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Archived questions from: 14 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why do girls always take advantage of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - im a very keep it to myself type of guy, this means that i never make the first move on a girl. So the result of this pretty introduction is that i dont get girls to date me. Bear with me on this for a moment :D ill get to the point :D right! Since i can remember ive had 3 ... (238 words)

What would be positive signs that he's interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I work with a man 10 years younger than myself, and, over time, have become attracted to him. I get the feeling he is interested as well. I have seen him watching me every now and then, he'll find me working somewhere and start chatting away, tries to make me smile and laugh ... (275 words)

B/f cheated, I kissed my ex and now I'm really confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I ask for advice, not to be judged as I know what I did was wrong, please. I have a boyfriend I care very deeply about, a few weeks ago I caught him texting a girl in a way that was massively inappropriate and wrong. After confronting him, we talked it out, and he admitted he ... (368 words)

I told my fiance I wanted to break up so she took our daughter away and now I'm really depressed!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there i am at a loss... my fiance well ex fiance now, i live with her and have a beautifull 15mnth daughter. i have not been happy in the relationship for about 6-7 months now and have been with her for 5 years, i have said that i think we should finish since i am so miser... (207 words)

I'm stressed out and worried all the time. Please tell me I'm not insane!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Aunts and uncles... Please tell me im not insane. I think i have depression... I feel sad everyday and suddenly hve such a negative attitude which i hate, cancer has attacked my family and its took its toll throughout us all, ive been stressed with exams, distanced myself from ... (119 words)

My b/f is still in contact with his ex and I feel he's comparing me to her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I've got an issue with my boyfriend and I was wondering if you guys could help. We've been together a couple of months now and so far everything has been great. He's the nicest guy I've dated and treats me really well. However, there has been something in his be... (654 words)

LDR b/f sent me a package and says I can't open it until we're on the phone together. What could it be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So i've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for a little while now (9 months)and he kind of popped the question i think over the phone... obviously there's no ring yet. I told him I wasn't too concerned about a ring. He said he spoke with his mother and grandma the ... (188 words)

My wife cheated on me and is now worried that I'm cheating on her. Its causing a great deal of stress in our home

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I had recently discovered that my wife of 12 years was having an affair for past one year. I confronted her with the evidence I had and she admitted it. She has promised to end the affair, which I presume she did, and work on marriage. I do not want to divorce her because I ... (195 words)

I get so emotional before my period! How do I make these mood swings go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so incredibly emotional during the week before my period. I end up taking it out on my boyfriend. It's getting worse every month. I go to bed sobbing and wake up perfectly fine. I tell my boyfriend things like he doesn't think I'm good enough and he's just has no idea ... (72 words)

I know he doesn't love me so why would he want me to have his baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The man I am seeing is "complicated" but I like him a lot and though our involvement is risky, we are trying to see how things will go. Anyway, we were making love today and during the act, he told me that if I missed a period and conveived, he wants me to go through with the ... (156 words)

G/f texting her ex and tells me not to worry. I don't want to get angry so easily!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am experiencing a problem. I get mad way too easily. My girlfriend, who I've been in a relationship for a month, had a fling with a guy for about 6 months, they had sex, etc.. the whole ordeal. It all stopped when I came along, and she also stopped talking to him. ... (270 words)

How do I confront my boyfriend about talking to other women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to figure out how to confront my boyfriend talking to other women behind my back?? I am afraid he will deny doing this and the proof has already been deleted and there has not been any other proof since I checked his phone the first time.. He deletes all of the ... (60 words)

Why does he look at pictures of him and his ex-wife?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm an adult and has been very serious with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We both are divorced, him more recently, and I found that he has been looking at some pictures of them together from a few years ago that are on his computer. They are nice pics of them looking very ... (131 words)

Should I still be her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well me and this girl have been best friends since middle school. Her mom and step dad sheltered her extremly growing up. Her mom was raped when she was 13 and and had her a year later she was raped again and her son. her and her brother are a year apart and and when i ... (410 words)

Depressed guy at start of short long distance relationship. Any advice would be great!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Hi I think im suffering from depression from a short long distance stint with my GF. Shes been living with me for the last 8 months and we've spent a lot of time together. Shes now working abroad for a month, will return for a month then will move 300 miles from me again to ... (383 words)

