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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I spice up my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend now for nearly 3 years and I love him to bits. although I'm worried that our relationship will never get to where I want it to be (I want marriage, kids etc in the future). He has been married previously and wants to take it slower, as we ha... (252 words)

She was the one being annoying first!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a friend question. Yesterday I drew a picture of my crush and my friend saw, and she took a picture and kept saying she was gonna show it to him. And she actually looked like she was gonna show him so I was jokingly like, if you show him I'll send you photos th... (257 words)

What can I do to help our relationship get past this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband have been fighting. We have 2 kids and have been married for almost 6 months; but have been together for 2 years. The other day we got into a big fight and it quickly escalated to us yelling, he accidentally pushed me down when he tried to help me up I told ... (191 words)

I'm worried I'm insecure. Why does it bother me so much that other guys check her out?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, where do I start? I have been dating my fiancé for 2 ½ years. Our relationships have grown and are getting married next year. Here’s the issue (s)..when we are out and are drinking, she becomes “flirty” and “wanders”. What I mean by wander is one minute I see her a... (270 words)

Is he just being jealous and protective, or should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend gets kinda weird when i text other guy friends. It doesn't bother me when he texts his friends that are girls. Is he just being jealous and protective or should I be worried? Thanks!... (39 words)

I like watching women in porn but want to date men, what does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I like to watch women strip but i dont want to be with a woman. It's easier to orgasm when thinking about a woman stripping or seeing it in porn but i can orgasm to hot men too...however, in reality, i want to be with a man and have a romantic relationship with a man...i dont ... (130 words)

Too early in the game to ask him to start experimenting in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

11 July 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I have just started dating this guy and things are off to a great start. We've started getting intimate pretty early on in getting to know each other but I've been crossing an idea recently and wonder how he would take it . Even though we are now being intimate with each... (355 words)

After 1 date he decided he didn't want to see me anymore

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - what do you think of such a person? I recently met a man who acted as if he was very much interested in me. He gave me so much attention, I was the centre of his world and he firmly believed that I was the right person for him. We talked a lot, he texted me a lot and made me ... (195 words)

How do I tell my gay friend I like him as more than a friend without ruining our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a gay friend who is a boy how do i tell him i like more than a friend without destroying the friendship we have at the moment?... (29 words)

If b/f was over ex why would he even be talking about her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Last night i was hanging out with my boyfriend and some topics came up that kind of upset me. First off... our relationship is fairly new and we've only been dating for around several months. I know that he got out of a long term relationship before me and it... (397 words)

My parent's disapproval has really put a damper on my engagement

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All! I am having some difficulties with my parents not approving of my engagement. My fiance and I have been together for 2 years, I am 20, he is 23. We live in our own home, pay our own bills, we are both in college, and are both working as well. We're ridiculo... (311 words)

How long should an erection last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am 20yrs, and have this issue about sexual erection. Well,I am a virgin and lately I have become quite concerned about just how long should a sexual erection last? I feel quite uncomfortable when I am horny especially in the morning since my erection can last several... (90 words)

I keep breaking up with my boyfriend and I'm not sure why I'm with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I keep breaking up with my boyfriend when I feel like I don't want to be with him, and sometimes I feel I'm only with him for the sake of himself. I love him a lot and I can't shake the feeling that I'll be lost without him, but I don't know if this is odd and that I should ... (62 words)

Should I tell him how I feel or will that ruin everything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy whom I met about four months ago. We met the first time at a bar and we both knew about each other but we had never met because our families are close so we had both heard a lot about each other. We started talking and we came up with the "wonderful" idea ... (245 words)

I've moved to be with my boyfriend and now I'm depressed thinking I've made a big mistake...help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! Feel like i'm losing it all :( I will try and make this short. Been together with my boyfriend 11 years we have had our ups and downs. We are compatible for the most part and sex is not an issue. But I have put up with a lot and have jumped threw hoops to please h... (426 words)

Have I lost my virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 yr old virgin buh i masturbated a week ago nd i fingered mysef with 2 fingers,do you think i've lost it?... (24 words)

Why do women insist on pursuing a man knowing that he's in a relationship?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This question is primarily for females. Why is it when u meet someone new or connect with someone from ur past and one of u are in a relationship with someone else, WHY DO WOMEN PERSIST ON SEDUCING THE PERSON KNOWING THEIR IN A RELATIONSHIP? Is it desperation, lack of good ... (213 words)

7 months into marriage and we hardly ever have sex....and to make things worse I find out he has a fat fetish! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - only 7 months into a marriage and have caught him 4 times watching porn, 80 naked photos of ex in our bedroom, one tucked away in his drawer..obviously a favorite.random photos of naked woman in his home...just everywhere. no i didnt need to snoop around.and the the most ... (389 words)

I'm having strange fantasies about my female friend....what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Im gonna try to be as short as possible. To be honest i never thought i wud ever fall in love with a girl. Since my childhood ive always loved boys and never a girl. I just realised yesterday when this friend of mine (girl) came to my house party, wearing a top that showed so ... (119 words)

Was I wrong to honey trap my now ex, especially as he went for it hook line and sinker?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Was I wrong to honey trap my now ex, especially as he went for it hook line and sinker?? We had been dating for a few months when he went suddenly distant, and reactivated his dating profile (he's on my favourites list so I get notifications of his online ness via email).... (175 words)

How do I tell my friend she needs to tone the self righteousness down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

- Good Day Everyone, I'm in my mid 30's and my friend Khadine and I have a mutual friend Andrea. Names are not real. Khadine and Andrea are actually cousins and I became friends with both of them at different times in my life and in different ways. I met Khadine by working ... (718 words)

