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Archived questions from: 28 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend seems to be having some commitment issues. Some advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are apart right now but will be back together at college in about a month (we're 4 hours apart now). He randomly basically freaked out because we're apart he said he basically feels single but cannot pursue other women. I let him say his feelings and now he ... (289 words)

He chose to be with somebody else, even though he doesn't like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

- He wont go out with me because he says Im too good for him, that he wouldnt make me happy, and Id end up finishing with him. We both like each other alot, and everyone knows it. Im a model and I do get alot of attention. He is unemployed and has nothing to offer, however I ... (328 words)

Is this extra weight normal and will I lose it as I get taller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I dont know if this is the right place to ask this but I need some help. I'm 14, 5,5/5,6 and 12st. I quite heavy chested like my mum, so I know that's genetic, but slightly overweight. I have a feeling this is something to do with puberty because I've only put it on in the last ... (98 words)

My ex fiance's sister is sending me cryptic messages!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age - I'm a little confused about a certain situation and not sure how I should react. My ex-fiance's sister recently posted personally to me on fb that if I observe something (didn't say what) I will obtain great wisdom and also, that if I pray to God he will answer my prayer... (587 words)

Is this possible? Could I do it? Want to cut verbally abusive brother out of my life but family frown upon it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - prior to a question id asked the other day http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-brother-is-verbally-abusing-me-and-ive5.html Well i took the great advice , thanks guys for that, decided to cut my brother out of my life. However in doing so, i've hit some pretty serious h... (841 words)

Should I pursue an online relationship with him? Not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My problem isn't really directed at one person although there is a person at the minute. Sometimes, I want to be in a relationship and I see the benefits, but some times I just like being single and don't have the energy to put effort into it. I've started speaking to a bo... (159 words)

My feelings for him are strong. His actions indicate he doesn't care. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know i need to split up with my boyfriend, he is constantly out with his friends even though he has no job. We have a child together and when he is out im stuck in the house myself with no one to speak to, it has gotten so bad that it has driven me into a state of depr... (145 words)

Questioning My sexuallity for Years? How can I Know? If I have never been with a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old girl. From My Childhood even until now I have really only had a couple male friends and even. Now it's pretty safe to say I don't have any (that are close to me anyway) I remember having crushes on only guys until I was 13 and had a crush on my best girl fri... (578 words)

Can't understand his reaction. Why did he make out nothing happened? We did cuddle. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Aunts. Recently Ive been spending a lot of time with one of my male friends, I guess at this point in my life he would be my best friend as I spend all of my free time with him. We both have feelings for another but until recently neither of us would really act on t... (465 words)

Do you think this Work colleague likes me, after he said my husband, "would be crazy to not love me"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 35 year old married lady though not happily and on my way out of a marriage. I just got chatting with a collegue and as part of a conversation i said 'i dont thing my husband loves me' and he said 'He'd be crazy not to' Do you think he has feelings for me? We chat a b... (82 words)

What's he on about? Wedding called off, he's moving out, but doesn't want to split !?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay...so I'm feeling heartbroken and I don't know where to go from here? My fiance and I have been together for 4 years and we were supposed to be getting married this September. We've lived together for the last 3 years and we bought a new home together a year ago. He re... (263 words)

Why ask? Should I comply? My married lover wants to know about any other women I sleep with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been sleeping with a married woman for over a year now. She has an open marriage (within some limits) and we get along great both inside and outside of bed. She and I were talking and I asked her if she'd be upset if I slept with other women. She said she would not b... (292 words)

I am a good friend, but it just gets to me sometimes about how beautiful my friend is. how do I stop feeling this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been friends with my closest friend for a very long time, we grew up together and have been good friends for as long as I can remember. She is a beautiful person and I love her for being there whenever. But its just some days I let it get to me just how beautiful sh... (215 words)

Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my friend and also about me not bel... (273 words)

It's a LDR. But he still hasn't told me he loves me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I'm currently having a LDR with a guy who I see sometimes every other/weekend for 8 months as his in tbe military. We're very happy and have made and booked future plans for next January his always treating me to holidays and really sweet.I've met his family and h... (162 words)

