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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Chief bridesmaid but I feel fat. How do I get over my confidence crisis before the wedding?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm having a crisis of confidence at the moment. I'm chief bridesmaid at my sister's wedding in a few months and am so excited about it. I've been dieting really hard and have lost a stone but I still look so fat. The thought of the photos etc is making me cringe! What can I ... (56 words)

I lost my bestfriend to his girlfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I had a Friend who was one if my best friends. In fact he was more like the little brother I never had. About a month or so ago, he got back with his ex, who had cheated on him in the past. He said at the time, he felt like he was making a huge mistake, but he loved and miss... (538 words)

B/f depressed because we're long distance and it worries me that he might end things

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. It is around a four hour drive. Due to us both working for the summer I have only gone to visit him once. It was great when I did. We go to the same college during the year and only have a little more than a ... (885 words)

Why am I always the 'friend' and never the girl friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not unattractive and I click with men very easily and I have been very close with them , obviously not at the same time and they have been single ,looking for love like me , but there always seems to be a piece missing in their eyes.What am I doing wrong ?... (54 words)

Always the friend never the girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Why am I always the friend and never the girlfriend? I am not unattractive and I seem to click with men very easily, but friends is all it becomes, what am I doing wrong?... (34 words)

Is my weight the reason I can't get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've convinced myself that my weight is the reason I can't get a boyfriend, I'm 14, 5,5, 12st. Is this normal? I go through stages where I get really tall and skinny, then bulk out again. Is this the reason I cant get a boyfriend?... (45 words)

I think the wedding's off, the relationship is off and where did it all go wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me please, Im afraid that a 4 year relationship may be at its end and Im not sure how we got here! Just yesterday I went up to edmonton to pick up my dress! and then today everything went from bad to worse to full out war! Let me explain how this all went down and m... (849 words)

Why would a man not talk about his girlfriend and keep her a secret?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to know why a guy would not talk about his girlfriend around you. Ever. If you ask him a question about her, he will answer with one word, go silent and change the subject. He goes out of his way to tell you that he is alone on a Friday night. He always says what ... (99 words)

My parents did not accept the man I did like. Will I never find the right man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.i am 29 yrs old female from India.my older sis in 33 yes old she got married when she was 27 to ths guy she liked.mu family loved their family and they r happy together so everything worked out good for her.i started dating a guy 4 yrs back tht my family didn't like and said ... (935 words)

How do I get over an ex boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i was going out with a boy for a year and a half, but he suddneley didn't feel the same anymore, but i still have all the same feelings for him and i dont know if that is a good thing or a bad thing? how do i get over him??... (51 words)

Everyone says that long-distance dating is hard... but is it worth it to give it a try?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I recently met this guy, and he's really great; he's good looking, caring, sweet to me and everything I could ask for. The only problem is, he lives 15 hours away, and the only way we can talk is through texting and skype. He said he's really falling for me, and that maybe next ... (109 words)

Can I be crushing on two guys at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I just met these two guys who are best friends, and we hit it off really well. All week we've been staying up all night together, texting or skyping, and i'm starting to feel something like a crush. The problem is, it's for both of them! I don't know if it's possible to ... (115 words)

Have you ever lost interest with someone that you have a serious relationship with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am very confused! Please help me understand my feelings! I think that I am horrible person, I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Recently, he was very distant, for like 2 weeks. I would IM/text him and he would answer hours later,or I would try to strike up conver... (263 words)

Does everyone fantasize during sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question about masturbation and fantasies. I'm 33 and have been with my bf for a year. Last night we were having sex and after it was over we were lying in bed and the subject of masturbation came up. I made the mistake of asking what he was thinking about when he's ... (252 words)

My daughter has blindly accepted a woman as her sister who may or may not be her sister

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age - A 38-year old woman approached me through a private FB email stating that she is my daughter. I did have a one-occurrence sexual encounter with her mother. The mother approached my wife (we had been married only a few months) and I when the child was about 5 years old. We gave ... (342 words)

My fiance lied and never told me his ex had been pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 7 weeks pregnant, living with my fiance who I have been with for 3 years but only lived with for the last 2 and half years. When we found out we were pregnant my fiance was beyond excited...I on the other hand am a ball of mixed emotions. Last night I was hanging out with ... (290 words)

Influenced by his new friend, he has filed for divorce!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - just over a month ago my husband of almost 12yrs left me we had been together 15yrs.the main problem for me was the fact that my husband had a new friend who would do everything he could to seperate us when we was out on a night our other friends noticed this was happening and ... (306 words)

He seems distanced from me since he met her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together 2.5 years now. We both in our early to mid 20s. He lives in a houseshare and I live with parents. Around 3 weeks ago my bf was sent to work 100 miles away and the company has put him in a hotel. He works 5 days and returns at the weekend. Eve... (393 words)

I feel like the third wheel in the relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - This is kind of an awkward situation for me. My boyfriend has a four year old son. Well anyways, he brings me his ex's house with him to visit his son. I find it rather awkward to be hanging around an ex of his all of the time. I don't really talk to her and she doesn't talk to ... (180 words)

Should I continue masturbating? is it normal for a thirteen year old like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi I am thirteen and I masturbate 5 or more times a week. I've been masturbating for nearly a year now but every time i do it makes me feel uncomfortable with myself. What do I do? Is what I am doing normal? Please I don't know what to do I need to know if it is norma... (108 words)

