New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in July, 2012, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (43), 2 (47), 3 (39), 4 (52), 5 (42), 6 (61), 7 (43), 8 (48), 9 (59), 10 (51),
11 (42), 12 (58), 13 (36), 14 (47), 15 (43), 16 (47), 17 (54), 18 (41), 19 (45), 20 (43),
21 (26), 22 (41), 23 (47), 24 (43), 25 (32), 26 (45), 27 (36), 28 (43), 29 (40), 30 (50),
31 (36),

Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We had a very emotional and nasty breakup and haven't spoken since.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4512 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex-girlfriend and I dated inconsistently for over three years. We also lived together for most of that time period. Throughout that time period, we had some rocky times, but also some amazing ones. However, the major problems were her twin sister, mother, and close friend’s ... (1530 words)

Are my masturbation habits normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4515 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - SO this is embarrassing.... but i was wondering how often do normal women masturbate? cause i am 16 and i think the level at which i am at is not normal. but idk, cause its not really something you just causally talk about with ur best friends. i dont think it helps thats i ... (250 words)

I want to know how to gain my jailbird boyfriend's forgiveness!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I was friends with this guy for the last two years, he helped me out when I was in difficulties and needed emotional support. We were close friends plus I thought he was gorgeous and was very attracted to him. A year ago he was sent to prison for something he did before I got ... (164 words)

Can thrush delay your period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4523 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - can thrush delay your period?? My periods were due 20/21 July and haven't gotten them yet. But I have had a yeast infection???... (23 words)

Lack of communication caused me to break up with boyfriend. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I've been having issues with my boyfriend for a while, and eventually they became overwhelming. There suddenly was too many to fire fight. It was to do with my bf not really finding it easy to communicate. He slowly got better, but when more issues arose, we found... (448 words)

Is it normal to ejaculate very fast for the first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I ejaculated very fast the other day when I was getting a handjob done by my girlfriend.(within 30 secs). I was extremely disappointed and kinda embarrased. It was the first time a girl touched my penis, but is that normal? What can i do hold it in longer next time? ... (52 words)

Is it normal for people in long-term relationships to develop romantic feelings for others?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - The ex and I broke up after 8.5 years together two days ago. The immediate cause: his attraction for his coworker over the last 2 years, which in the last half year or so, has developed into romantic feelings (my gut feeling is that he's in love with her but he denies it, so ... (628 words)

Why do I get excited thinking of my b/f with another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and everything in our relationship is really good still. Although lately, for some strange reason, the thought of another girl talking to my boyfriend and complimenting him excites me. I'd absolutely love another girl to ... (121 words)

I used my dad's condoms and now I am worried he'll find out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I found 3 condoms in my dad's dresser but the expired over a year a ago so i used one then a few months another one and today i used the last one. My parents fight some what and don't sleep together in the same room, but i watched the last one for a few months to see if it got ... (88 words)

I don't want him to think I'm not interested but I also don't want to look overly impressed

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a date in a few weeks with a guy I met a while ago and really like. We spoke and flirted here and there but our schedules never permitted us to see each other. Now that we are, it just seems like he is trying too hard and I'm not sure how to respond to it. He keeps ... (173 words)

Why did my ex tell me not to have sex and that she wasnt ready for me to grow up yet?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

31 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going to college next week. Me and my most recent ex talk every few weeks 2-3xs a week. We were having a casual talk and out of nowhere she asks me "oh and don't have sex in college k?" I responded with "why would you ask me that out of all the things to ask?" All she said ... (90 words)

How can I forgive him for hurting me this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Two months ago I started sleeping with a very good friend of mine. He had just broken up it his ex a few months before. Their relationship has always been on again off again for the past seven years. She is always trash talking about him to everybody. And is generally an ... (151 words)

Could it be he really doesn't want to get married?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 41 and has never been married. We have been together for a year. When I ask him if he sees himself getting married in the future his response is "maybe, I'm not sure". I would think that by 41 you would know if you wanted to get married or not??? Do you th... (92 words)

I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age - My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the head for beleiving such a ... (109 words)

Another crush on teacher...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Story about this is kinda complicated so it's the best to start from the beginning: I met him on my first day of high school. He introduced himself as our physics teacher for next 4 years. In that time never even came to my mind that I will ever be attracted to him. He seeme... (858 words)

In order to be with him I've been lying to my family.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4520 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 35. i have not.told.my.parents yet as they do not like the idea of age diffrrences when.it comes to relationships. ive never been with an.older man before so when my parents found out for the first time they freaked. my mum told me to end i... (142 words)

