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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Reasons I should, or should not date, my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I saw a post here recently about someone who wants to date their manager. Well I've been in this predicament for awhile. My boss and I get along great as friends and I can tell he likes me. I obviously like him too. He's only 3 years older than me and single. But I'm not sure ... (92 words)

I don't want this to ruin our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiancé were having a conversation earlier about our sex life and what does it for him and vice versa and he says about blow jobs but I don't care for givving them very much and said that as he never goes down on me then I won't on him so it's tit for tat, then it came ... (215 words)

Am I stressing over really small things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and have went through some patchy situiations, we almost split up recently but got back together again on the terms that we wouldnt do what was making us bad last time - moaning etc. However, he went to his and my friends ... (169 words)

Men: Would you chose a nature program on tv or sex with your girlfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - If you were 45 years old and had your 21 year old girlfriend ask you to bed for a blow job and sex would you choose a nature programme (that could be recorded) or your girlfriend. i would appreciate your comments ... (42 words)

Should a pregnant woman be having a discharge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi every1, pls, is this normal 4 a pregnant woman to b dischargin a whitish fluid in her private part?... (20 words)

LDR boyfriend doesn't know the color of my eyes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship and I have been for about a year. We've been together in person multiple times so I expected the right answer today when I playfully asked him "What color are my eyes?" I could not believe it when he told me he honestly couldn't remember... ... (116 words)

Drunk I liked her, sober I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hello i got drunk last night and was ment to hook up with a friend we liked each other and stuff but after i was pretty drunk i just didnt like her and didnt want her and now im sober im the same she just dosnt appeal to me any more now im thinking will i ever love any woman? ... (85 words)

Can cheating be justified?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified rather fair in a commited ... (49 words)

We are friends but I have no idea what he thinks/feels about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age - Hi I am a mature single woman who has developed a crush on a guy very recently going through divorce he's around the same age as myself. I have known him about 5 months and noticed he's always looking my way my friend told me the other day he was staring at me watching my every ... (793 words)

How do I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl I wanna ask out in my college class. I don't know her. She's just a girl in my class. I am a very shy person, especially when it comes to girls. This is only the case before I know a person. Anyway, I made a bit of progress. A few days ago I made eye contact ... (326 words)

How to flirt with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 29 year old guy looking for advice on how, where and when to flirt with women. I stopped trying after my early 20s and I've become pretty clueless and insecure. I'm looking to get back in the game. Any suggestions? ... (42 words)

I'm in a bad situation with my husband and really need some advice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'm legally married, my husband in the past has hit me before and is extremely verabally abusive. We have an 2 year child together, I decided I wanted out of the marriage for my daughters sake because she can already tell how he treats me and I don't want her seeing it. ... (304 words)

I love him, but he treats me so bad.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so, I've got a big issue here. I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now, and, I love him to pieces. But, recently, he's been treating me so horribly. Recently meaning 2 months ago he started this habit. He's just flat out an a-hole, he's rude, inconsiderate, ... (537 words)

Text I need help figuring this guy out and where our relationship going.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help figuring this guy out and where our relationship or whatever you want to call it is going. We have known each other for years because I used to date his close friend but we never really talked much. About a month ago we started talking/hanging out and I really ... (349 words)

Text How do you know when to let go and move on from a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know when to let go and move on from a relationship or when to stay with it and move forward? Lots of positives in the relationship, but there are trust issues and I'm learning that we don't communicate well- I don't think he "fights fair", doesn't seem to understand ... (76 words)

I've lost interest in a great guy because of the way he looks! Am I just scared of comittment? Or am I a shallow jerk? Or both?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I have lost interest in someone that I would like not to lose interest in, for shallow reasons. I'm not sure if I'm suffering from commitment phobia or if I'm just a shallow jerk, or both. I had a crush on a guy that managed a local store for 5 months. He wasn'... (772 words)

Do girls masturbate?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 22-25 - hi i reacently talked to a good friend whos a girl and she addmited to me this got me wondering.... do other girls masturbate too?... (25 words)

My brother is verbally abusing me and I've had enough. What should I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - just a quick moan, fed up with my younger brother. Hes always been a bit high strung, on his high horse, strong opinionated etc but hes such a hypocrit! Last year he got a 30k pay off from work and pretty much blew the lot on daft nights out, cloths etc! everyone had to ... (697 words)

Why did she throw me away for this other guy when it clearly wont work out? Is this a case of 'the grass is greener on the other side'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, About 5 months ago i got dumped out of nowhere. We were together for 4 years and it was a really good relationship, we have real love, we did alot together, shared everything and our family's loved us both. Then all of a sudden she wanted to have a break for a few... (574 words)