What are the possible reasons why he's ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Here is my story.. Okay so i met this guy..At first we was only friend..But though we both liked each other..Unfortunately he had a girl in his life..since the past 7 years..That is the reason why we remain friend..But gradually he started telling me that he love me...and so... (199 words)

Is 11 inch height difference too much? People keep telling me she is too short for me.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, My height is 6'1½" inches, she is around 5'3" we have nearly 11 inch height difference. We have been together for half a year I have never thought of height difference as a problem. I'm OK with it. I love her and we are planning our future together. But recently ... (140 words)

I hate this job so much but don't think I should resign

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I just don't know what to do. I've been doing the same thing at work for the past 3 years with no promotion as there are no promotions at the government institutions except if you apply and move out but unfortunately I've tried everything and nothing seems to work. ... (101 words)

Is he shy or is he not interested in me? any suggestions? I really like this guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I've known for about 3 months is really driving me crazy. He was interested in me at first, i think atleast, cause he randomly chatted me up on facebook. It was this guy I met when I passed by my old school, he was with some people that I knew (I didn't know him ... (471 words)

I'm not sure if I want a gay relationship or to be able to have a family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, im 17 and bisexual from Australia. Lately i've been going crazy over my sexual orientation. At times i think im gay, and im happy about it. I'd love to be in a gay relationship for the rest of my life, but at the same time, i really want a straight relationship. I'... (123 words)

Was I used in the beginning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 19 years old and I have been together with my BF for 7 months now. Everything happened so fast, we met at a party and in less than a month we were together. I felt things were being rushed but he couldn't wait to make our relationship official through Facebook. He told me ... (797 words)

I feel trapped by my circumstances - Do I stay in a country where I am unhappy, or do I leave without my child?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age - Dear All, I feel trapped in a complicated situation - I feel as though I am only living half a life. I am a black-British woman (50yrs old) living and working in Austria for 10 yrs. My then husband (white-British), son and I moved here for his job. We divorced in 201... (565 words)

Is it weird that I am still single? I always worry what people think of me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been single now for 7 years. I am 25 years old.I am beginning to think there is something wrong with me. It's either I meet guys who aren't interested in me or guys that I am not interested in but they are. I have been on many dates but the ones I like never seem to want ... (103 words)

Is my ex girlfriend still in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I dumped my g/f 4yrs ago, she was always asking of me through relatives when I was away for 10 months (2yrs ago)... She's currently dating someone but she always seems to try getting my attention, to which I show no interest whatsoever. She even teases her boyfriend in front ... (91 words)

Marriage problems. What should or can I do? I feel like starting over. What are some options?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4532 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I really do not want to share this with friends or family. I have been in a relationship for 15 years and married for 4. I have 3 children, work full time and try my best to manage career, husband, children and home duties... Lately, I feel not only burned out, but out of t... (196 words)

How do I move on after she ignored me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was seeing this girl but we weren't officially together...at first everything was great. We would text all the time and give each other cute nicknames, but than she just stopped talking to me for no reason whatsoever. At first I thought to myself...what did I do wrong? and ... (137 words)

I lost my best friend because of lies but I want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

22 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - This is about me and my best friend. I didn't act like a best friend at all. I lied to my best friend about my life, I made up stuff about myself that wasn't true that I told 3 people and when I met my best friend in February I planned on not lying to her and putting the lie ... (229 words)

Romantic night romantic enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need advice, im planning a romantic night for my boyfriend tomorrow night so i need answers asap! i planned on lighting 2 candles "the room is small) and getting some rose peddels putting some on the floor and bed, buting a 12 pack of his fav. soda and putting them on the ... (71 words)

We broke up and I want him back!

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22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 days ago because he thought I was spying on him but I was not it was all because I was jealous.but he does not get that. After breaking up, the 1st day I was angry so he told me hi but I ignored, and so the 2nd day he started ignoring. I ask him ... (131 words)

He knew I had feelings for him and I"m the only one he's told that he's gay. It hurts being friends with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a very difficult situation lately. I met this guy almost two years ago and almost immediately we were in contact every day. It wasnt long before I developed really strong feelings for him, to be honest I thought I had finally met the one. He knew I really l... (259 words)

I got dumped for going to a strip club!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok I have a girl friend and she broke up with me because I went to a strip club with my friends on a company trip is she over reacting we been dating for 9 months... (36 words)

I am so sad. Was I just a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody-i would really appreciative if anyone would give my a honest assessment of what is going on ! I met a guy 4 months ago, he is friend of a friend. He was really nice and sweet to me. he added me on social site and showed interest in getting to know me. i blew ... (511 words)

Does he want to know me better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4536 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I would love some advice from you guys because I don't know how to read this situation I met a guy online and after messaging back and forth for a month we decided to meet. We ended up having coffee and talking. I wouldn't say the meetup was amazing and there was instan... (145 words)

I used to be a bully!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was in 5th grade, I was bullied really hard by this girl. It seemed like everyone was mean to me because they were too scared to stand up to her. Anyway, there were a few kids she also bullied. I was desperate to make her like me, so I bullied them too. It went down a ... (147 words)

She confessed she had a crush on me, but is that still true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

22 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, So here's the problem. 2 years ago I've transfered into a new school. And I've fallen in love with this girl whom I just met this girl. Her childish behaviour, heartly smile, and her angelic face and the good thing about her is that she never had a boyfriend and ... (327 words)

How to keep a guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

22 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this as short as possible. My question is more how to keep a guy. My problem is, I never seem to be able to stay in a relationship, or even let it get to a serious relationship. The thing is, it's me that breaks it, not them. I just can't figure out why I end ... (177 words)