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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Weird feeling when I see my boyfriend after dirty talk

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are open about talking bout sex but when we talks dirty to me and i talk dirty back i feel very weird when i see him the next day. we text back and forth sexy stuff. i think its hot but im so scared to face him the next day. like example is one time i w... (133 words)

B/f is afraid I'll hurt him again because I did so in the past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - My ex and I have been together on and off for 3 years. He is very stubborn and thinks i'm going to hurt him again, because I did over a year ago. We are great together and he says he doesn't have time for a relationship cause he is so busy, but I know deep down he is afraid of ... (94 words)

I have a crush on him. Yet always he is IN a relationship. But he Does know I like him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a crush on this guy in my year. He knows I like him, but I don't know if he likes me. Since I told him, he doesn't act weird. I can never talk to him about it because he is always in a relationship. What do I do?... (50 words)

My friends broke up and I like the guy. Do I go out with him? I don't want to hurt her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Where to start.. A couple I am friends with broke up a couple of weeks ago. I have been friends with the guy for just over 3 years and have been pretty much best friends with the girl since she moved to town about 2.5 years ago. My problem is the guy and I have since start... (142 words)

I want to be sexy for my guy but don't have the money for new clothes

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! Im gonna be spending some intimate time with my boyfriend. We've been together for a year and almost 2 months (yay!) Well im looking for some lingerie ideas but i cant really go out and buy anything so im trying to use some clothes that I already have and make them sexier... (117 words)

B/f will never finish inside of me. How can I get him to do so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

- Ive been with this guy for 6 months now and its going great. The sex we have is amazing, we just seem to have so much chemistry and I cant get enough of it! But he never ejaculates inside of me. We have sex and then he will finish off on my breasts or my mouth. I have the IUD ... (139 words)

Guys, how do I stop him hitting on me? He makes me feel uncomfortable.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy, friend of a friend. He keeps complimenting me, which makes uncomfortable to begin with because I don't know how to accept compliments. He bought me coffee, held my hand and kept holding me by the waist. Yesterday he hugged me so tight I couldn't move and then... (258 words)

Husband of 28 years cheated with one of our friends before marriage. I just found out and somehow I'm the bad person in all of this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age - My husband of nearly 28 years betrayed me. He slept with one of our 'best friends' while we were living together (before marriage). I did not know this. Had I had known I would have left him. Over the course of 15 years she became emotionally agressive to me, saying bad ... (358 words)

Help! How do I overcome this crush on my former teacher? I love my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So I still have this huge crush on my old high school teacher. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend and I love him so much and I would never end our relationship to pursue my ex-teacher (or get him in trouble cuz he's married). But I still have dreams a... (145 words)

Why doesn't my husband's family recognize me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age - My 45 year old step-daughter forgot my Birthday again.I have been with her father for almost 7 years,we are married for 1.5 year.I was trying to do my part to be a good grandmother for her children.We even took her children with us to our honeymoon cruise to Alaska last year. ... (184 words)

We can't communicate and now he said he wants to move out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We moved in with each other about 8 months ago. We've been arguing about nonsense and we've been unable to communicate effectively when it comes to feelings. Our last argument about 2 weeks ago, has left things weird and he told me he ... (70 words)

Can a marriage work with different hobbies/interests?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can a marriage work with different hobbies/interests? I just feel so lonely that all we do together is watch tv. Have talked and tried to arrange more things together but he just not interested. We agreed to a walk on the beach recently but it turned into an arguemnt cos the ... (263 words)

He wants to be serious and then disappears!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - OK - met a guy on a dating site, and we met and things were great. Met again and he was REALLY positive about me - called me beautiful, attractive, great to be with (should have seen him for what he is then .....?) etc. and we planned to meet again which we did. Then he ... (205 words)

Is this normal narcissist behavior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (M) - People who are Narcissist use individual as options or conveniences to satisfy their needs, whatever they may be. They get along with people pleasers who sacrifice their own rights to please them and let them have their way. But what about the people who treat the Narcissist ... (150 words)

