeting guys online for years now and I thought nothing of it, it's a good way to ... (315 words)

I'm 24, never had a boyfriend. I don't want to be 30 and still a virgin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and I still haven't had a boyfriend. I went to an all girls school with a mixed sixth form that only had about 5 boys so there weren't really any options there. At univeristy I didn't meet anyone although a couple of my close mates from uni are guys, they are fab ... (452 words)

How do I not sabotage things in this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my current boyfriend for about 5 months, but I've known him for about 4 years. I can say without a doubt that this is the happiest I've ever been. The problem isn't with him... It's me! He treats me like a princess, but I'm very scared that I'm going to mess this ... (157 words)

Are we going through a phase? Or has the flame died out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i dont know how to start but i guess i have to start somewere,its quite a story but thanks in advance to who ever might be patient to go that far i'v been dating this girl for about 3 to 4 months now,things zoom of so fast,we were chatting in a site like that almost everyday... (386 words)

What is going on with my FWB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi sorry if this will be long I am totally in love with my former fwb we met 18 months ago and the first few weeks were amazing he made plans where we going to go for meals and mentioned going on holiday n things like that my daughter met him as he wanted to meet her which I ... (237 words)

I'm in love with him, I want us to be exclusive but he has a partner

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm at my wits end. I've been having an affair for 3 years. I am separated from my husband. It started out as just sex with this man. However, It has developed considerably, especially in the last year. We have talked about being together. He said he would need time, to so... (433 words)

Boyfriend mentally abusive because he cannot forget my escort past

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This situation is extremely complicated, but here goes. I am currently teetering on the verge of insanity due to an extremely psychologically, and emotionally abusive relationship with a man who cannot forget my past as an escort. I met this man whilst doing voluntary work aro... (1482 words)

I think my boyfriend is abusive, I'm not sure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi.... I am in a bit of a situation. I am 25 years old and had a number of long term relationships. I have been in a relationship with this one guy for the past year and a bit and i think it got to a point where it is abusive. We have done a lot of nasty things to each other ... (774 words)

My partner want to try sexual positions like in "50 shades of grey" and I'm not confortable with it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, sorry if this seems a bit long but here I go. I've been with my partner for 4 years now, we're in a loving relationship, lifes been good, however, the sex part's worrying me. It's not that we're having too much or too little sex, it's that he wants to try some of the ... (157 words)

Girlfriend too busy with texting to make time for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been trying to talk to my gf of 4 years about some issues we have been having, mainly her texting, facebook etc all night and how basically I have to say can we watch tv together/ spend time together and shes like yeah at about 11:30pm, then by the time she has logged ... (247 words)

Had sex with a guy friend but I have a boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone. So I need help. I cheated on my boyfriend of 5 years with a guy friend I've known for about the same time. My boyfriend and I are not as passionate and our relationship is slowly falling apart.. I have a tight group of friends and my one guy friend is pretty... (423 words)

I'm very jealous of girls around my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello all, I'm in a bit of a pickle. I have a problem with getting unnecessarily jealous of girls around my boyfriend. The girls I worry about most ARE ones who he has had feelings for in the past, or ones who have actively made efforts to break him and I up. I know he won't ... (107 words)

Are children a dealbreaker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, a little survey i have. I was watching a tv show, and the woman in question wanted kids, the man already had a grown son and didn't want anymore. The woman just rolled over and agreed to no children! I want children when im older, i think if the guy i love doesn't want ... (92 words)

He's married and drinks alcohol. I'm married. His wife is jealous. It's an Emotional relationship. Does he mean it when he says he loves me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having an emotional relationship with my co-worker who is married. His wife also suspects this and is jealous. There is nothing serious a thing to make a fuss about because i dont take things seriously,but he is very serious.He likes to hang around with me and he said he l... (138 words)

Dating for four years, we have a child together, and he still hasn't introduced me to his other children.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfrien for 4 years. I've known him for 10. He has a 9 year old son and a 16 year old son with 2 women. I've seen his youngest son a few times but he didnt formally introduce him to me. Ihave never met his older son. We now have a 2 month old baby and he ... (140 words)

How do I take this relationship to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on and off again with the same guy for over a year now. There is a lot more detail I wish I could give to the situation but to spare the essay I'll sum it up as best I can. This is not my first relationship, I'm 24 and I've been in two long term serious ... (238 words)

He's moved on, I haven't, and it's eating me up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all, My boyfriend and I of 2 years broke up about 2.5 months ago. He's in the Marine Corp and it really wasn't a mutual break up, nor a pleasant one. I wanted to stay in the relationship but he felt he was no good for me (not sure if that was a line..). Since then, ... (263 words)

At summer school together. Do you think she really likes me more then friends, even while she is dating her bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there everyone! I hope your enjoying your summer right now, while I'm at summer school. -.- O well. I need help on something. There's this girl I like right now at the moment since last November. We meet at a social networking site where you get to meet you people and a... (457 words)

Why am I still in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This man and I dated for almost 6 yrs.We lived together for 5yrs.9 months ago we bought a house together.He helped raise my 2 kids.Everyone thought we were perfect together.We talked about marriage. 2 months ago he told me he wasnt in love with me anymore.He said we were going ... (145 words)

Is my boyfriend being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This may at first sound like I'm seeking money advice, but bear with me! I need to explain everything in case you get the wrong idea! Boyfriend and I will be soon moving in together. The flat is actually owned by our flat mate who will be sharing the flat with us. Unfortun... (170 words)

Some varied ideas sought, please, on ideas for a first date to ensure it is good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

5 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i'am planning on going out with this girl and i was wondering...what would be the best place to go out on a first date? My plans where to go to a romantic french restaurant, that got amazing reviews with an amazing chief or so it has been said. Is this too much or woul... (94 words)

Don't want to drift apart from my straight colleague.Should I send her a letter to express my true feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

5 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have started to develop feelings for a friend. This wouldnt seem so bad except i am a gay woman and she is 'straight' and has.a boyfriend. I explained to her soon into our friendship, after a few too many drinks thay i liked her and wanted to kiss her...she said n... (198 words)