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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He makes no effort to contact me and its now been 2 weeks. What do I say if he contacts me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4424 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my early 20s and have been seeing a 31 yo man on and off for the past year and a half. I was a little wary at first about even meeting him from an online dating website because he might be looking for something serious (ie a wife). But, I just said "ah hell why not" ... (613 words)

The only thing I really have here is a job. Should I give it up and move where I could be happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 33yrs old female, separated but not divorced yet. Living on my own for almost two years, independet, not kids., free drama. I made a trip like 3 months ago..I met a guy..younger guy..I fell for him..we continued the comunication..every day..text..phone calls..s... (330 words)

I want to break up but he hasn't done anything wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been going out with a guy for a while now and I don't like him any more. (I think it's because I don't want a boyfriend right now but I'm not sure.) I want to break up with him but I don't know how because he hasn't done anything wrong. I can't face him but he is a bit ... (65 words)

I love her but how can I trust her? I've caught her doing things twice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

29 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - What do I do? My girlfriend was acting suspiciously. I knew something wasn't right. Anyway I caught her on a dating website chatting to guys! We didn't fight about it. We talked and she told me how sorry she was. She told me she was going to close her account. Any... (254 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's sister who hates me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello aunts! i need some advice on how to deal with boyfriends sister who hates me. she's four years older than my boyfriend, we barely know each other because my boyfriend and her were never too close. last time we met was four days ago on a garden party for closer friends a... (94 words)

I'm tired of doing all the work! Why doesn't my b/f initiate anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year and a half almost never initiates anything. He hardly ever bothers to make plans with me in advance anymore. Sometimes he will say, ok I am picking you up. But otherwise it is me making plans for us. And sometimes he will just drop hints about wanting to ... (106 words)

Do men just get a thrill from the chase?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i been dating a guy now for about a month, i rarely see him due to his job in the army. We started as friends with benefits, then he told me he liked me too much. I then started liking him too. He told me that it wouldn't be worth starting a relationship as he deploys in ... (191 words)

Tw guys head over heels in love with me.Torn loyalty to each. What should I do? One has been in jail.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 children who are now 1 and 3. I e... (284 words)

I'm a virgin, but my girlfriend isn't and it really bothers me. How can I stop it bothering me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my girlfriend is not a virgin. She had a 1 night stand a year before she even met me and she told me about it when we were just friends and it didn't bother me then because I had no attraction to her at all at this point. We then started liking each other like 4 mon... (745 words)

Fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do? She looks at me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 13 year old girl and have fallen in love with my new german teacher ( she is female) i think she knows because in an asemberly all my frends said she was looking at me and when me and my freinds and i were sat out side and she kept lookin at us from her class room do i ask ... (70 words)

He's my first love. He took my virginity, and then cheated on me. Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m very confused. Hurt. Scared. And i don't know what happened to my life. I need help. Summer of senior year I got a friend request from this boy that was going to one of the Universities I was going to. I left it there for like a month but when I decided I was going to... (1620 words)

He still hasn't stopped communicating with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for five years, about 10 months ago he became friends with a girl. I was immediately uneasy about this friendship as he was very secretive and kept everything under the table so to speak. I only ever saw her briefly for a matter of ... (268 words)

My ex-girlfriend left me for another guy and I then trashed her place. Is there any hope for reconciliation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex-girlfriend and I dated for almost four years. We had an incredible bond, and shared a close life together. We also lived together, up until recently. Years ago, I left her for someone else, due to communication issues, but then we got back together after several months. ... (314 words)

I applied at a strip club, the boss wants me to strut my stuff

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I applied to work in a strip club (I'm female) but the mister who I asked wanted me to "strut my stuff" for him. Is this normal. Do ladies who apply to do what I do (get naked, look sexy and have sex) have to show the "boss" what they do or does he have anything for me? Than... (65 words)

How often do married men masturbate without their wife knowing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age - How many Married guys masturbate ,Without the wife knowing and How much a day or week? ... (18 words)

Can I win back b/f emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am in LDR with my boyfriend and we see each other at weekends but the last few months Ive been actly extremely clingy, texting him everyday, questioning him about emotions, cheating, other women I hate what Ive become! Other areas in my life Im unhappy with which Im... (216 words)

Why is this guy I like treating me like trash?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just very hurt because a guy I liked treats me like a trash or cheap whore something.. He disreapects me and absolutely dose not care about me. He did not ask to have dinner just used me as a booty call. this guy I met at the club. Is this why He assume I am a e... (89 words)

My boyfriend called me "boxy", I don't know what that means.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to sound very silly but I'm really puzzled! My boyfriend rang me when I was picking up something from a store today! I didn't have much reception so I said il call u back when I get home.. I rang him bk he didn't answer then about 10 mins later he called me. He s... (115 words)

Has anyone else survived being a rebound?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My heart has been completely wrecked by my ex. We were friends for over one year before we got together. He was married for most of that time and then discovered that his wife had been having an affair. I was there for him, as a friend, when this all happened, but then he ... (447 words)

Help with long distance relationship - heart broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man in the US navy 12 years ago..I was too young to be in a LDR at that time and so we both went on our separate ways. 12 years later (present time), we reconnected through the internet and decided to meet up again to see if the "spark" was still there - he lives in ... (471 words)

I don't see myself as bisexual, and I don't want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual experience with a woman.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm currently in a very happy, fairly long term relationship with a man, but I can't get the fantasy of sex with a woman out of my head. I dont see myself as bisexual, and I dont want to have a relationship with a woman, I just want to have a sexual experience with a woman. ... (203 words)