I understand he wont leave his girlfriend but I can't not have him around!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused by his behaviour My story is concerning someone I knew years ago who I had a short fling with. We then went our separate ways for about 15 years and then found each other on facebook again 3 years ago. To start with it was great to catch up, we met up occassion... (524 words)

Is he at risk of getting HPV from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been treated for genital warts, they came back after the next month, I had sex recently, but it was protected, I almost gave him oral but I pulled out right away, is he still in risk of getting hpv? ... (41 words)

I cant get my ex out of my life, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i split with my boyfriend due to him controlling me and i was no longer happy. i dont live with him and was only together six months. i live with parents and sister. he keeps saying that i ended it cause i wont grow up and leave home and scared of commitment but that isnt ... (176 words)

I want to lose my virginity before I turn 22 in a month's time, but I do not want my first time to be horrible.

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Growing up I was taught to respect women, and to never use them. As I finally turned twenty one last year I realized something very sad, that I'm the last of a kind. The 21st century dating world is very different from what I was taught to live in. I've been pondering for ... (168 words)

Am I just being paranoid or should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Would it be considered a joke if a not very close friend texted you "Go f*** yourself, MWAH XOXO" and then waits til the next day to say it was just a joke or is that straight out bullying? :/ What am I suppose to do? It feels like people are ganging up on me and b*******... (243 words)

Will I ever be able to forget what he's done to me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has beat me more than a couple times before and hasn't in a period of time and has told me he wouldn't ever again but I am scared of him im scared a lot of the time and if he gets really mad at me he threatens to choke me or beat me but thing will be so perfect for ... (102 words)

She tells me she likes me and misses me, but makes no time for me. I am confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4524 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So I'm going to apologize ahead for giving so many details in this, but I feel they're all relevant, as this whole situation has completely confused me. So about 2 months ago, I met this girl throughout a mutual friend.. hung out.. cuddled/hugged, kissed a few times. I tho... (622 words)

Should I go back to my ex, or stay with my new man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - First off before i start i wanna say ive never had luck finding the right guy! So i was dating my ex for 6 months we fell in love and all that and he was great well i cheated on him and it totally changed everything of course how he treated me and everything, so he broke up ... (253 words)

Should I take a part time living arrangement in order to see more of my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) - i will be 28 and never lived with roomates or anything..the closest thing was my ex and being there a few nights a week. I met someone who is around my age and is having bad luck right now..it's been 5 dates or so but we have been talking for a month whether through text or ... (530 words)

The guy I broke up with is threatening to harm himself if I don't give him a second chance. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with a guy who didn't treat me right. But when I refused I give him a second chance, he threatened to commit suicide. This is worrying me. I told him we could be friends but he did not want to. And he just went from blaming himself and saying he would change to ... (93 words)

Nasal issues prevent me from engaging in long passionate kissing. I could really use some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4547 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I was born with nasal problems that make it really hard for me to breathe through my nose. It makes long kisses pretty difficult. How am I supposed to makeout a girl if I can't breathe through my nose? Should I hold my breath or try to breath occasionally through my mouth? Does ... (79 words)

Should I tell her the real reason I broke up with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. thanks for checking my post out. Really appreciate it. Okay first things first. I broke up with the love of my life which is my now-ex gf early month last year. I broke it off because of my mom and the reason I told my ex is because she's not up to be unfaith... (363 words)

If the scar on my thigh going to turn guys off when I start having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - When I was little I was bitten by a donkey, and I have this massive scar on my thigh. I worry that when I finally have sex, men will be repulsed by the scar. Should I try and hide it with make-up or something??? ... (48 words)

What was he trying to tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, So my boyfriend and I were laying on the couch watching a movie and he got a boner. Before I said anything he put my hand on his shorts to "tell me" he had one. Why did he do that? Just curious as of why, what was he trying to tell me? How Big he was? Guys/ girls an answe... (68 words)

Why won't she look me in the eye?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What is under the surface? There is a girl that crossed my path a few months ago. She randomly got my number and started texting me. After awhile I found out she has a girl friend. We've never crossed any lines. No flirting which is odd for me because I'm a HUGE flirt norma... (174 words)

Is there a way to get rid of excess fat in "private area"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

- Hi, I am 34 year old woman, not too fat but not too skinny either. Recently I embarked on a weight loss program and I've lost some by eating better and consistent exercise. The thing is...and I am horridly embarrassed to say this, is that my private part ...the "v" part ... (178 words)

My booty-call doesn't want me to see other guys, but I am not sure if that means "we" are exclusive.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

11 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for 3 months now casually (booty call) and i thought we were both happy with it. i was seeing other people and presumed he was too. he would text me like do you fancy meeting up? always with notice i made this clear because incase he wanted to ... (494 words)

My husband gravitates toward the young single women at his work, and I'm not supposed to ask any questions. I need some advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

- I don't how to change the way I feel! My husband works in a large field office with both males and females. Many of the women he works with are just average, married, middle-aged etc. But he gravitates toward the women half his age and those are the ones he tends to form ... (335 words)

I have fallen for my colleague who is married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

11 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - please help me..I have fallen for my colleague who is married.He is also very much in love with me and dont want to harm my prestige.But we both know that it cannot be fruitful as we are both married and that is why we dont want to proceed physically.I am so troubled,and ... (88 words)

I want sex more than twice a week while my doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

11 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I'm a male that's turning 23 years old this year. My girlfriend with whom I've been with for more than 12 months is the same age as me. I love her, she loves me and we're great for one another except one major thing - sex. I want it more than twice a week, she doesn't. After ... (445 words)