I had a strange dream about a MFM with my wife. What does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I had the weirdest dream. I am married 3 years. Last night, I had a dream. In my dream, one of my semi-close friends and I were screwing my wife. In my dream, we were switching positions on her and she was enjoying it. I don't think this could ever happen, but I wo... (178 words)

How did you pick you wedding bands?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! This is a very shallow question but here it is. So, I'm getting married soon. Fiancé and I are going to pick up wedding bands this weekend. We both agreed we like them platinum, but I think I'd rather have it gold, you know, real yellow gold because the silvery colour of ... (138 words)

He ignores me when we talk on webcam, am I expecting to much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello Aunts, im in a LDR situation. for about a one year now. but we known each other for two years. we met in singapore when he had a vacation.. so he lived 2760.56 miles apart. we talked on phone eveyday and skype. last night when we video call. it seems his not interested... (184 words)

Can you tell someone has had anal sex by looking at their bottom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there everyone! So... I was in a 5-yr-relationship with this guy and we used to have a quite a lot of anal sex. I didn't really like it, but he loved it so I tried to make him happy. Since we broke up I decided I'd never do anal just to make somebody happy because I do not ... (146 words)

Dad will disinherit me if I marry my guy. Is my Dad just being paranoid about my Fiance? Or does he have a point?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! Last night I told my estranged father I'm getting married in the Fall. He threw a fit and said if I do he will disinherit me and we won't talk anymore. When I asked him why he said that if we got divorced I'd have to support him financially beacuse I'm richer than my f... (317 words)

She lost the baby and she is crying and very upset. How do I comfort and support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - When we found out she was pregnant, it was a shock, she was excited but i was not so keen as i didn't ever see myself having kids. I got used to the idea and got excited and we went to look at baby clothes on the weekend and we had our first 12 week scan booked for yesterda... (198 words)

Does he still want this to continue?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age - Hi Aunts. This is about a married man i have been seeing for about 7yrs, No judgements please,but i would like you insight on this He knows that i love him but he will only say to me,you know my situation,I can't give you more than i do,but obviously that is not enough for y... (173 words)

Am I reading too much into things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you ever know if a guy likes you (but is too afraid to tell you) or just cares for you as a friend? I have a guy friend whom I've known for two years. He's helped me a lot and been through a lot with me. One day he suddenly texted "I like you very much." Frankly I was ... (201 words)

Relationship Help... PLEASE!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I find pictures of other woman on my boyfriends emails... some that he secretly took on his phone.... not only that... But i found some photos of him wearing all girls clothes... several of them... What does all of this mean? Please help... we have been together for 4 ye... (72 words)

Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up? I've been sleeping with possibly my best friend of the last 6months for a week or so and we've been hanging out and snuggling in bed etc. I asked her if she wanted to do a proper date thing and she said yes although ... (187 words)

Blown off once again... WTF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Everyone! I've been best friends with this girl in my class for about a year now. She's someone I had a big crush on a few years back but eventually realized what kind of guys she likes... a kind of guy that I could never be lol. So... I think it started to go downhil... (515 words)

Do you think he is blowing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - I am in my mid twenties. I have been on about 5 dates with someone who I met online and things seemed to be going really well..a good pace, good momentum..we text, talk almost every night..I didn't feel that anxiety too much wondering if he is going to keep contacting me. Afte... (1607 words)

I'm tired of being the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi there everyone! I'm the guy that every girl falls back on after their relationships don't work out, or when something upsets them. I'm only talked to when it's convenient for others. One specific case has been bothering me lately however... I guess you can say that ... (271 words)

Does my boyfriend and neighbour fancy each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2992 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 10 years and have 2 daughters together, he recently befriended our next door neighbour due to a shared interest in motorbikes, therefore he started spending a lot of time in our back garden with our neighbour, my problem is with ... (260 words)

We broke up, and now he want his gifts back.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi guys 3 months ago i broke up with my boyfriend who was really bad to me,we are now exs. i wrote in about him a while ago and i got some really nice advice to just leave him,so i did that and everything has been okay but i havent been able to get over him,and it also seems ... (181 words)

I need advice, I am confused by her behavior.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I met a girl online 2 months ago ( I am 32 she is 26 ) and we conversed via email for a couple of weeks before moving to phone then our first date was about 5 weeks ago I am 32 she is 26. We had a great afternoon, we then had a second date a week later and became... (591 words)

How do I choose the right person to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I'm in my early 20s and feel like I am not being very good at dating. So far, I have dated two guys and I just felt like every time something was missing. I know I am ready for dating but also for a relationship. But, how do I go about attracting and dating someo... (80 words)

