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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I would really like your opinions on this.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This is not really a question, but just something I'd like people's thoughts on. So, lately I've been noticing on Facebook the emergence of a lot of those supposedly inspirational photos/quotes aimed at women about loving who you are, being comfortable no matter what you're ... (296 words)

Should I help him find closure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance of 2 years has an annoying habit. We otherwise have got a great relationship going and he tells me all the time that he loves me. He does things for me without my asking, and is very sweet. But this habit of his is discussing his ex girlfriends. He keeps telling me ... (283 words)

Was I played for a fool, and if so, why?

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12 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - First off, here’s a quick background of our past relationship. We randomly met almost four years ago, when I was in town visiting from out of state. She was a graduate student and I was visiting my hometown. We connected very randomly and initially thought it was just about ... (1162 words)

Are there any decent men out there, how do I find one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I am feeling very down lately every boyfriend I have had has cheated on me I've got a daughter who is 3 her dad didn't want to know and left me as soon as I told him I was pregnant we were together for over a year I met another man who had been in prison I met ... (114 words)

I'm having some trust issues with my fiancée, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4519 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, here is my problem, I've been dating this girl for a number of years, and we are engaged and even living together. Things sometimes are smooth, but recently I found out she had been talking to guys on Skype, nothing too bad at first, but then she she talked to a guy about ... (262 words)

Is my wife not satisfied by me after 22 years of marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - enis is to small to satisfy my wife and she secretly desires a larger penis : when we where first dast over 22 years ,but I feel I have been married now ju that my pting she told me she had only 2 previous lovers prior prior to our relationship,when I asked her about them she ... (530 words)

After five years of being together, I don't love him anymore, and he can't let go. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age - I've been with this man 16 years older than me after I ended my marriage of 20 years. Five years on, I found him too old for me and he is not a caring person I've always wanted in my life. We live in separate home and he has been helpful around my house in these years. I've ... (138 words)

Should I be worried about where this thing is headed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I just recently started talking to a ex girlfriend of 6 years and everything was going fine for the first weeks, now we go days without talking. We decided when we first started talking again to take things slow, and i have asked her if anything is wrong because i didn't hear ... (126 words)

Is my girlfriend too good to be true or do people like her really exist?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now and get on so well in every area of our relationship. Am I just seeing her through rose-tinted glasses or do people like her really exist? I keep thinking something's bound to go wrong sometime, but we... (378 words)

My head tells me to get over her and move on, but I just can't let go of the feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i met his girl at work a month ago and we immediately go on well together. I absolutely loved her personality and her looks but I thought I'd get to know her a bit more before making any moves. She kept mentioning her ex and the stupid things he did and she always tease... (472 words)

I've been married two years, and have nothing in common with my husband, not even sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, im all new to this! I met my now husband 2yrs ago, we married year after we meet. We did get on well, but very quickly i found we hav nothin to talk about, we can go a whole evening without so much of an exchange of a single word, we dont like the same music or fo... (309 words)

Is he cheating, or is my past catching up with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months n we were on a solid path. It's been work to secure him of his trust issues as well as mine. The last relationship I was in ended over a year ago to a cheating man. So before I met my current bf I went out/partied a lot and of course had ... (353 words)

Should I tell her how I feel, and risk loosing her as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a workmate now for about5 months- we see each other all the time at and outside of work. I found out a few months ago that she liked me from her friend but I was unsure if I liked her back in that way. I definitely have feelings for her but am unsure if ... (395 words)

I have a boyfriend of four years, and a very strong emotional connection with a co-worker. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4540 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 4 years. We just rented a house in another city so that I can finish school and get my bachelor's degree in the healthcare field. I will be able to move back to Atlanta in less than a yr and a half. Right now we live in ... (356 words)

I had a threesome with two of my girlfriends, and now I'm wondering whether or not to tell my boyfriend.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a girl and currently in a relationship with a boy who I truly love.We have been together for a year.But I feel very guilty and I feel akward whenever im around my bf or my friends.Because just a week ago me and my 2 friends,who are girls had a 3some.We always joked around ... (199 words)

My depression is really destroying my sex life. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sex and depression, My depression is really destroying my sex life. I love him and want to get our spark back. I am attracted to him,It just doesn't feel the same as it used to. What can I do? [MODERATOR NOTE: Please specify why you are depressed and how you tried to manage t... (72 words)

Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Was my boyfriend right to be annoyed about this, or was he wrong ?. He was supposed to meet me at my house on Tuesday afternoon and then we were going to go to his house, but he didn't turn up. I was tempted to go round to his house anyway, but i didn't as i thought he might ... (344 words)

My husband of 20 years left me for a sugar girl who is 24 years his junior. Any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4526 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband of 20 years left me for a girl that is 24 years younger than him. im new to the site but could use all the help i can get. im getting better each day. i still love him very much, and unfortunatly and am still in hopes that this relationship between the two of them ... (501 words)