Should I have my first homosexual encounter with this woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I am 23 years old,and I would say for the past 4 years I'v been bicuruious and I would really want to know how it is to be with a girl..I don't know if I can go all the way and have sex but I think just first base to see what I feel about this..and to know if I am ... (189 words)

My boyfriend has suddenly up and left me for an unemployed drug addict

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of just over a year has finished with me for someone else. The woman he has left me for is a drug addict and alcoholic, has had her 3 children taken into care, is dirty, rude, violent, and unemployed living in an extremely run down and messy house on a council ... (214 words)

He's committed to me. FWB without the sex. So what do we have? And am I being too clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with a guy for 5.5 years now. We are both 21 right now. we dated the first 2 years and then we broke up because of something one of my friends at the time told me he was doing. I later found out she lied. He said sorry many many many times and I didn't belie... (890 words)

To me he is perfect. We plan to marry. But do you think he is gay? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He told me approx a year ago that before we got together he had two sexual encounters with another male. He said these two occasions happened within a few weeks of each other. They didnt have sex but did the other stuff.... (327 words)

My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4514 days ago

28 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwards without me and her havi... (137 words)

Where do I go from here? I seem to have lost my "friendly colleagues" in the charity shop I helped.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age - I live in a fairly small area (an island) and worked in a charity shop which I enjoyed however for the second time one of the managers decided to open his own shop. The first manager and one of the workers opened their own shop. The second manager also has done the same and... (251 words)

Do guys make girls pass "tests" to see if they are worth dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys make girls pass "tests" to see if they are worth dating or whatever? The guy I like was dumped when his girlfriend went to college because she wanted to have freedom to date whoever. He hasn't dated anyone since, just had a bunch of random half drunken hookups and I ... (268 words)

Is it that he just does not like me? I feel neglected and hurt by his actions.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy at a club. we exchange numbers and texted time to time. then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together. so I came to his place and had a small conversation with him suddenly he invited his friends and left me alone. he ignored me and just h... (164 words)

What are your best tips to help me become flirty and sexy and successful when talking to guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am fairly good looking girl, (or so I have been told) but I rather nerdy, I think. I seem to genuinely be the girl that the guys like to be friends with. I am not looking for a relationship right now, just some casual fun. I have been told its the way I talk to gu... (176 words)

He was mean to me. Sent me dirt nasty text. So I did something he called spiteful. Was I wrong to do that?

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Two months ago I met this guy at the birthday party. He seems nice and we exchaged phone numbers! We met three times, and afterward I tried to avoid him (i thought he was difficult and feel like all he wants is just have sex!) And here's a deal! He texted me " would you ... (180 words)

Is he cheating? I love him with all my heart but I'm now caught and lost in his deception

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - my bf is always lying and taking off for hours or days without saying he is leaving and doesnt call while hes gone. then lies about where he was who he was with, etc. then i find out from other people he was kicking it with other broads. he always hides things from me and is c... (69 words)

Seems the same guy is trying to steal another girl away from me. How should I handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly three months now, and lately, a guy has started trying to steal her away from me. This same guy has already taken one girl away from me and I know that he's heartless enough to do or say whatever to get mine now. I told her... (289 words)

Why would my boyfriend behave like this? He was most insistent about wanting sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) age 36-40 - Hi, I really need to know that you think is going through my boyfriends head because this has never happened to me before in any relationship I have been in. I was getting ready to go out with a group of girlfriends one evening. About an hour before going out I got my clothes ... (228 words)

What should I do? We broke up but he wants me 'on hold' but in his life? Yet he is talking to other girls already?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I have recently (2 weeks ago) broken up with a boyfriend of 4 months. The circumstances of the break-up were as follows: He stopped showing me any affection, he was cancelling plans to see me and he has avoided calls, simply texting me that he needs to think and tha... (286 words)

