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Archived questions from: 18 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend seems putt-off by me looking at other girls. Advice please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is kind of a silly circumstance, but I'd really like some help. My boyfriemd and I have been together for about ten months. I love him very much and do see some sort of future together. However, I do 'notice' other people (guys and girls being I am bisexual) but have no ... (122 words)

Is it truly possible for two people to stay faithful to one another for many years?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it truly possible for two people to stay faithful to one another for many years? I'm starting to lose hope! It seems like loads of people are finding their partners cheating on them on line, sexting, etc :( Can anyone be satisfied just by being sexually intimate with one ... (89 words)

Holiday for possible date or romance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Is travelling perhaps a way of meeting women for possible romance? I haven't been abroad but was looking at cruises or European holidays. I haven't been on a date in my life so would find it difficult to approach someone in the first place, i am not a nice-looking guy which ... (94 words)

Two questions I'd like help with please...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4508 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Question 1: Why would a girl frequently ask for a guy to post photos of himself, on Facebook? Is it like, some sort of hint of secret attraction, or something? Question 2: Why would you rub your thighs around a younger man? (For simplicity, his age is higher than 18)... (110 words)

Why won't guys ask me out???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had one real boyfriend in my life (who treated me horrible) but he is the only guy who had ever asked me out. We were on and off for three years, but he cheated constantly while lying to me about it. I dont understand - im a pretty woman, caring, honest, and dont depend ... (173 words)

Is he into me or just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing this cop and i really like him. i have strong feelings for this cop. he knows that i care about him a lot and he says that he cares and feels the same. we talk to each other every day until he gets off work. is he playing me and just saying he cares but dont really ... (126 words)

I would like some tips on building my self confidence.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Agony Aunts, I am looking for some tips on how to build my self confidence. It's not an issue that is getting in the way of my life a huge amount, but it is making me more shy and reserved than I know I really am. It's certainly better than it was a year ago, but I'm ... (242 words)

I gave him my virginity and then he said he wasn't into me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so I had sex with this huy for the first time. And it was at my house and it was a very special cause he took my virginity. So anyways after that we were talking and we did it again but at his house. So the next day I told him we should stop having sex for at least 2 weeks ... (168 words)

He chose a girl over his two best friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My best friend (J) is beginning to like the girl that my other best friend (R) recently broke up with. It's only been a month, she was single now, and my bud J made the move. He doesn't notice how much R is hurt by all of this, and continues to make the move on her anyway. I ... (171 words)

He wants oral from me, but wont return the favor. Is it because of my body?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i am having alot of confussions about my relationship. sence i met my boyfriend he was always the quite one and shy in the group but smart about anything , and he loves things that i love , such as racing, mechanicing, etc.. i have been with my boyfriend for two and a half ... (294 words)

I'm into a guy who isn't into me and it's getting me really down. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel so sad. I am into a guy who isn't into me and it is making me feel so so down. I know it is a waste to even care and at my old age of 38, you think I would know better. I met him a month and a half a go at a music festival he is 32 and liked him instantly my fri... (394 words)

Is this behavior OK?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is is ok for my boyfriend to sit on his porch and have beers with his female neighbor without me, possibly go inside if the weather is too hot and have drinks with her in there?... (40 words)

My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasions, and one other occasion in his C... (364 words)

Is it wrong because I don't like my b/f texting and planning on meeting his ex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I had our first big fight last night. He mentioned that he was asked to hang out with his ex. This is an ex who, a couple of months ago, has confessed she wants to give their relationship another chance, they apparently still talk (text) regularly, and I even ... (290 words)

I want to have sex at night but can rarely get husband to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! I am a married woman, I'm 25 years old, and I've been married for 5 years. My husband and I rarely have sex. I'm the only one even trying to instigate anything. I don't think I'm that picky when it comes to sex, I like my husband to be clean, to have fresh breath ... (232 words)

How do I control this constant urge to shop online when I'm upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I am 23 years old,my problem may not seem that big but its annoying me a lot lately..its not a relationship problem but you guys have been soo good with your answers that I thought I cld use some help! So here it is..I have a constant urge to shop online..... (172 words)

What are your views on strippers?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats your view on strippers?? My boyfriend is going to be at a stag on saturday night and there is going to be 2 strippers. By that I mean one at around 8pm and then another at like 10pm. I hate this. Im insecure for starters as Im over-weight and I hate that hes ... (107 words)

How have I changed so much since I went to college?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How is it even possible that I went to university, hating children, relationships and animals (especially dogs). Now after being there one year I am completely opposite to that! I'm looking to buy myself a little puppy, volunteer with children and I'm seeing someone, which I ... (132 words)

His friendship with a work mate is beginning to upset me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My boyfriend is friends with a work mate and talks about her loads and its beginning to upset me. She always go to him for relationship advice about how she can't meet a nice man and she only likes muscley men and he replies maybe you should date someone without the ... (224 words)

Does this woman want to make love with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - hello friends,Does this woman wants to make love with me?I am 42 years old,my brother's wife, 52-year-old.touched the woman's breast from behind twice in elbow.In the second gave me to touch my elbow stroked her breasts.she did not give me any response.This event gave me the ... (105 words)

Guys, what the hell? Why do you do this to us girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this amazingly gorgeous and super smart guy for over three months now. In the first weeks he was really into me, taking me out to dinner all the time and really affectionate with me. After two months I made the mistake of telling him I love him, and he didn't ... (212 words)