I feel stuck in a loop and I don't know whether it's time to leave or what? I'm stuck and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm stuck in a loop and I don't know how it's going to work out!? Is it time to end it? Ok so I'm 14 and he's 15 I know it's young but please please understand and treat me like anybody else. I know relationships at my age aren't like ones for life but I'm learning. Me... (626 words)

Paternity process - how long could it take?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a question. I am a 17 year old father ( I know don't judge) and the mom is 17 as well. Her parents forced her not to let me on the birth certificate, and now are not letting me see either one of them. My question is how long will this process take? I mean I have to file ... (178 words)

Does my boss mean he is getting attached to me or quite the contrary?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sort of seeing my boss and its agreed that there will be nothing serious for the moment...anyway, he's a fun guy, intelligent, helpful and (to me) very good-looking. The few times we spent together, he always has had to be on-call fir work. Annoying. We have different ... (125 words)

What can I do about Mum's comments about my relationship and why do I respond this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been away for two days and my boyfriend didn't meet me at the train station on my return. The train station I was getting off at was a 10 - minute drive from his house. As I was close to home, he claimed he had a headache and therefore wasn't in a fit state to drive a... (320 words)

I am confused by my male friend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I am so grateful for this wonderful site and would really value your advice on a new contact I have made. I will outline my question and then maybe you well meaning folk out there can tell me if I need to be worried or not. I'm a young very attracti... (1019 words)

Why won't he help me out with household bills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with the same man for 30 years we have been married for 26 years..he has never worked much.i have always been the one to work i got sick 3 year's ago and i can not work anymore..ok he started a job back in nov 2011i very glad he went to work but,he keeps all his ... (182 words)

Will we ever be more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a girl, I'm 17, and I've had this crazy crush on a guy for 2 years... It all started when we met at a summer camp, while we were on the bus. It's weird that we became friends almost instantly, him being the cute, sociable type and me being the shy, quiet type. While we ... (774 words)

I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm young but I'm broke, unattractive, not successful, no education. Couldn't secure a scholarship to study in the top college and hence am still at my hometown. I'm unattractive with acne. I am penniless. I'm very upset with where I am now and how broke I am. I know some ... (88 words)

"Friends" with a chance of future romance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I shall keep this as simple and uncomplicated as possible. I met an amazing woman about three months ago via a strange (yet wonderful) twist of fate. We went out on several romantic dates, laid back lunches and were just enjoying getting to know one another. We both felt a ... (403 words)

I feel alone and want to stop feeling the way I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel that many people hate me especially girls. I don't know why and when this feeling started. I'm sure if they don't really hate me, they would probably don't like me and don't enjoy my presence. Only my family and my boyfriend that really love and accept me. I remembe... (643 words)

Why is it that I always like guys who don't like me and ignore those who really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F) age 26-29 - Dear Aunts. I got a problem here with myself. Why is it that i always like guys who dont like me and ignore those who really like me? Then at the end i always get heartbroken and i dont know how to deal with this matter. I know i might be young for this but i really wish i ... (104 words)

How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know if you are just a hookup or a guy wants something more? So I'm in college and from what I know about guys is if they just want a hookup, it usually after a drunk night and then the only time they want to talk to you is when you are all drinking again. No texts ... (226 words)

Do I sleep with our roommate to get the excitement back with my boyfriend or just over my crush on him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years and think I've started falling for our roommate. Our relationship has always been rocky because of his ADHD and being Bipolar. He's expressed wanting to sleep with new girls just for the excitement seeing as I no longer make him cum ... (237 words)

I am so heartbroken that he uses porn when we are apart, how do I cope with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a hard time making real friends. i dislike people who are fake. i prefer to not have friends at all if they aren't going to be honest with who they are because if they aren't, they won't be honest with me. i only have a few people in my life i would call friends. i do... (490 words)

Any ideas, anyone, for how to get any confidence in myself at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I need a bit of reassurance if possible please, about whether people think there is hope for me in the future both in terms of developing a new relationship and getting a decent career/any advice at all on what to do. It has taken me nearly two years to get over a two d... (1333 words)

Is this marriage over or is this a phase?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4543 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a bit confused as to where this is going and need some advise please. Your advise in the past has been really very helpful. I have been married abt 13 years and in the time my husband was always antisocial and controlling though in a very manipulative way such that I ... (198 words)

Should I just stop talking to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4528 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm a 17 year-old whom has been talking to a 20 year-old man. He's openly gay, trying to break stereotypes associated with gays, which really inspires me, and I really like him. I felt like we really connected with eachother, we both have similiar interesets in almost ... (262 words)

My boyfriend's mention of my recent weight gain has lowered my self esteem. I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Recently a close family friend died and ive put on a little weight because of it. My boyfriend mention the other day that i had put on a few and when i asked him if it bothered him he swore it didnt but i think it bothers him even if he wont admit it. So i had tried to cut ... (100 words)

I take things too personally, and am afraid he my get tired of it and break up. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am dating a guy of 16 for like 7months now but somehow i kinda of always screw things up.Am kinda too sensitive and take things too personally and he hates things but most times i can't help it.Now am scared that he may soon get tired of me and break up with me but the truth ... (91 words)