I want a dominate male in the bedroom and my boyfriend just isn't one!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been thinking about the relationship I have with my boyfriend of 4 yrs lately. We have not been intimate in a while and I thought it was me. I thought that I just didn't want to have sex (we used to all the time). I have met another man that makes me want to have sex all ... (282 words)

I didn't let him touch me and now he's ignoring me. Did I handle the situation wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this guy at the weekend who I know through mutual friends and we went on a first date in the week. The drinks were flowing and we were having a smashing time, it was like the night should never have ended. I felt so comfortable. Anyway he suggests going to his house, to ... (131 words)

How do I end the drama with my baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Well my gf and I had broken up almost a month ago. We dated for 2 plus years and have a child together. Recently I was caught lying to her and she ended it while upset. We went back and forth and it hadn't gone anywhere. So finally I just gave up hope and all the sudden she ... (1119 words)

I'm a 44 year old virgin, 1st time will be with escort. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted an earlier question about losing my virginity to an escort agency because i have never had sex or been on a date. Many thanks for the responses!! Someone answered that i couldn't possibly be so ugly, well you don't get to be 44 and not dated if you are not ugly. I ... (288 words)

Fell in love while on holiday. Will he wait for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have just read something on here, and she was in the exact same position as I am in. I am 16, and have recently just come back from a holiday in Turkey, I fell in love over there, and I was with him every night. We have been together for about a month now and obviously ... (200 words)

I've caught him cheating 3 times. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - The first time I caught him emotionally cheating on me was when I saw flirty messages that he exchanged with some girl while I was pregnant and excited to show him our baby's first ultrascan. The second time was when I caught him chatting and flirting with college girls online. ... (87 words)

Should I continue to give her support? Or is she using me? Should I distance myself from her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi there, I m male 42, married. Couple of years back, we came across a divorcee (46, self employed) and now she is good friend of us. We used to visit her home once a week for drinks or just chat, go movie / restaurant together once a month. She had a boy friend whic... (352 words)

How do I tell my sister to accept herself and let a guy into her life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice on giving advice. My sister is helping me move into my new apartment and we were talking and for some reason, sex came up. She confessed she's still a virgin at 25 and she was worried about it. Honestly I don't know what to say. The idea of holding out that ... (370 words)

Will I still bleed the first time I have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin buh a week ago i masturbated nd fingered mysef then i notice dat i'm not as tight as before.do u tink i will still bleed when i decide 2 hav sex?... (34 words)

LDR b/f has never understood that I'm stressed about my studies. Now he hasn't contacted me in a week!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone sorry if this is long but please take time to read this, i am 22 years old and have been in a relationship now for 4 years, in the begining we fell in love and it felt like magic but we used to fight alot mainly because he doesn't talk much, i dont know but he ... (539 words)

How can I stop my 2 year old from calling every guy he meets daddy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a single mother of a 2 year old boy. His father is not currently around and has only seen him a handful of times in his whole life. Hasn't seen him in months. The problem is everytime I go to a function or hang out with friends every man thats around that interacts with my ... (213 words)

How do I talk to girls with confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i am a 17 yrs old boy i am 5"and something tall and i m little dark skinned i never had been in a relationship before so i feel very shy to talk to girls.i talk to very few girls and i have very few female friends . But now i feel like incomplete and i need to get a gf. Pls ... (72 words)

Does this married older woman want to sleep with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok im 21 and i work in an office with only one other male, all the rest are female. There is one woman in the office who is constantly flirting with me and complimenting me--and i mean outrageously. At a recent night out too she stayed with me all night, then insisted on ... (96 words)

Why did he say "keep your looks"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi this is just a quick question my fwb ended things with me after 18 months well I think he has ended it with me as I haven't spoken to him for a few weeks he started complaining that he always gets in touch with me even though I do text him but the last time we spoke he said ... (80 words)

Why does my ex say hello in person and then block me on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up a few days ago. I ran into him at the mall today. He came up to me to say hello and how are you, then we said bye. Then tonight I logged onto Facebook and saw that he deleted me. What is this conflicting behavior? ... (51 words)

My fiance was killed in the army and I don't know how to make myself keep going

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a CNA working overtime constantly to keep my mind occupied while my fiance has been in the Army. I've been working towards my nursing degree when I got the worst news any young woman whose man is in the military could get. Its been a month since my world stopped turning and ... (168 words)

B/f had picture of his ex in his email. Should I worry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years now, and we live together. Just recently he had his e-mail open on my laptop and I found that he had pictures of his ex-girlfriend (who was horrible to him and cheated on him, who he also won't even name by her first name, ... (374 words)

