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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Sex is still uncomfortable after a year.

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26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 22 and my bf is 20, we had sex for the first time after being together for 6 months, it wasn’t as terrible I thought it was gonna be, I mean it hurt but I didn’t bleed and it wasn’t terrible, the problem was that once he was in, it hurt when he moved, it felt like his penis ... (365 words)

How do I get my Boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my boyfriend lost trust in me because he told me something that I didn't know that he wanted me to keep it to myself, and yesterday was our two month anniversary. I told his sister something I thought that was cute and she told him and made it out like I was pissed ... (162 words)

We broke up, got back together, and then he lied about a plane ticket!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years. The relationship had been great, but during one blow up fight we ended things. We were broken up for a month, but after talking things out we got back together. That was 3 weeks ago. Things have been great since then when we ... (525 words)

Bad girls, let me sign up. Guys, why are the sweet girls never enough for you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am sick of being the good girl. We do finish last. 26 years is quite enough of believing fairytales, giving your all in love only to get burned, cheated and dissapointed... And watch how other women, who only think about what they want get away with whatever? So ... (141 words)

Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost his virginity to (an asian ... (470 words)

He's been hot and cold with me. X-box is more important than me. How to get BF more interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together just short of 2 years. We're a normal couple I guess but he's not exactly perfect and neither am I. I panic a lot, I'm insecure from being cheated on in all past relationships but improved so much with my current boyfriend. Anyway, t... (375 words)

Love, virginity, scared. How do I deal with my fears about losing my virginity with my BF?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4516 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a virgin a complete utter virgin, but I think I might be too childish or I am thinking too childish about sex. My body is telling me it wants to but my head is saying different. I'm not scared of having sex, I'm just scared of what my boyfriend will think of me. Like do ... (110 words)

He's unwilling to commit to me. Any suggestions or ways to encourage commitment from a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help... I love this man and he loves me. We do really care about each other trully. I want to be with him only. We've been "dating" for 6 mos now. But he wont make any commitment to me. Im not asking for a wedding ring just a standard relationship--boyfri... (197 words)

Could this make someone pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend touched me and then touched the outside of her underwear lightly. I had noticed some pre-ejaculate earlier that was on my underwear. She noticed that she was a bit 'wet' afterwards from herself. She did not feel any liquid from me. It was around the time of her ... (61 words)

He has cheated before and I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been together for 2 years we have a baby together and we plan to get married in June 2013. But he has been acting strange getting mad at me all the time for asking him questions like where are you going ? That sort of thing he has cheated on me before but we ... (97 words)

This girl DOES want me. However, she has a catch....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a good female friend that has a lot of things in common with me, and while I'm flattered that she DOES want to date me, she has a "Little" catch.... I asked her what she would want to do with me, if I got together with her. Her ONLY answer: "We'll have sex". Yeeeeahhhh... (138 words)

What kind of love does he have towards me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a committed ldr since 3years and 1 month.my bf and i really love each other but now everything has spoiled up.whenever my bf gets angry he abuse me hard.he calls me prost*t*te,b**ch etc.it did became a big issue and we broke up temporarily.he contacted me after 1 ... (283 words)

Should I try to move to her country to be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - She's a foreigner who's doing internship here, and will move back to her country next week. She's thinking about coming back here to work fulltime after finish her master, next year. We've known each other for maybe 2 months. We hanged out a lot and had lots of fun. I know f... (386 words)

Do I leave my boyfriend and just be a teenager?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Only being 17 I have lived with my boyfriend for 8 months, we have been arguing constantly for about 5 of the months so he's moving out on the weekend. I love him to bits and he loves me but after living together its made me question if I'm ready for this serious relation... (123 words)

How to deal with a meddling sister of a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How to deal with a meddling sister of a boyfriend? My question is due to the fact that my boyfriend's sister who has never had a baby and is younger than me yet assumes she knows everything there is to know about me and my pregnancy. I am about two weeks shy of having my fir... (346 words)

My 17 year old brother wants to take responsibility for a child that isn't his

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My little brother is 17. About 3 weeks ago, he started dating a 16 year old who is 7 months pregnant. The baby's father left her when she told him. My brother has known the girl for about a year now and has told me that he intends to put his name on the childs birth ... (142 words)

B/f and I don't have anything to talk about and bore each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my boyfriend and I care for him so much but the problem is that whenever we are together we don't have a topic and tend to bore one another easily...What can I do to improve this situation because I really love my boyfriend.... (48 words)

How can I heal his heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf's first gf i.e A broke his heart so he has been playing with the feelings of girls since then, A and i have become good friends and she told me she was the one who broke my guy's heart because she isn't in love with him but with someone and said 'i know you are the one ... (109 words)

I feel he doesn't care about me, anymore, and now he's just using me for his own pleasure.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 13 years... we have had or share of ups and downs. He has had PE and only got medication a few months ago. He helps me orgasm by other means. a month ago he woke me up at 2.00 am and aroused me and as i started responding he turned his back on me and ... (180 words)

I'm confused by the way he's acting, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'll give you a basic run down of my situation, I'm 18 and the guy im going out with is about 30 or so. I know some people would find an issue there, but that's not the problem. We've been seeing each other for about 6 months now but things got serious after ab... (217 words)

How to entertain introverted and quiet guys if you're introverted and quiet as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a big crush on this boy.We're both members of a performing organization in our university. He plays the violin and I play the piano. Because of our common interest in the same music genre, we get along well. We're good friends and we're always together during ... (286 words)

Is my sisters marriage in trouble?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is 29 and just became an anesthesiologist She makes about 100k and her husband makes 150k as an accountant. They both make pretty good money and live pretty well. My sisters husband Chris has Always had a hard time fitting into our family epically with my father. My ... (451 words)

