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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He pulled me up from rock bottom and I miss him being around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 15 and i went out with this guy for a couple of months he seemed really sweet and always was there for me giving me hugs and trying to to make me smile. I was going through a rough time i was having family problems at this point and had police around all the time and... (487 words)

He wont cuddle because we are not married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, The other day whilst watching a film with my boyfriend the characters mentioned snuggle time when I asked him if we could have snuggle time he said no because were not married!! Later that evening we had a arguement I told him I loved him he ignored me I started to ... (115 words)

I'm here because I need some friendly help ....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been together for four year, five in December... And I just idk our first year was so horrible, when I think back Idk why or how I kept up with his bs. I didn't get to have fun in high school because he was controlling, bit I say it some of my fault ... (292 words)

Since we got back together the sex isn't as hot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - my gf and I has a passionate beginning for the first year and a half we just couldn't get enough early on I thot I'd die from trying to keep up seemed I was her best lover ever tho, and I learned to build my appetite we had sex 3 or 4 times a day and ever af... (234 words)

He has one set of money rules for me and a different set for him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiancé and I been arguing a lot about money lately. He don't want me to help my family in any way, just want me to save for our wedding. What pisses me's dat he bought himself a car 3 months back and cannot save for a wedding as he's paying for a car. I lost my job early ... (93 words)

He was horrible, but it was my fault , I think, that we broke up. Honestly, how can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, it's been a few months since me and my ex broke up. We were together for about a year and a half, maybe less than that but close. When we broke up I was quite fine, I didn't mind at all, my feelings we're mutual. But now that it's been a few months my feelings are cha... (533 words)

I don't understand my parents. Why are they objecting to my LDR BF, and his family, so firmly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello! I am stuck in a very difficult situation at the moment. I have been in an amazing relationship for the past year. I feel so happy and complete, where I genuinely feel I found my other half even if it does sound a bit cliché. He is an incredible guy! He treats me ... (590 words)

A friend who acted as go between - (my ex and I in the middle) has betrayed me. So how DO I get my ex back? If he believes her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Advice: As ridiculous as all this will sound its true,,, I was in a relationship w/ a great guy for over a year. I wasn't always the model girlfriend because I had my guard up. He said he understood and would always be there, ,always love me unconditonally,,, I haad told hi... (678 words)

Why did I not feel ecstatic? My Bf thinks he cannot satisfy me now after my reaction to first time sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear cupid,so i just lost my virginity to my boyfriend last week.it was not funny and not in the least bit interesting or ecstatic. it even made me cry. so i let him make love to me a couple of times after that.i observed that i only feel more love and passion whenever we make ... (103 words)

Should I express my concerns? Or just go along with her excitement? She has already accepted a job in Porn industry

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend, 20 years lost her job last year and hasnt been able to find consistent work since. She came up to me a few weeks ago after talking to one of her friends about joining the porn industry. She is very interested and actually determined to do it but said she woul... (296 words)

Is it realistic to have an ambition to be a porn star? Or is my depression affecting my judgement?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I wish I looked like a pornstar I feel like my life would be so much better if I was beautiful, who out there is beatiful but got dumped? I need to know it doesn't matter, I am so depressed.... (40 words)

I'm very jealous and I don't know why.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need some advice on how to relax, when ever my boyfriend goes out drinking I get worried and scared thinking something might happen or he will forget about me, Im very jealous and i dont no why, and I don't no how to chill out because he says he won't cheat and that he ... (66 words)

I'm receiving mixed signals, need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I've been talking to for about a week. We had kinda been interested in each other for awhile, but I started talking to him one day. He seemed extremely happy I talked to him, he said I was gorgeous and he was shy to talk to me first, and he was complimenting me ... (297 words)

My friend cheated on her husband, should I tell him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a "friend" who has admitted to me that she has cheated on her husband before they got married last Sept. Though I do enjoy her company, I'm not close with her. I was rather shocked that she would tell me something like this because my fiancee is her husbands best friend, ... (186 words)