Why did he say we'd meet and then he blocks me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf had an argument 3 weeks ago we talked again and things were getting better. We started meeting again everything was normal. I met him day before yesterday and I was supossed to meet him and he told me he will let me know the time and after some hours all of a ... (148 words)

Loss of a family member and a boyfriend, how do I pick myself up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there! I know everyone has a bad year now and again, and i guess this is mine, i suppose my main question is how do you deal with things all in one go? a close family member of mine had been fighting cancer for 6 years passed away a few days ago, and although im glad s... (205 words)

He says he loves her She plays him She says she loves him He says its over. I need some advice. Help please!!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my man have been together for just over two years I played him up until today I have always told him i loved him He has always told me he loves me He really did love me I didn't know what love was Until today I opened up and told him how i felt How much i... (129 words)

Do I still love my husband and want attention?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am Planning to split with my husband of 12 years since he's been cheating, controlling and rude and I said I wanted out coz I just felt completely devoid of love for him and even felt I was getting attracted to other men which is very unlike me... and now though he says he's ... (256 words)

I'm getting married in 2 months and I've been thinking of a woman crazily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help! I'm a girl who's going to get married with a funny loving man. I haven't ever fancied women at all. But there's a woman whom i've been working with on a project. The way she looked at me and smiled at me was not like the others. This morning we had ... (218 words)

I did the wrong thing. but so did she by flirting and cheating. Where do I go from here with the relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 3 good years. i recently started suspecting something as she never wanted me to touch her phone. i kept it cool till one day i decided to just grab it and see what was the reason. what i found was heart pounding, she had ... (159 words)

Is this relationship worth all the pressure he is putting on me to have a baby and move in with his parents?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Here is my story. My bf and I are in a slump and a lot of crap has happened between us and now I'm being pressured by him. I feel super lost right now. I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 2 1/2 years and before all the trouble began, we had reached a decision that we w... (654 words)

How do I get rid of my younger lover without a scene? He's helped me in the past but now I'm sick of him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age - I am an older lady who has always had men who worked and helped with most bills. I have been widowed 4 times; what a drag!!! I met a younger guy online and he eventually moved in with me. All was well at first; he quit his job where he previously lived a good distance away... (237 words)

Confused boyfriend? Or is he just making me wait to be dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, My boyfriend of 4 months has recently been acting weird (the past 2 weeks). He hasn't shown any affection, he has been cancelling plans to see me and he has avoided calls, simply texting me that he needs to think and that he needs space. That night I decided to s... (211 words)

'Testosterone Builds?' Any thoughts on my strategies to improve our sex life in our marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I read recently that testosterone builds for 7-10 days if you don't ejaculate during that period before it begins to drop off. Has anyone experimented with only ejaculating every 7-10 days? My wife and I don't have sex very often anymore, and I know part of the problem is that... (214 words)

He's been avoiding me. Then he sent me an offensive message. What should I do? What's his problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid My boyfriend has been avoiding me for the past few days. Whenever i ask about that, he always says he wont do it again. But nothing changed. Yesterday i got really angry and sent him text saying that i cannot always be the initiating the contact and i can... (101 words)

How do I react to in-laws who've threatened a wedding boycot unless we agree to their demands?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

14 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so a few days ago i proposed to my girlfreind (she said yes) we are both keeping are own faiths even though i offered to convert. she says its when we have kids that we can raise them as a mix of our respective religions, so they know about their mum and dads traditio... (165 words)

Is he running scared? First It's FWB then he says 'be careful' when I go out, now it's 'I love u"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Is he falling for me? My friend introduced me to this guy, we started talking through facebook for a while then decided to meet for a date. The date went really well, until we slept with each other at the end of the night, big mistake i thought. After that we chatted some... (204 words)

How to tell him I'd like to stay in touch without sounding creepy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So the other night me and my friend hung out with a few guys we had just met, and we were really hitting it off. In fact, I was really into this one guy, and we kissed quite a bit over the night. I had had a few drinks, but he was totally clean. And I got his number, I texted ... (112 words)

Will my reprimand ruin my chances of being a carer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

14 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't the best place to post this but I am hoping someone can give me an idea of my chances. Basically I got a reprimand when I was 15yrs of age for criminal damage I broke two bits of glass out of a cabinet when I threw something in the heat of the moment the owner ... (380 words)