Should I keep the a fantasy or should I take things to the next level?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm obsessed with this woman i met(im in freshman university). We were both MCs(hosts) for a large concert/show, but i did not know her before the show. She was a much more experienced MC(with a university degree and MCed a lot of big shows) than I was and encouraged me a lot ... (211 words)

We were good friends, then we tried to date, now we're back to friends again and I don't want things to be awkward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy were good friends. we saw each other since about april but were never official. we fell out quite a bit and had a couple of big arguments so he basically said he thinks we should only be friends so it doesn't ruin our friendship even though it's not what ... (268 words)

Am I handling this situation the right way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

31 July 2012 (F)

age - Am I handling my situation well. I am the mother of three. My older sons live independently. My 9 year old lives with me. He is the child of a man I have known for over 20 years. We first met in 1984 and had something years back then it fizzled out and we met again in ... (427 words)

Do I continue seeing this new guy or wait for who I believe to be my soulmate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend and me are falling in love with each other, he said he is in love with me. Hopelessly I've waited on him for months. But little things make everything unclear and makes me unsure. Like him kissing and flirting with other girls on nights out. Little does he ... (244 words)

If I don't fall in love with a girl does that mean I'm gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - hello there guys im so confused right now because i recently liked a girl and then just stopped suddenly. this is not my problem. my problem is that now im starting to think i will never fall in love with a girl and i really want to and have children and a real life, so now i... (109 words)

How can I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4522 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm actually going crazy! I've had feelings for this guy for soooo long! we have some history, and i recently found out that he used to have feelings for me. It's impossible for us to be together though, although i sometimes wonder whether he still has feelings for me or not b... (76 words)

Is it me? Or just because he doesn't last long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

- me and my fiance have been together for a year and a half. since we have been together we only have sex once every few weeks. im 23 and he is 29. its not through lack of trying. i try to initiate it most nights but he turns round and goes to sleep. it makes me feel embaress... (198 words)

Am I being portrayed as the underdog?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I have known my friend for 5 years and our friendship has grown over years. I have trust issues opening up to people who get close to me, thou I am bubbly and the life and sole of the party and get on with everyone. Most of the time I am perceived as the underdog amongst the ... (296 words)

How should a man treat a women, now a days?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - How should a man treat a women now a days, anyways? We se so many shows and have so many social pressures, both on men and women, but mostly on women. Also though i think it's difficult to get to know someone, becuase of that persons past, with relationships. You never know ... (217 words)

Why does my husband think its right to put me down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - why is it when my husband puts me down he thinks it's right?i use to be controlling and not allow him to work and follow him everywhere he went and went threw his phone to see what he was doing on his phone and i know that is not right so some of the things i stopped doing ... (222 words)

What are things to consider when planning on getting divorced?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - when planning to get divorced, what are the things to consider. My husband and I are separated and I would like to know what to expect if our marriage does not survive, especially from those in the RSA. Thanks...... (40 words)

I don't know how to find my soul mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - hello onliners and dears my question goes like this...am now 26 year old middle height length boy i appreciate cute girls, i frequently get such kinds of girls do not get along with me for a long time just because they might love sex or money or sth else rather than long ... (72 words)

Why do girls flirt with other guys and ignore the one they have the crush on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i have noticed this recently, it's not only happened to me but to others. Well i noticed that when a girl likes a guy she does everything to ignore him and get away from him, even when the guy just passes her and says hello, the girl doesnt even look back or anything. W... (229 words)

Is it a good idea to go through with this relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am an american women dating a turkish guy. We have been talking off and on for the past two years. He comes to virginia beach, virginia every summer on a work visa. We were introdued through texting by my brother which is good friends with my boyfriend. We finally got to meet ... (98 words)

Did my counselor speak in an incorrect way to me in offering to help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Recently I went through a difficult time at home; my mother had a near fatal car accident and is still in the process of recovering. The counselor at my old school heard about the accident and contacted me. He told me that if ever needed to talk could come to hi... (204 words)

Things don't feel right with my boyfriend and I am interested in a guy at work. Things don't feel right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

30 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2.5 years and we've had a very bumpy start and mid. At the beginning of the relationship, he wasn't even sure he wanted to date me, but we somehow just started dating. Then, after about 9 months, we moved in which each other and over ... (479 words)

She's messing with my head even though she says she's not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4527 days ago

30 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up in march, she fell pregnant with my child and she is 4 months gone. We are trying to get back together or try and attempt but its going wrong all the time. We always argue, she never trusts me and wont let me do anthing without her. It seems she can do... (237 words)