Getting back with the ex, am I expecting too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started talking to my ex-fiance we broke up 2 years ago, everything in my life was going fine till my sister calls me and tell me she wants to talk to me again and misses me and has feelings for me and all that.. I still have feelings for her so i sent her a text and ... (178 words)

7 year relationship finished and trust issues?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (M) age 36-40 - Well I have a crush on a friend with whom I have been in constant contact through mail and chat for the last year and a half. (We knew each other 5 years ago through high school.) We know each other real well and I know that there is chemistry between us and I also realized ... (150 words)

Is boyfriend too skinny for us to do the missionary position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This sounds a bit weird but my boyfriend is really skinny and when we have missionary position sex his pelvic bone/hip bones really dig into my thighs. It really hurts and i even have bruises! Does that usually happen or are we doing something wrong?! How can i encourag... (61 words)

What do men like to have done to them.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age - The new man in my life asked me what things I would like to do to him. He told me to use my imagination. The only things I have ever done before was a blowjob and lick and suck on mens balls. My exhusband would not allow me to do alot. Just the normal things every guy wants. ... (93 words)

I sleep with men knowing they don't want anything but sex. I don't want to be this way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im such a mess! I been single for 8 months i have a four yr old daughter. I have dated a few times, most of them losers but yet i have slept with them for some reason i can't seem to say no! I.don't wanna be this way!! I no im not confident and have very low self esteem i need ... (137 words)

Should I just stay friends with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently iv'e been getting closer to this guy. We're always flirting and laughing and his friends keep telling me that he likes me. I like him too and really want our friendship to develop, but he had this thing going on with my best friend about a year ago. They really liked ... (113 words)

Has my boyfriend crossed a line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of almost a year is in Miami on a business trip and is coming home today. He has been in contact via text for the 3 days he's been gone, and since this is our first time really apart, I gave him some space and didn't overwhelm him...I let him contact me when he ... (273 words)

After 2 years of dating my b/f decides to move closer to his kids/ex wife. I'm devastated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was single and not dating for 3 years after the breakup of a 6 year relationship and I had this weird sense that I would never be with anyone again. So I tried to put myself out there a bit more with activities and so on and I didn't even meet anyone-honestly I am not ... (468 words)

My boyfriend's turning off his phone when I need him the most!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I've been feeling so depressed lately,I don't wanna talk to no one. But my boyfriend called me and I told him to text me, I didn't feel Like talking, he asked me what was wrong and I said I can't tell him, it's was a very private matter for me, it's about my fa... (254 words)

I don't want to date a man with kids. Am I expecting too much?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have a son who is 16 months old. And for some reason I don't think dating a man with a kid is an option. I find that men with kids tend to have a lot of baggage; child support, baby mom drama, and no money.. I simply don't want a guy who is broke, and most guys with child ... (176 words)

Can't bear the arguing anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I've wrote a bit in here about my relationship with my boyfriend. We are still arguing about the same things, the lack of sex due to him not keeping an erection, about him being lazy, me feeling that he seems to look at our relationship like its a chore. We live t... (289 words)

Am I gay? Going through a midlife crisis?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I am sort of involved with a lesbian. We first started flirting and texting; but we have kissed in several occasions now. We have expressed our feelings for each other and we are both strongly attractive to each other. She is very masculine, and I like her a lot. Nothing ... (200 words)

Could I do better elsewhere? Is the job market really so bad in USA?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Over the last year, I've been doing my Masters degree at the uni in a city not too far from my hometown, and it's been fully funded/well paid. The place I'm living in at the moment is expensive, but I've found a cheaper/nicer place with friends in the same city. My main pr... (194 words)

We've been dating 3 months and now she's pregnant. So now I feel it's all falling apart so. Will this work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4554 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - We got back from a holiday to interstate yesterday and the past few days she had been feeling sick - we put it down to something she ate or the heat but i got her a test to put my mind at rest. She did 2 in the airport in the morning and they came back saying positive by 3 plus ... (387 words)

Why is he being so serious about wanting to say he loves me? or is he just saying it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I have been seeing each other for a couple of months now,and we have only just slept together for the first time, as i was pregnant ( not his) and he now wants to move in with me and my child,which he is very good with, we are both happy with each other, we h... (167 words)

