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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I've lived in the same small town my entire life and it's getting depressing. I need a change. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling depressed recently due to many things. Mainly school, growing up, and love. I'm going to be a senior in college and I'm studying business. But I hate business because I dislike math. I can't stand all these graphs, numbers, and logic but I didn't know this ... (307 words)

My Marriage is slowly disintegrating;

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I separated from husband 4months ago. We're married for 5months. I found an excuse to get out since i felt emotionally abused. He made every discussion and living very difficult and we just never saw eye to eye,(finances, household chores, living arrangement, emotional support ... (175 words)

Does my anger toward my boyfriend's drinking reflect deeper issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey dearcupids! some advice would be very much appreciated. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months and are in a happy relationship. He treats me better than any man has ever treated me before and is always there for me when I need him. I've been through a lot th... (808 words)

Should I be on my guard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - 3 and a half years ago I fell in love for the first time with a girl that I met at university. Unfortunately I don't think that love was reciprocated - a friend of a friend also had his eye on her and made his advances. My friends tell me she couldn't decide whether to get with ... (863 words)

Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so i was dating this person for over a year and we broke up cuz he constantly cheated on me and lied to me throughout our relationship. so we've been talking cool and a girl pops up starts trying to be cool with me on fb and i look at his page and notice she's been tagging him ... (139 words)

Even though I'm with her, I still feel incomplete and unfulfilled.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

21 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the thing, I'm with a girl that I use to be short term friends with. She's a great girl and everything but I just don't feel any real love towards her. How did I up with her then? It all started a couple months ago when I use to flirt with girls that met my fancy. Un... (719 words)

He is willing to give me up if I want a more secure relationship ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - A person who doesn't like expectations and commitment in a relationship but tells you he is in love with you and the love is real and pure. Is this love or just playing games? I am in love with a person who tells me this and my relationship with him has been gone to 6 yrs bu... (173 words)

Is is possible to find only one person beautiful?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend told me that he only finds his wife beautiful.Is it possible? I've searched on the net a bit about it and found 7 men and 10 women who says they only find their gfs or bfs beautiful. Are there these kind of people?... (47 words)

I think I am always going to be second best.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few months now and i'm a little worried. Around a year ago he had just broken up with his last serious girlfriend of 2 and a half years and it really affected him and i know he's still a bit hung up on her. He always t... (517 words)

Sometimes I wish she would just yell at me so we could make up!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

21 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Well it's been awhile since I got divorced, thanks for the help Aunts. I now have a new problem. I started dating a wonderful woman last October and things were wonderful. Having been in an abusive relationship though I have had a lot to learn about dealing with someone who... (379 words)

Are some people meant to be single?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age - I have been dating a guy for 2 or 3 months now, after a shaky start when I didn't think his relationship history was great. Fast forward to now, I should have seen him twice this week but made excuse the first time and just didnt reply to message and call the second. All we s... (248 words)

I love him from afar ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi you see cupid i go to this place and i meet lots of people and there is this one guy who is... amazing he is perfect. he makes me nervous but makes me feel like i should be who i am around him it breaks my heart to be without him and its like he completes me. yet we are not ... (128 words)

Is he bragging or telling the truth about my Mother?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

21 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - ok, some advice please. i'm 19 yo male currently at home for summer from uni. At home is my mum who is single and divorced and my younger brother 15. Last night we had a party at the house for my mums 46th birthday. About 25 people came and it was a great time. BUT, today a ... (305 words)

Action wanted, not just words!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi fellow advice givers, I am dating my boyfriend of almost two years now and I have a few things I need help with. 1.) In all of my relationships, whether it's romantically with another guy, friends, or family, I have always been the giver and I usually get stepped on/d... (389 words)

How do I make my boyfriend break up with me ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - He is 26. I am 19. We are in a serious relationship and we have gone far in our relation. But he is very much possesive and feels insecure all the time.. He puts alot of restrictions on me.. He is very much bossy.. He decides where to go, where not to go.. He decides what to ... (143 words)

How do I get him to leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My situation is my boyfriend of 2 years is living with me in my flat where I pay the rent and he makes and will continue to make a contribution "when he can" in his words, and the reason for this is that when we were very "in love" in the beginning he had to move out of his ... (237 words)

I am not ready to move in with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So, my bf is pressurising me to move in with him, and is starting to say things that are really immature and I don't know how to gently keep on explaining why I'm not ready to move in without getting a little frustrated! We've been together 20 months, live 15 mins from each ... (634 words)

Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave the house by sept and we live ... (225 words)

Our relationship is going really well, but I keep getting doubts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is about a relationship im in since 7 months...My gal is a rotary exchange student and that's how we met. I had never been in a relationship before this and neither has she..actually she has but she says it was hardly considerable. She is an American and im from ... (265 words)

Why do the sparks have to die?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - im a 41 r old and i have been in a relationship with a guy for 8yrs and the last few months i havent been sleeping with him i dont know why.i seem to blame it on the fact that there is like no action in the bed.sex is like every 3 months or so.i give up.please help me to ... (67 words)

Is it for the thrill of it all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age - Hi Aunts, I have a question i would like to ask you all,as i can't seem to make any sense of it. I have been having a affair with a married man for quite some time,years actually,so please if any of you are going to preach to me that i'm doing wrong please don't answer me,that ... (236 words)

Our date nights are boring, and not what I like to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im having some issues with our date nights. My bf and i live together and have two children. When we have a date night, whether we have a bby sitter or not we tend to do the same things. We either go out to a movie go out to dinner rent a red box vid or game and thats about it. ... (173 words)

He says I am becoming obsessive and we need a break!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice... and fast! Me and my boyfreind have hit a rough patch, its like im the only one trying in the relationship, hes been stressed and i know that but he doesnt show me he cares anymore, i asked him 2 call me twice! at different times and... nothing then today i ... (213 words)

Basically, I just want him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY THIS IS SO LONG!! Long story short- Myself and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago to the day as life just seemed to be against us basically; due to other commitments we didn't get to spend enough time together. Mainly on his part- his long working hours. We got into a big ... (978 words)

I don't want to make the wrong move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4506 days ago

21 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - A friend of mine, who happens to be a girl, has been hanging out with me a lot more, lately she even fell asleep in my bed, and when I woke up she had her arms around me and her head on my chest, she claimed to be shocked waking up in this situation, I can never get any kind of ... (192 words)

He has orgasms regularly and I have almost none... any tips? I'm feeling very jealous!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

21 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My current sex life is great apart from one fact - my boyfriend gets a lot more pleasure than i do. I get a lot of pleasure from sex and foreplay but almost never climax from anything, and when i do, it takes a looong time. We have already tried the g-spot idea several times, ... (135 words)