I don't want to seem like the silly friend with a crush on her, so I'm thinking of staying away from her for a few days. Is this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay, this is going to sound weird but I'M the one who decided I should give my crush a little space from me. There's this girl that I've been crushing on for the last few weeks. I finally got up the nerve to talk to her two weeks ago and I've never been so happy to find out ... (472 words)

Is it too early to ask my friend turned lover how they feel about me after one week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to ask where a potential relationship is going after a week...? I've been hanging out with a girl for 6 months and she became what I consider to be my closest friend. Then a week ago we slept with each other after a night out. We have slept with each once m... (291 words)

What can I wear to hide my tummy? I'm a little chubby. Rest is presentable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everybody! I would like some help. What can i wear on a date that will hide mt tummy the most? I have a flappy tummy. I'm chubby, got a nice ass. I'm about 1.7m tall. thanks. ... (37 words)

Depression is holding me back in life, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - im 32 year old lesbian and i do get depression which i have been to the doctors and done counselling and will be doing again. i do try and have hobbies i go swimming i like to read and i see friends sometimes and i have even been to see courtcases and may look into volunteer ... (285 words)

Is my Gf a compulsive liar? Can I or should I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I've been together with a girl for around 2 months now who I met online. A few months before we got together, she told me that she lived in Japan and was studying at a college to draw Japanese comics. She also told me that she grew up and lived in Ireland. I didn't ... (361 words)

It's early days for us. So am I worrying for no reason, over his reaction to me touching his phone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I concerned for no reason? Its fairly early days for me and another guy I met online but we have now met up 3 times (have known each other now for a couple of months). Last night we slept together he stayed at mine. He left his mobile phone downstairs and his pre-set ... (221 words)

Tried for 18 months. Still not pregnant. What else can my husband and I do to make it happen? Please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, we are trying from 1 and half year with my husband, we are trying for pregnant and i want to get pregnant soon, within 1 month.please tell me what else to try?.... (36 words)

If my ex Gf breaks No Contact, is she just checking up on me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Been in a relationship for 8 months. Month ago we got into heated discussion over something silly which resulted in break-up. Over next two weeks I tried to talk to her. It was not on a daily basis but rather every 3-4 days with no contact in between. Most of time I tried to ... (856 words)

Why would a girl get scared off and shy away from guy if he's never had a Gf before?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - A question for you girls. If a girl ask a guy when was your last relationship and the guy replies he never had one why would the girl get scared off and not give that person a chance? Though he is very nice and friendly why do women shun away from that guy?... (57 words)

Do I agree to see him when he never responded back to my text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - I met someone from online and we have been out on about 5 dates..things were going at a good momentum and we were pretty much in contact each day whether through phone or text. He has a different type of job where his schedule varies. He has shown effort like for example if he ... (897 words)

Do other people have weird turn ons like mine?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So yesterday, I decided to try something new and see what it would be like to whip myself and try masturbating afterwards and/or while doing so and see how it does for me.. turns out I kinda liked it. It's like it gave me a sort of rush that made it much easier to please ... (156 words)

I'm transitioning from college to real life. Should I keep dating this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a great relationship with this wonderful man for the past three months. He has his imperfections and I do too but overall we seem to get along pretty well. I am close to falling in love with him and I feel that he is too. The only thing is that right now I am at a ... (230 words)

How can I kick my cousin to the curb?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've have a cousin that i'm very close with but,for the past few years she's been doing some really out of pocket shit to me.I've been wanting to cut her out of my life for a while now but,i've been too afraid to.For the past few years our relationship has been based on her ... (104 words)

My ex is stalking me, calling me in the middle of the night and has even threatened to kill himself. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I recently posted a question regarding my ex threatening to die if I did not patch up with him. When I met up with him the other day to talk things over things got so bad I told him if he meant what he said I was going to report him to the police. But it was so tensed at ... (190 words)

I joined a badminton club to make friends, but none of them are interested in being my friend. I could use some help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, This is my third semester at college. During my first semester, I was so busy I didn't have time to make friends. So to fix that, I joined a club for the 2nd semester, hoping I can find people to befriend. The club I joined was a badminton club, which is just ba... (384 words)

I don't know who the father is, should I terminate or give it up for adoption?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya, i just found out I'm pregant but I dont know who the father is, I went to butlins about four weeks ago and I sleet with 3 boys, ( I didn't know them or talk any numbers or anything) a week later I slept with two more boys, ( I know these boys and are in regular conta... (155 words)

Please help, I don't know what to do upon meeting my boyfriend's kids!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

27 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are planning a play-date between his kids and my godchild (since I don't have kids). I'm nervous about meeting his kids, they're very pretty little girls, one is 9 and the other is 2. I just want them to like me, even a little. But, I'm not sure how to ... (82 words)