Does she like me or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so this girl is my friend in school. We'll refer to her as M. Well ima guy so anywho, im not very social however im very smart. and i dont think im too bad looking. maybe a 7 or 8 depending on who you are anywho so the whole school had a class change and my other guy frie... (697 words)

I get depressed going out and seeing children that I'll never have so now I don't want to go out!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am late thirties. Whenever I go to a mall or wherever and see couples and families with children out together I get this tight sensation in my chest and I feel rock bottom sad that it didn't happen for me, as I never married or had children. I wasn't in a relationship for a ... (175 words)

Why doesn't my LDR boyfriend put forth the same effort that I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. Thanks for being there to help all of usm. My problem is my long distance boyfriend was going to get a place for us to stay and then we would marry and I would move there and look for a job. I have been saving to have some money to use while I look. He has now been ... (371 words)

He's a good man but he's also very sulk and argumentive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I live with a man who I love to bits, but sometimes he can be the most difficult person in the world. He's never violent and doesn't generally shout, but will "sulk" (talk in a monotone, refuse to kiss me, etc.) when I don't do something he wants. Sometimes fo... (364 words)

Why doesn't my boyfriend get jealous when other guys look at me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I was wondering whether I am right to be concerned that my boyfriend never gets jealous of other guys looking at me or get jealous at all, why? Is it because I'm a virgin? ... (35 words)

I had a period every month but dr. told me I'm 4 months pregnant! Has this happened to anyone else?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Yesterday I went to my gynea and he told me I'm 4 months preg. Wat confuses me is that I've been having my periods every month and except for a growing stomach I'v had no symptom o reason to bliv m pregnant. My dr was puzzled too did sum tests.I'm waiting for the results bt ... (71 words)

I screwed up majorly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I screwed up majorly so i was invited to go with a group of 4 to hang at the state fair. great idea! i was thinking, yo, thus gives me a chance to hang with the girl i really like and i can drop hints about my feelings for her and she of she responds. the group was me, the ... (464 words)

I didn't have money so I stole formula for my baby, am I going to go to jail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a twenty three year old female, I got caught for shoplifting yesterday and now I have to go to court. I am very scared, I've never been to court before or in the legal system at all. I didn't have any money and my daughter needed formula. Does anyone know what might ha... (96 words)

He's not expressive about his love for me. And I have health issues. How can I encourage him to stop pressuring me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need some advice please... I am a 31 year old woman and I have been with my partner for 2 years. He is 39. The problem I have is that although we live together and get on well most of the time, he only tells me he loves me once in a blue moon. I tell him I love ... (231 words)

Don't want to cheat. She doesn't want sex and I love her. So how can I get rid of this desire on my part for intimacy and also affection?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - o.k. here is the jist of my situation. I will be married for 20 years come next year to the same woman. And I love my wife so much but intimacy has never been the same. now a days, since the kids are older she likes to go out with her girlfriends on girls night out. since... (365 words)

I am scared because my online friend says he is coming to take me back to the States!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts, What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend of 3 years whom I met online decided to come meet me, when everyone in my family thinks that I shouldn't be with him. He is someone that I met on facebook. Although we don't meet on a regular basis, we've been talking eve... (185 words)

Does any one have any tips about 'soft, light domination' in the bedroom ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys, Me and my girlfriend have a good sex life, but we're a relatively newly formed couple, and haven't tried anything extreme yet. I wondered about 'dom/sub' play, 'domination' in the bedroom, and she seemed really into it, I want to try dominating her (soft or ligh... (115 words)

I see my crush once a year, but lately all my dreams are full of him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've known this friend of mine for as long as I can remember. He was my 1st friend, my 1st crush and I still like him a lot. I'm 16 and he is only a year older than me. He and his family moved to Arkansas a few years ago and now I only see him once a year when we go bowling, ... (207 words)

My boyfriend never shows me off...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend never shows me off, the majority of people probably think hes single. his parents met me, know who i am, yet he acts single. whenever i say 'i love you' or somthin on his facebook wall, he doesnt comment, he acts like im a stalker girl. i understand hes not into it ... (92 words)

My boyfriend doesn't believe that I love him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend/sweetheart keeps saying things like "Don't say you love me when you don't mean it. You don't love me" he decides my feelings for me, and yet he tells me he loves me. I love him with every fiber of my entire being, but I don't know what to do about this. Can you ... (56 words)

My boyfriend spends too much time helping another woman through her separation

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I could really use your advice to help me determine if I am over reacting in this situation. I have a boyfriend. We have been dating for about five months so the relationship is very new. But I am having a problem with his attention on a female friend. He has known her fo... (442 words)

Would you consider this dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was 16. I had never kissed a boy before, i had a boyfriends before but never had done more than held a guys hand.(i was a junior and he was a senior) There was a guy i was somewhat friends with.(he's a twin) So i decided to hang out with him for real, i really started l... (273 words)

Do you see tis relationship going anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago, I met a guy and we started to have conversation and he said he wanted to get to know me. I told him no because I was leaving the next day and I wouldn't be back until next year or the holidays. He seemed a little disappointed but wanted my number anyway ... (389 words)

I'm finding it very difficult to forget about my boyfriend's past relationships.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

29 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year. Before me he had never had a girlfriend, yet had slept around. I'm finding it incredibly difficult to forget about this past of his. Especially a certain girl who he claims he merely had a 'sex only' relationship wit... (218 words)