Why is my boyfriend so distant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone im in a ldr situation. and ny boyfriend is cold to me like hes always grumpy at me. and bot mood to talk, i dont know whats going on to him, whats bothering him. theres one time i ask him if he is ok? and he said hes fine! but hes bery distant lately, can you please ... (90 words)

He's express interest, but hasn't clearly stated he likes me. Would he be upset if I hooked up with another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So, there are two guys I like. We'll call one of them Jake, and one of them Josh. I have liked Jake for awhile, but we have never really met, only seen each other around school before. But last week I started talking to him, and he clearly expressed interest and wants to make a ... (231 words)

Is he just after sex or could there be potential for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy i dated two years ago it wasnt that formal it was just getting to know each other so we broke up it wasnt even an issue,so ever since we have been good friends then after a while we met one day and had sex we were not in a relationship.then i just disconnected myself ... (165 words)

Seriously considering having an affair.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll get straight to the point. I am very seriously considering having an affair. My husband has turned into a complete dead fish in the bedroom. He used to be very excited about me, he used to love to touch me, kiss me, lick me, sleep with me. He used to write me naughty ... (346 words)

I'm underweight and looking to gain weight... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I’m underweight. I’m 23 year old, male. My height is 5'9 feet/179 cm, weight 143 pounds/64 kg. I want to know how can I increase my weight? Which type of foods are good for me? Which types of exercises will help me? Can I join a gym? I feel I need more motivation... Any help ... (60 words)

I have a crush on my housemate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm living in a house with 4 boys for the summer, and last week my housemate's cousin moved in. It's early days so I'm not sure what he thinks of me but we get along well, and I've started to really fancy him. I've been single for three years for a lack of findings someone... (129 words)

I invited him back into my life but now I want him out. How will I break the news to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, So I made the mistake of taking this guy back . Even though he was a real creep while we were dating. His friends were always more important than me, he never arranged to spend time with me, took hits on my self esteem, very rarely let me hang with him and his ... (436 words)

I feel like I'm everyone's punching bag

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 17 this year and during my whole life my family and most of my friends treat me like some stupid dumb girl. I'll admit that i am blur when it comes to alot of things but my examination results are above average and considered smart. My brother is very smart so my parents ... (233 words)

Will I get pregnant from anal sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I had anal sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated inside me.will i get pregnant?Im scared.smh.... (16 words)

I didn't love him so I broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey everyone I just broke up with my boyfriend, he was a great guy and he said he loved me so much, he told he would take a bullet for me. But I didn't love him, I told him and he said that's just one of the challenges of a relationship. We were going out for three months s... (155 words)

First time sex didn't turn out so great!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I had my first intercourse experience. That may be inaccurate though, but I don't know if fingering someone is an "intercourse" experience. I had fingered her silly, she wanted more and asked for two fingers inside. I obliged and things got hot, but apparently not h... (277 words)

How do I break out of this cycle of complete and utter despair?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I am separated (15 months) and about to get the final papers through for the divorce. Problem is I don't have any (and I mean ANY) social life and am so incredibly lonely. My ex definitely doesn't want to get back together (I really have tried believe me) and I hav... (237 words)

I'm having some problems with my bipolar boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm having some problems with my bipolar boyfriend. Sometimes he says he wants to be with me,but when he is angry, he sometimes says he doesn't want to be with me. Yesterday, i told him that i wanted to meet an actor after a show that he is in, and i would have to go without my ... (319 words)

How do I get over the weight of his hurtful words and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just feel in pieces.I am 23 years old. I did it again, after my last relationship,that went crap, and my ex turned out to be cheating on me, and at the end just dumped me .I walked away and met someone else.This time I thought it would be different In the course of 3 months... (489 words)