I'm confused about this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm confused on what I should do with someone I like but I don't want to take it any further than what we both agreed. We started off friends with benefits and it was so cool. I loved the whole friendship his company and all. He didn't make me ever feel uncomfortable or like he ... (525 words)

I'd be with my ex but for the sex! New guy or the ex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone im writing because im really confused on who to be with or at least who to try and be with. okay so the first guy is my ex boyfriend of about six months now but we still live together after the first part of the breakup due to a lease. we were both fine with the ... (729 words)

Now that I'm getting my life back on track, I'm afraid of losing him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - We love each other but are now having problems making it work. I first met my boyfriend in my early teens, i was friends and used to help out his younger sister. We became closer at uni then started a relationship nearly 2 years ago, i had been crazy about him for about 2 years ... (654 words)

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ignores my question. Re... (185 words)

Texting: What boundaries are acceptable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was just curious what boundaries various people think is acceptable when it comes to texting, having a few issues in my relationship because of this at the moment. In my opinion when you get in bed together to watch tv etc phones should be left alone but my partner classes ... (143 words)

I confided in my friend about my partner's cheating and now I feel like I crossed the line

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a situation, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me but we agreed to work stuff out. As it was a year later I found out he confessed everything we confronted the situation spoke to a counceller. But before we did all this I found myself confiding in a friend about ... (213 words)

Should I be with my husband knowing he belongs somewhere else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - pls help be4 i make a mistake im madly in love with this man my husband and i been trying to make this right from the shock of his cheating that was found out 2 weeks after we got married he was still sleeping with his ex. i have tryed to heal but she seems to stick around ... (233 words)

Ladies: What Keeps A Guy Out Your Friend Zone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I've noticed that some guys sabotage their own luck with women, and may not know it. What they do to woo a woman, can sometimes end up friendzoning him instead. Outside physical attraction (which may be outside your control), what things can a guy do to stay out your friendz... (53 words)

How can I know if she likes me and what are the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone here is my problem, two months ago I met this girl who is a friend of my cousin and I felt something when I first met her. We Started messaging and I got to know her well. I really like her now because of her personality and i think she is gorgeous. she told me we ... (231 words)

Should we get engaged when we are this young?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Cupids, me and my bf have currently been discussing getting engaged to a point where i even heard him talking to his mom about rings. Im in my sophmore year of college and he is a freshman in college as well. We have been living together for about a year now and things h... (108 words)

Do I continue to put up with his behaviour? Or not? He's Flirting, but not to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) small question i hope, so my boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 10 months. Urm.. hes never been much of a flirt but we've both had some trust issues however i had a reason not to trust him because he betrayed me before, not cheated or anything. Just sextin... (536 words)

How do I start to get over this? I am still affected by my parents infidelity and how it made me feel as a child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is regarding cheating parents. A few years ago, my father cheated on my mother. I am considerably younger than my siblings AND when this infidelity occurred, I was placed in the middle of the drama because of my age difference. Although I am not very young an... (272 words)

How do you bring up mental illness in a delicate way?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I always thought something was off with my BF until recently when I found out for sure there's something very off. I found tiny, secret cameras hidden in small holes all over our apartment, my mail was opened by him, and I think he records my conversations too not to mentione ... (133 words)

Is it too much fir me to want my wife to wear a little make-up?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I really need advice.I have been maried for 18 years.my question is we have one dissagrement I would really like it if my wife would wear a little mascara, eye shadow and lipstick.Not everyday just like three or four times a year.l love her she is beautiful.l just have always ... (78 words)

How do I make my arms bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i need to help that what should i do for getting a big arms ? and i have been gyming for last 3 year but it doesn't work? so can anyone tell me what should i do... (42 words)

Is she cheating on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my gf for almost 9 years. Like everyone else we have ups and down but I caught her in a lie several months ago and have been suspicious ever since.she signed up for a website and I just happened to find it. I confronted her and she didnt deny it. She even ... (208 words)

Why has he not replied to my text?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - SORRY IF THIS IS SO LONG!!!!! i would really appreciate some help though as im getting so down about this situation :( what does it mean when your ex (who you believe still likes you) doesn't text you back? long story short, he initiated our breakup but it was because w... (1102 words)

I can't afford to pay every time we go out. What's the best way to let her know?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. So I asked someone out and we had dinner and I payed, which I was happy to do. I've asked her out again for a coffee and she said yes. The thing is I just can't afford to pay for her every time we go out. I don't know if she'll be expecting me to pay or what. What's the ... (99 words)

I started sleeping with my best friend but think she is more interested in my house mate. I don't want to lose her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and probably my closest friends of the last 6 months have just started sleeping with each other. It just sort of happened. We have slept with each other twice in the last week and I am really staring to have feelings for her. However, I really get the impression she is ... (358 words)

Boyfriend says he doesn't love me when we fight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend (I am 31, he is 41, together for a year)and I have been fighting a lot. We are trying to work things out. When we fight he says that he shuts down emotionally and stops feeling love towards me. He refused to say "I love you" because he said he didn't want to ... (244 words)

Does he deserve to be forgiven?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear advisors, this is my situation. me and my ex bf were perfectly happy together and i loved him very much and i felt that he did too. at that point we had been going out for one year. he is 26 and i am 21 years old. and at that time we both went to same uni and were on same ... (1285 words)

Is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating? I dont understand it because when im not doing any thing sexual the thought of him being with someone else kills me but during the heat of the momment its a major turn ... (56 words)

Should I wait for him to make a move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

26 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I previously wrote about a guy who gave me his number and I was wondering what I should do. Following your advice, I texted him last friday if he wanted to go out on sunday, he said he had something already planned but that he would like to meet up some other time. I told him ... (217 words)