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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found a txt from another girl

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend were in his car, and his phone vibrated. i looked down at his phone and saw a girl's name flash up, i didnt recognise the name. i asked my boyfriend whos that. and he said i dnt kno, i dnt kno this girl. i read the txt and it said stuff like 'are you missing ... (174 words)

Is it a waste of money to get a celebrity's autograph?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone think that it is a waste of money going to conventions to get a celebrities autograph and/or get a photo taken with them and go to a talk that some of them do infront of an audience?. I'm not sure if anyone here has ever been to these kind of conventions. I went to ... (153 words)

Our post lady ran over and killed our dog. Is there anything legally we can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - the post lady ran over my dog today at the back of my house. the front of the house was taken up with cars and we have a large backyard for trucks and vans for business. usually the post delivery people revere back out our driveway onto the road but today the lady drove down to ... (238 words)

When I look at my crush he looks away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I asked a question about my crush... But things have changed since I posted that question. He like looks at me, but when I look at him he looks away! What does this mean?... (36 words)

If you stop doing meth, do the mouth sores go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend did meth and I'm worried about her she has a few sores in her mouth , do they go away on there own if she stops ? ... (29 words)

I'm confused is he shy or just not interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I seen this guy on friday night who used to be in my college class and i do have a crush on him, i seen him stare at me as my friend and I past him to walk to the bar. As my friend and I were chatting i seen him getting closer to us but he didnt say anything. We were then ... (202 words)

What does a houswife do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am 41 and have been a housewife my entire married life which started at 16. I have no job skills, no money and the economy is so bad that I can't find a job anywhere. There is no sex, touching of any kind or closeness in my marriage and there has not been any for over 20 ... (161 words)

Phone calls about boyfriend visting ex wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now, he was married before and he had affairs when married to his ex wife,some one will only ring me up every now and again and say he has been to the ex wifes house and also the lady he had the affair with as they only live 2 doors ... (88 words)

How to get rid of my down there odour?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Every boy I have slept with (2 boys, which were relationships) and after the relationships had finished they would say that I smelled down below (of fish) I was so humiliated, I'm a very clean person, and take pride in my hygiene and appearance. But I also know they are right ... (154 words)

My lips keep turning blue (just the outlines of my lips)!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This may sound a dumb question but my lips keep turning blue (just the outlines of my lips) I have been checked over by doctors (blood tests, oxygen levels, ecg scan, pulse rates, and blood pressure all of came back fine. I just don't understand why my lips are always blue its ... (67 words)

My boyfriend watches porn! I feel unloved

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend likes watching porn and wants a mistress to punish him,he will only touch me and want to make love to me after he has watched porn or some one being punished,i thought he loved me for who i am, please help, ... (45 words)

My boyfriend doesn't love me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a very up and down relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years now. It was so amazing for the first 10 months until we split, since then we have been very on and off until the start of this year when we have been getting back on track. The problem is, I ... (222 words)

I don’t know what to do because he’s ignoring me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m friends with this guy from my A Level class. Back in March he asked me out and I said yes after the third attempt. I like him but I hesitated because I didn’t want to ruin our friendship that’s lasted 2 years now. After the date he said that he didn’t trust himself to be in ... (336 words)

I saw him liking his ex girlfriend's status!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so, I am in a relationship with a womderful guy. He's 18, I'm 17. We've been together for almost a year and our relationship is great except this one little thing... I have a best friend who is a guy. He's a really cool dude but we are completely plutonic. Yes, at one p... (216 words)

Do you think I should contact her and ask her if she would like to be friends again ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So... My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and I still think about her every day but mostly cause I miss her and her friendship. Do you think i should contact her and ask her if she would like to be friends again see that being more than friends is out of the question. Cause she ... (85 words)

Could taking Plan B cause my period to be this late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so to begin with, Im kind of paranoid about everything all the time and I worry about being a day late for my normally 28 day cycle. I took plan b after a mishap on June 5th. (He did not finish inside me but I was still worried). My last period was May 31st but I had 4 days ... (157 words)

My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that glamourous

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, as anyone ever been in a relationship with someone where they knew the person didn't find them as physically attractive as other people and felt like you were being wasted on them? My boyfriend seems to make it obvious that I'm not that glamourous, I know he loves ... (92 words)