Would a trial separation simply extend the toxic situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a place where I am afraid to take what is likely the next step. Not sure what to do. Have been married for 10 years, no children (we can't have children and Husband is against adoption). My husband was raised in a verbally abusive household. His Father is quite ... (594 words)

Everything was great until I raised the subject of feelings

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, I quite confused over my relationship I am currently having a LDR with a 28 year old man who I met online in December, He is currently in the military and hopes to stay in for possibly another 10 years,I am his longest girlfriend to date and I was in a 10 year r... (399 words)

I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need some help. There is this girl that im falling in love with. Ido not know if she likes me but she did say i was an amazing guy. We havent seen each other lately. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but do i wait until i see her again or should i ask her through ... (75 words)

I feel like he is teasing me to see how much I can take.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy of about 6 months. Recently, we had some issues with trust and ever since that happened, I feel like he is testing me to see how much I can take and if I will get jealous. He told me tonight I can't ask who he's hanging out with... (259 words)

Can young people be faithful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a 19 year old. Between us everything is good. However, many of my friends, most of my family, and even casual acquaintances who are aware of her age keep giving me warnings like: "Be careful, she's young, it's not likely she'll be able to be faithful ... (462 words)

Any ideas on working from home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have been looking for a legit work for home site that doesn't cost anything to start up do you or anybody else have any ideas I have tried everything from Avon to trying to make my own things and selling them and nothing is working I have so many bills that need to be paid ... (75 words)

My girlfriend wants to settle down, but I still want to party, advice needed please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been on a bumpy road for the past two years among trust issues partying etc..ive cheated more than she has but here lately she cheated for the first time with her ex bf because she thought we werent being serious when clearly we were over everything ... (130 words)

How do I know if I still love my wife after 20 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I will be married for 20 years this August. One thing I am struggling with is whether I am still in love with her or not. Certainly, I do not feel the same way about her I did 15 years ago in terms of the fluttery feeling of the early stages of love. I do not hate... (139 words)

I have a question about birth control.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Oh, someone please help me! Nobody has answered my question, not even Google. This is about birth control, I'm not sure if this is the right place to ask this question, but it's the only place I feel comfortable turning to. Okay so, I got on birth control because my peri... (310 words)

I don't think she will ever like me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4548 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just don't think I'll ever get her to like me!...... My fiancee's female friend that is. He and I have been together for 5 years. I am 23, my fiancee is 25, the female friend is 34. They are from the same town in their home country, she had a romantic relationship with his ... (718 words)

My jealousy could be causing more rifts in our already unsteady relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4551 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

- Why am I so jealous? Is it my Scorpio sign?...Is it because I've had my share of seemingly nice guys whoe tried to juggle another woman behind my back (so I'm suspicious of all men). Sometimes I think my jealousy is justified (i.e. one of my husband's single, female co-workers ... (424 words)

I know he is a player, so how should I proceed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I know if this guy likes me enough to date me or just wants to hook up? Ok, so I know this guy has had one girlfriend and she dumped him and he was hurt. This was about two years ago. Since then he's only hooked up with girls as one night things and basically says stuff ... (312 words)

He left me out of his birthday celebrations ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Today is my boyfriend of 3 years birthday. We have spent my birthdays and his with friends and family and even had our own little celebrations. I had told him last week that I found a babysitter and that we could hang out. Birthdays are special and should be celebrated. This ... (121 words)

After I tell a guy that my mom passed away, things go downhill. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum passed away a few years ago and although I feel I've come to terms with it and that my life has been able to move on for a couple of years now it seems to be giving me some issues. Whenever it inevitably come up with a guy and I have to explain it while I'm dating things ... (120 words)

What should I do? I still have feelings for him, even if he is cocky. Is there hope we could try again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4550 days ago

7 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - A while ago I started seeing a school friend but it was really brief only a few weeks and he started seeing someone else. So I was annoyed at him for dumping me and cheating on me with this ottper girl (kinda why we broke up but he didn't know I knew) and he was really mean... (382 words)