I think we're into each other, but I'm not sure what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i'm in love with my friend's ex-girl, i'm afraid to tell her. It seems she loves me also coz she's been disturbing me with late night calls. What should i do?... (31 words)

Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age - Why does my live in partner of 10 yrs. not make any attempts to have sex? I always have to initiate and then it's to pleasure him as he just lays there, maybe he touches my nipples, but that's it. He does not get ontop of me and have intercourse. Either I do it or I get nothing ... (152 words)

How do I deal with this person's depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know how depression is and I understand it is hard to deal with alone. Any how My good friend is depressed and always runs away from their problems as they are depressed they are too scared to face reality and decide to use drugs and alcohol as an escape. My friend has ran ... (145 words)

When can we become physically intimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm just curious as of what guys/girls think. At what point in a relationship should a guy and a girl start doing physical things / sexual things? I've been In a relationship for about two months is it too early for making out. Handjobs... ect? ... (48 words)

Please help! LDR, does she love the same way that I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I met a wonderful girl and im such in love with her, but everything happened very fast and im a little bit skceptical. I met her a year ago but we didnt go out until last month, we spent a whole month together but now she is back to her country. I live in New York and she is f... (229 words)

How can I get over my jealousy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age - I am in a relationship with a man I love. We live together but I am so jealous. I get jealous when he talks to other girls or even watches television. He loves the show "So you think you can dance" and I hate it. I get sick to my stomach every time it is on. My question is ... (162 words)

My peers pick on me for not dating in my age group, but I'm only attracted to older men/

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4544 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm seventeen(Will be eighteen in a few months) and I am not at all attracted to guys my age. I only have crushes on men thirty and older. I have accepted this by now whether it because I have "daddy issues" as someone once told me or not. The problem is guys my age keep ... (121 words)

How do I handle my boyfriend's family drama?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! This "situation" I need advice on is not so much about a love relationship, but rather family and friends. I am dating a guy named "Jason". He has an older brother named "Jacob". Their parents are divorced. His father recently got diagnosed with cancer and is flyin... (501 words)

Now that he has a new girlfriend, I'm jealous, should I delete my ex from Facebook

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I delete my ex from Facebook? We dated two years ago and have been friends for two years. But for the past couple of months, I've been obsessing over him after learning of his new girlfriend. It's distracting me from my studies and completely silly. And confusing since I ... (129 words)

I'm thinking about moving there to be with him, is it possible with this age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi.. First thing excuses for my English. I will try to explain myself the best I can. I been separated for one year and a half. We didnt divorced yet. I live alone and have my own/independent life so I started to meet people here and there. I decided made a trip by myself. ... (388 words)

My husband would rather look at porn than initiate sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a mom of 3 and a working wife but I strive to do everything right in my relationship. However I have recentlyh found that my husband would rather look at porn than inniate sex. I take good care of myself and he tells me I'm beautiful so why would he do this? Its causing ... (74 words)

Did I lose my chance? And does he really just want to be friends?

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12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I posted this question the other day and got some answers to it. They all said that I should just accept the fact that this guy just wants to be friends and move on. So I thought I would take the advice... But then we hung out again last night and watched a movie. I thought ... (666 words)

What can I do to make myself less upset about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I started dating my best friend (of three years) two weeks ago. She is currently in a different state and has been gone for a month. I have seen her once in the month, and I think not being able to see her more often is causing me to become depressed. I stay up way to late ... (161 words)

Why does my body like him, when my mind tells differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Let's put this way. I find him attractive, but I don't think I liked the way he grooms himself. I know that he likes me, but then, I used to ignore him neither did I try to entertain that glimpse of attraction I felt. So basically we were friends, really good friends. My ... (989 words)

Girlfriend is pregnant and angry at me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I just found out that my girlfriend is pregnant. We're both just over the 40 mark, it was a major shock to me as I never, ever thought I would have children and because of our ages the odds were so slim. She already has 3 kids which can sometimes be a handful. the first thing ... (311 words)

Confused relationship: am I a slut for making out with him when I know I'm not going to marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm stuck in a real complicated situation and need some genuine advice.im 29 years old female from india.in 2008 I met a man who approached me and I fell in love with him.he was my first boyfriend ever and I truly loved him at that point beyond any explanation.i thought ... (914 words)

I didn't know we had to have the same IQ to be married.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What hurts me the most is I've been married to my husband for four years but together for five. We have 3 kids together and every time we fought he decided it was best to take off for days then come back and tell me it wasn't any of my business and I didn't have a right to know ... (152 words)

Why is he erasing me from his life like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4546 days ago

12 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question here last week. Basically my recent ex and I broke up because we're incompatible. We had different expectations and wants in a relationship which result in arguments. A lot of it was due to cultural differences. He's an international student but his parents ... (308 words)

Talking to my ex again but things are a little complicated, help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4545 days ago

12 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I currently started talking to my ex-fiance again but things are a little complicated and i don't know what exactly to think.... I was with my ex fiance for 6 years we broke up 2 years ago and then she contacts my sister saying she wanted to talk , i was relationship the... (208 words)