Sex only 4 times in 5 years? But no affection? Gives his Aunt more affection. Should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of five years has only had sex with me four times He also only shows affection to his aunt I'm staying with him but his aunt is the one to get the kiss when he comes home Is it normal he does kiss hold or touch me and I sleep in his bed I can get naked and it wouldn'... (73 words)

We broke up last week. With No Contact, his idea. But can I still text him to wish him good luck with exams? Or wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Me and my bf broke up last week. I met him after 2 days asking him to be friends he disagreed for any contact. I maintained the no contact rule and today is the sixth day. He has exams on monday therefore, can I text him to wish him good luck? Or shall I just mainta... (86 words)

I feel good about trying to clear the air, but was being honest a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am in my mid twenties. I have been on about 6 dates with someone and things seemed to be going really..a good pace, good momentum..we text, talk..I didn't feel that anxiety too much wondering if he is going to keep contacting me. The past 2 and a half weeks have been ... (895 words)

I was so mad to see her laughing and talking with somebody else, I punched a door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

28 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Ok. So I have two problems. Hope you can help me... 1) See I'm a natural flirter, I don't mean to brag but I can make a girl smitten by me in a couple of seconds,not literally but you get the point. But when it comes to my crush. I'm not that confident, I... (410 words)

In my 20s but trying to deal with my infertility issues, leading to depression. What can I do to help me face this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. So, I have fertility problems or I'm likely to have them. I'm in my early 20's. I've been having many issues with my period since late 2010, by then I was going thru a really stressing time. Before this I was more or less regular, I did miss periods but nothing ... (575 words)

He keeps ignoring me, makes excuses and then ignores me some more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for around two years now. I’m going to refer to him as ‘B’. I was introduced to B through a friend, and from the moment we first met we hit it off. We started sleeping together and we would always get in contact when he came to town (he lives about an hour ... (1286 words)

I told my lover's wife about us but it is as if she doesn't care!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so hurt right now, I decided to tell my married lover's wife about our affair, because I knew that would be the only way to stop it. I am 35 yrs old and he is a 43 yr old man. It started out as a friendship with casual dinners, and no sex. This lasted for 8 months. We ... (321 words)

Everybody else gets invited! Why not me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just need some opinions please. I began dating this guy about a year ago. He has a shore home that he has access to anytime. He has been to the home several times last summer as well as this summer. He usually takes friends and also has a boat. When I hang around his frie... (215 words)

I think my husband had gay sex with our dinner guest!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a bigger problem than my last one now! I think my husband of 4 years is having a gay affair! Ive talked to him, but to no avail, we just end up arguing, let me start from the beginning, 3 weeks ago, he kept making excuses to go out, 2 weeks ago, his underwear was ... (192 words)

He seems to be putting himself where I am, but not in a creepy way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i work in a relatively large company.there is one man that works within the realm of our large department that makes me curious about him. from the start he has asked co workers to get my personal status and how many kids i have, closed my office when my father died (nothing ... (290 words)

I hope my behaviour lets him know I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4507 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - guys what would you think? would you think I am into you? and if not what should I do so that he thinks that? this guy and I live door to door in a students` hostel when he looks at me I often have to play with something (hair or accessory) and sometimes I stare at his eye... (279 words)

I Am Just Fed Up With My Husband...!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Everyone... I am 25years old and my husband is 30years old,we are married for 6years now and have two kidz who is 5years old and 1year and 4months old..I am not happy at all in my marriage,It seems it was the biggest mistake of my life to chose him...I don't kn... (152 words)

Why does he text me first but he keeps the conversation short?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. Me and my guy friend have really good chemistry. We get along well. We flirt a lot. We have a lot in common. But when he texts me, he is very short with his texts and is always the first to end the conversations. He does text me first. But he keeps the con... (115 words)

Boyfriend and I had a nasty fight and I don't want to keep calling him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

28 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid my bf was flirting with a married girl from his office in his Facebook. it was disgusting and we had a nasty fight. He left and i called his mobile more times that i am supposed to. sent him couple of messages. What should i do now, i couldn't simply sit at ho... (114 words)