CAN YOU FALL BACK INTO LOVE AGAIN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this beautiful girl back in November 2009. She was sweet, cute, fun and she made my heart skip a beat. She added me on MySpace and from there we started texting every day. She lived three hours away but I made my way to her for our first date on December 5, 2009. I took ... (1076 words)

One minute I was everything for him, the next minute, it was all over!! How is that even possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 weeks ago, I went to the hospital for my medical checkup. The medical nurse who took my blood sample approached me later and asked for my mobile number. To make it short, he told me that he was so disturbed by me the day I came to the hospital that he was obliged to take my ... (252 words)

13 years without having sex and now I want to but am hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F) age - I am 52 years old.Haven't had sex in 13 years I was in a abusive relationship so it did some damage. I have met a Guy that I really am Crazy for but can't get to the point of having sex.What can I do to get past this? Any suggestions? Thank you! ... (52 words)

2 girls and I don't know which one to date

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im 19 and i've just startd talking to these 2 girls. they both live equal distance from me and both of them would like to try things with us like long distance. the first girl is about 18/19 and we get on well and she is really cool as we have similar interests. th... (293 words)

My b/f drunkenly hooked up with my brother's ex a year ago. Now my brother is mad!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I started seeing this guy who is friends with my brother and my ex. My ex and I have been broken up for three years. My ex got mad about me and his friend and told my brother this "secret" about my new guy which was that after my brother and his girlfriend broke up, my guy ... (177 words)

She's 9 years older than me. Could it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this chick at work that I like a lot and I think she likes me as well but she's about 9 years older than me and I'm not sure if it can work due to the age difference like we get along great always have something to talk about and it is never. Awkward So do you... (69 words)

How much is too much physical interaction for a 6 year old to see between adults?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am engaged to a 36 year old man with a 6 year old son from his 1st marriage. She died from drugs when their son was 2. He and I plan to have a child(ren) together too. I am in a real good spot. All I want out of life right now is to love this man and be the best mother ... (211 words)

Would it be better if I didn't live with my mom anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was thirteen me and my mum have had a really close relationship, we have been through so much together and always supported eachother. Since I have been with my boyfriend (18 months) she has isolated. I still live at home with her, my dad and my sister but my mum is ... (149 words)

Work Colleague. Is she just being friendly or are there possibilities? Such as does she like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I work in a hotel. There is a girl I like who works there too, she is really cool. we bump into each other loads, she always smiles at me and we always have a laugh and one a couple of times she has chased me down the corrider messing around. anyway she has always seen me a... (296 words)

What are my options? He will not be social. Tells me to go alone. Trust is shattered. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - After being married for 12 years and two little children, I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out of this marriage. He has always been anti social making excuses about why he doesn’t want to go to gatherings and then saying I can go alone if I was soo keen, th... (472 words)

How do I get a girl friend if none are sexually attracted to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you get a girl friend if nobody is sexually attracted to you? I am 35 and single and have been single all my life. I have never even had a one day relationship with a woman. It seems to me that it would be creepy to just go up to a woman you found attractive and say, "wi... (114 words)

Should it be this way? I feel like I have to play detective to find out if he's telling me the full story

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, My boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year, for the first 7/8 months, i was so happy and stable and confident in our relationship. But in the last 2 months or so, something rocked the boat, and its been constantly up and down. I am a bit of a th... (789 words)

Are my friends right? Do I have no conscience? I slept with a married guy.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - what should I be feeling about my situation? I had sex with a married man. I am barely 18 he is 42 and works in the same place i do. I have a boyfriend. he at first wanted to talk to me all the time after the sex he kept asking how the sex was after I blew him off and acted li... (161 words)

Besides Erectile Dysfunction could my low Testoserone levels be affecting my sex appeal to women in a negative way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I really need some help, especially from someone in the medical profession or anyone who might know about this. I'm a perfectly healthy, pleasant, bright, socially active forty two year old guy. But I've never had a girlfriend. In all my life I've only ever had one se... (315 words)