How and where to set up boundaries?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We've been together for a year and half and been living together for almost a year. I met him 2 years ago while he was separating from his ex. We first became great friends before we got together and I also helped him to get through the hard times after their separati... (370 words)

I didn't sign on for benefits but I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do or not!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I got married in April to the most wonderful man in the world, I was 41 and he was 47. It's both our first marriage and we couldn't be happier. My contract for my job is temporary and I will not until Sept if it will be renewed. Therefore, I am currently unemployed but no... (255 words)

My spouse won't so much as touch me anymore, I feel lost and lonely!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend(feels weird calling hon that after 17 years) since the age if 17, I'm 34 now. We have 2 children together and everything seemed fine until last August when his mom died (well maybe not fine but we had a physical relationship up to that point). He ... (231 words)

How do I confront him without sounding childish?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and he's currently on a lads holiday to magalluf. I recieved a text of 2 images from facebook where he is calling a girl who he's slept with hun and putting kisses on the end of the messages. She's the type of girl that chases after ... (69 words)

I don't want kids and I am worried about being perpetually single because my view limits my options

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4533 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Been single now for over three years and have been getting more convinced that I am going to be single for a very long time and finding it hard to shake that feeling. I have a fairly good life compared to many people - own flat, own car, interesting job and loads of friends... (860 words)

What am I to her? Is she playing me and her BF? How can I make this situation better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm confused and I need some good advice from you people I will explain everything thing in a bit of detail so that I could get some good and satisfying help! I met this girl in an exam center through a mutual friend of mine.. She was my friend's friend but I didnt talk... (648 words)

Please help, I'm in a love triangle and don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i am 23 years old and im Bisexual and im a relationship with a Girl but she has a husband she has a girl and a guy and i cant quit cheating on her cause i feel left out shes got both and i only have one i dont think its fair please tell me what i should do im despritely in ... (85 words)

The Ideal relationship at first. Now she ignores my texts.What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking and getting to know this girl for a few weeks now and we've just recently told each other that we like each other....everything was great for the first week and now she is ignoring my texts(we used to talk everyday 24/7) or if she text back it would be like 8 ... (100 words)

I left my husband and now my boyfriend is not interested in me anymore.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I left my husband because I fell in love with another man. I no longer loved my husband. The other man led me to believe he loved me, too and would be there for me when I left my husband. It turns out that he is not. Now I am all alone without either man. I feel so lost and... (411 words)

It's totally out of character for him. So how can I discover what went wrong? Before it was great.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age - I was in a long distance relatioship with a guy who was really good to me and my family. He would travel to see me just about every weekend. We were content together, he enjoyed my grandchildren and my adult children got along with him very well. He was very affectio... (180 words)

I feel so guilty about making out with my guy friend, I feel like I've let my parents down

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've known this guy friend of mine for almost two years already. During which we talk a lot and we've grown closer recently because he has been with me through my darkest days and all. Thing is, we made out while we were alone one day. It was clearly a no strings attached, and ... (137 words)

How can I forget about him and move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4481 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted here about a week ago. I have been in a relationship with an international student for awhile but his parents suddenly made a last minute decision for him to return to his home country. So he left a few days ago. It's hard on both of us because we were very much in ... (235 words)

Was I wrong to be honest to my GF when she asked a valid Question?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok just had a conversation with my GF, she asked if any women from my past had contacted me. So I was honest and answered affirmatively that an Ex had contacted me just shooting the breeze and wanting to get together next time i was in town and about life which is not unco... (125 words)

I'm cheating on my disabled fiance who can never have sex after an accident but I feel so horrible!

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 4511 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been browsing the internet for a solution to my problem but do not seem to be coming up with any. Where do I begin?. Here goes. My Fiance who I have been dating since I was 14 years old, now both in our mid to late 20s was involved in a car accident which... (396 words)

Why does childbirth hurt so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does childbirth hurt so much? I heard it's like breaking a dozen bones. Is it because the baby stretches out the vagina our puts pressure on the body? Please explain all the pains one feels when giving birth. I want to be ready.... (44 words)

She chooses the one to lead the program, but she never attends. It's not going well. Should I try to give her advice? And How?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A fellow christian who is in-charge of appointing who will lead the morning prayer programme doesn't come to the programme anymore.. As she had no knowledge of who is coming and who is also absent, she appoints people who don't attend the prayer program regularly. I think sh... (109 words)

Where can I go to get the paint job on my car fixed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister scratched my car today and wrecked the paint job without sayin a word while it was parked beside my house today. she was too lazy to drive down the back and turn and instead turns at the side which is a very tight squeeze. She didnt say that she scratched it today ... (178 words)

Study tips? I have trouble concentrating and staying focused. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't study. Ever since I was young I've always been smart but I can't focus on studying. I'm constantly distracted even when there's nothing to be distracted by and I have no patience. Every subject bores me and as soon as I finish the class I forget everything. I'm a 3rd ... (166 words)

She cheated to be with me. Will she cheat on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

18 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Well this might be a little long so bear with me. For background purposes: I’m not a guy who’s been around, there’s nothing wrong with me but i’m one of those slow people and i’ve never really cared about that since my first girlfriend. She had been around A LOT and that b... (1234 words)

Why do guys just disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

18 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I have a question for all of you guys out there. First of all, there's a guy I like, and we both last night established that we liked each other, and we're going to hang out soon. And we've been talking for a long time, and clearly he's interested, but today all of the ... (105 words)