In my LDR we Text and I phone. But he has Never phoned me. Can we make this work? He's in the Military

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Do you think that in 6 months my boyfriend has never actually rung me up? We text daily and I've called him a few times but even if he misses my calls he will text back? I've asked him and he said his just always texted and doesn't really speak on the phone but I ... (103 words)

Should I tell this guy how I feel? He seems to like me, but I am being cautious. Should I be so cautious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've gotten to know this guy well over the last few months. He asked me to go to the ball with him and I said yes, but before that I asked if two people can go as friends.. (I DIDN'T like him like that back then!) and he said "Oh. Well that's even better." ? But now I really l... (483 words)

My LDR says he does not love me but has feelings for me. Is that enough and is it OK?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Do you think its OK that your LDR boyfriend whom you see every other week still doesn't love you but has feelings for you? We met online and have been dating for 6 months? I'm the longest girlfriend his ever had and his 28 years old. His introduced me to his fami... (71 words)

There is nothing left between us but her abuse ....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for over twenty years and we have three children, the youngest is eight. My partner is financially dependent on me, yet she treats me appallingly. It is no exaggeration to say that everything she says to me is critical or designed to make me feel ... (178 words)

Did she lie, or has she cancelled previous plans?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So recently i have been dating this girl online and we have been talking for about 3 months know and we plan to meet in a couple of weeks but i soon recently asked her what she will be doing fourth of july and she said nothing probably working, but i checked her facebook ... (209 words)

When I ask him how he feels, all he can say is "I love you"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 3 years won't tell me how he feels. Yes he says that he loves me but when asked how he really feels about his words are "I love you", thats it. I know it should be enough but those words just seems bleh and too simple. Since our relationship as been on the ... (206 words)

He told me in front of his friends he could do better than me and that our relationship is over.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I am aware I need to leave this relationship but I need input on how and whether it's really something I should do. I hae a 2 1/2 year old son who considers my boyfriend his "dad" bc he's been there since he was 2 weeks old. Last year (we've been together 2 ... (294 words)

Not actually LDR. But what would work better? Moving in together? Or staying together but not living together ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Another crazy question for you cupids out there Is it better to move in with partners or live seperate? I ask this because i have been in 8 month relationship, we live in same city but it feels more like long distance relationship, seeing each other on w/e's or every fortnig... (245 words)

It makes me mad they weren't interested before I lost weight!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

1 July 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I have lost alot weight over the past few months and have really changed my look and how I dress. One of my motivations in losing weight was that I was hoping to meet someone, and sure enough now I have started to get a bit of attention from guys, where as before I was basicall... (190 words)

She said she has had 5 boyfriends, how do I tell her she is my first?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes. I've been writing and talking to this girl for a couple months now, and were starting to get along really well. We're both the same age, 28 and have a lot in common. It started off as just getting to know each other as friends, and now she's wanting to take it ... (287 words)

She never stares at other guys. But she stares long stares at me. what is she trying to tell me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - She Stares at me while I'm around. Like she will see me and look at me for a while. She won't take her eyes off me until she has to move or I walk away then the looks quit She calls me Hun whenever I talk to her. Like to wish her happy holiday or birthday even for small th... (98 words)

She says she loves me yet she doesn't want to walk out of her bad marriage

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age - I have a lady who I have known for 20 some years,she is the wife of an ex-friend, who I had never gotten to know, because of him, he was real jealous and possessive. Well out of the blue he decided to cheat on her, she came to see me one day and ask me if I had noticed anything ... (386 words)

I cant stand the fact that my mom and dad drink. It's not that they become violent, they just become annoying and my dad even ended up hurting himself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

1 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this isn't a relationship question, but it's more of a "is anyone else in this situation" question. Basically, I've always been against drinking simply because I deal with it too much from my family. I find that extremely sad. "Why don't you like the thought of drink... (316 words)

He's denying anything happened. I know it did (just a little) . So should I just let this drop since he can't be honest with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

1 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive asked questions about my best mate a few times on this site and wondering if he is bisexual or gay and if i had a chance and up untill now nothing has really happened between us except some flirting.. If you havn't read i'll sum up... Basically ive fancied/loved th... (440 words)