My porn addicted first partner? Or my other friend who is loving? Want to start again, but I'm scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age - I'm a 49 year old women and have been living with my boyfriend for 21 years. We did split for two years but have now been back together for four. In the last two years things have started to go down hill again. He's quite a selfish man and just recently i havent been too ... (332 words)

How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. What do you guys say about thi... (61 words)

My husband is Ok about it. What are other's thoughts on platonic friendships with overseas penpals? Just friends. But could it cause problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman who has an email penpal who is also married. My husband is aware of my penpal and has no issue with it so long as it remains just a frienship, which it has and will. We talk about everyday stuff and get on well. My only concern is that my penpal's wif... (160 words)

I really want to tell him I like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, basically i've been 'seeing' this guy, we usually meet up on a friday night, go back to his, we've never actually had sex, just played about. Recently i've started to have feelings for him. Like when we're in bed, i pretented to be asleep and he was kissing me on my ... (155 words)

He came home from a strip club wanting sex

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of over a year now came home the other night from hanging out with his friends that had come into town. I thought nothing of it, they usually just go out to eat or play video games, etc. But, when my boyfriend came home this last time, he was very touchy. He kept ... (382 words)

My husband always has to run the show

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

- How can a man say he loves you and yet say such awful things? Is it a lack of self control? My husband thinks his job is do all the solving, planning, thinking and decision making. Whereas, I came from a family where the husband and wife worked as a team, each offering ... (349 words)

What is the Facebook etiquette on people in a relationship posting sexy pictures even though in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - About Facebook etiquette....my bf has over 400 friends and when he posts pictures of himself that kinda show him off (wearing a tight t shirt or topless) he usually gets a dozen likes from female friends along with comments about him being hot. I find it funny because the resp... (139 words)

Asking out a girl at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a sequel of sorts to this question, read this first just to get a feel of my situation: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-let-this-crush-just-die-the.html I've decided that I want to take the plunge and ask this girl at work out. Only problem is this pretty m... (155 words)

I can hear my parents having sex, and really would rather not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Don't know whether this is the right site but I need some advice. I can constantly hear my parents having sex. I completely understand that this is a natural thing and I am happy that they are still in love and can still experience that together but I feel it is inappropriate ... (153 words)

We met online. We are meeting soon. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So there is this girl that i meet online and we are going to meet in a couple of days, we live far away from each other, so it will be a long time before i can see her again. So i was wondering if it was okay to ask her to be my girlfriend, as i know it will be difficult to g... (146 words)

We are talking. But some issues. Shall I move on and forget about her? OR is there something there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this girl for a good few years. I haven't spoken to her as much as I would have liked to over this period of time.. but recently we started talking again over facebook chat.. She was finishing off her degree (This all started about 2 months ago) and coming back to the c... (368 words)

Is this how it is? Do most man losing their sex drive and sexual function over 45?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Do most man losing their sex drive and sexual function over 45? And only a few stay horny and able to have sex in their later years? This is my third boyfriend over 40 at the last 10 years, and I started to be afraid of the thought, that I need to look for younger partner , if... (88 words)

What can we do? I feel pressured into what names we should give our children

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently become engaged with my boyfriend of 4 years and we've been having talks about when we'll start a family. He's named after his Father (who wasn't named after anybody) My partner's Grandfather was called a traditional name in the family and he's suggested that bec... (224 words)

None of my relationships last a month. We have sex and they're gone. How do I attract a guy who wants more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 about to be 18 at the end of july. well my problem is i cant hold a relationship for longer than a month. it sucks. and it's become worse - where i dont even have a month long relationship, i just have sex then boom thats over. its not that i want to have sex all the... (125 words)

Should I relocate to end a LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - what are the pro's and con's of moving in with your loved ones? can anyone share there experiences, and is this something that wil be good for long term effect or short? i want my relo to last i am in a sort of LDR (long distance) but unsure if we shud speed things up and mo... (71 words)

My 13 year old Bf of one month wants to move to 'touching' (second base). Is it too early to push for this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

2 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I am 14, my boyfriend is 13, been together for over a month. He wants to move to second base ( feeling/touching..), if it's okay with me. I just wonder if that's too soon.. :/ ... (36 words)