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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do you think we could still be friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey all... I'm back again talking about the same girl that I've talked about in previous posts, with the party and the creepy joke and me pouring my heart out to her and failing. For those of you who don't know this long and painful story, here it is: So I'm 16... There's th... (700 words)

Do you think women have a more difficult time letting go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is just a general question, but do you agony aunts find that girls have a harder time getting over exes than guys? Every girl I know has an ex who they still have a thing for if even in just a small way. I admit to still being attracted to.some exes but nothing past tha... (116 words)

I can't get over my jealous feelings about his texting with his female best friend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So today, I read my bf's text messages (he let me) between him and his girl best friend. They haven't talked for a few days, but I'm bothered. Keep in mind that he's not the person to really text, and when he does, it's short and to the point. Basically the text was him try... (235 words)

What's wrong with me? I don't understand.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 years old mother of 3 been married 12 years husband has looked at porn since he was a teenager. At first I was mad about it then realized He wasn't gonna stop no matter what. So I accepted it even though it hurt. He has told me when he watches it he thinks of me don't ... (180 words)

Am I doing these Kegels correctly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

- Hi all! I've been trying to do my kegel exercises, not because I feel as though I'm loose down there or anything but I would like to be able to grip my boyfriend harder during sex as he finds its really pleasureable, I've never done kegels before so I looked it up and it said ... (112 words)

I found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Found out today the guy I'm seeing has twins on the way. Its a shock. I like him a lot but I feel like running and fast. He already has two! I have no kids and though I love them I have no desire to have them now or to be a stepmom honestly. I know I'm being a coward but I ... (96 words)

My husband ogles other women, flirts with other women in front of me, and is mean about my body since I had our baby.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4525 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had our baby 5 months ago. During my pregnancy, I was on serious bed rest, and meds, for 3 months, then after, I had to recover from Caesarean for another few months. I was approx 110lbs when I got pregnant, and gained quite a bit of weight due to pregnancy, and ... (403 words)

I'd love to see him more often but don't know if he likes me enough to have a proper relationship but is scared.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I've really liked this guy for about 18 months now. I don't see him that often, just a few times a year, when he comes to visit family next door. We've slept together twice; first time over a year ago when we were drunk, and the second time a few months ago when we were sober. ... (365 words)

Should I believe this psychic's reading?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

- Hi everyone! So I just had a psychic reading, it wasn't very in depth or anything because it was free and if I wanted to find out more she wanted me to pay but I didn't because I don't know where I stand with psychics, I guess I'm a bit skeptical. However her reading sa... (244 words)

Should I wait for him to be ready, keep talking and getting to know each other more, and risk the chance of getting my heart broken again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A few months ago I met an amazing guy a couple years older than me. He is going through the end of a divorce, though. She filed against him over a year ago and has moved on. He, however, says that he is not ready for a relationship yet. We hang out and talk on almost a daily ba... (383 words)

Do you ever look?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok question: Do any of you women or men in any type of relationship ever ever snoop or look thru draws, files papers laying out computer, phone looking thru the boyfriends/girlfriends things when they arent around? Am I the only one who NEVER ever thinks about it, it makes me ... (100 words)

My ex-boyfriend is harrassing me! please help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm only 15 years old and my 17 year old ex- boyfriend is harrassing me. I ended the relationship just about a month ago for no mega dramatic reason but I just knew his wasnt for me, we had been together about a year and a half and now he's just refusing to let go! at ... (168 words)

I'm not sure that I can handle this long distance relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there, So I need some advice from you guys. I have a met a really wonderful guy recently. We got together at the beginning of May at Uni, unfortunately around revision period and then on June 7th following the end of term we had to separate. Because he's been so b... (220 words)

I feel threatened by other women's attractiveness, and I'm scared men might cheat on me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4535 days ago

16 July 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I need help with my self esteem, or more so, with my self image. I feel very threatened by hot women, be them in real life or on TV, movies, whatever. I'm kind, smart, funny... but I just don't feel it matters, or at leat that it matters as much, to guys. Let me explain, I re... (680 words)

Any ideas for my daughter's 16th birthday party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4530 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So my daughters 16th birthday is coming up in August and I don't know what to do for it I've read things on themes but she's not. Into stuff like that and we live in a small town so people aren't willing to do dances or anything formal...any suggestions?... (49 words)

I am supposed to kiss but I don't know how!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - In ireland there is a type of kiss called a meet and I have been asked to meet this boy I like . The only problem is I don't no how to meet . So I'm asking how to meet do u open ur mouth before u lean in ? And do u move your lips ? ... (57 words)

I want to invite my friend over for a meal but don't really have the room!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Aunts (and Uncles), I'm not sure what to do about this dilemna and really need help! I have decided that I REALLY must invite a close friend of mine over to my place and I want to prepare a nice meal for him. The trouble is, I rent a room in this house so there's no... (159 words)

All of my boyfriend's ex girlfriends and friends are strippers, ex cons, prostitutes, porn stars ...and generally people who are a little shady, while I'm a virgin!! What the hell is going on?! Why did he pick me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is 31, I am 26 and we have been together for about seven months. Things are going great...however...I'm confused about the fact that all his exes and friends are strippers, ex cons, prostitutes, porn stars ...and generally people who are a little shady. Don't get me ... (215 words)

My boyfriend is bipolar. Is there a chance that we will be ok if he takes his meds?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4246 days ago

16 July 2012 (?) age 30-35 - I would have been with my boyfriend a year as of the 23rd. Throughout the whole relationship he has had what appeared as trust issues. Looking through my facebook/phone, accusations, and bad thoughts that he said he "couldn't control", running through his head. He would ... (615 words)

Does every woman queef?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

- Does every female queef? I really want to be able to stop queefing during intercourse, I usually do the first time, for example say on a night time the first time me and my partner have sex I usually queef then if we have sex more times during that night after that I usu... (146 words)

Should I contact a long lost love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am thinking about messageing a guy I went out with a long time ago through one of the social networking sites. I think of him often and would love to reconnect with him, the only thing stopping me is the fear that he will reject me or not respond. I am quite an anxious person ... (168 words)

Trouble with forgiveness...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone else have a problem with forgiving people and had to watch people they dearly loved pass them by? Did you decide to forgive them when it was too late?... (31 words)

What do I do? He doesn't seem to have time for me any more...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! I have a boyfriend and weve been together for 1.5 years now. We used to meet a lot but recently he has gotten very busy and i havent seen him in 3 months. Firstly about 2 months back he went to his native town, about 7 hours drive away from here. He did not inform me ... (312 words)

Why do I always find fault in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help! I've recently started dating this guy that I dated previously (about 10 years ago). The only reason we stopped dating previously was because we had both been recently divorced and not really looking for anything serious. We stayed in touch but back in Nov. started ... (349 words)

Am I the problem... or her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it me or her ? Ok my gf and I been dating for a while now. We started out fine till when she started acting sneaky i call it. I cant see her every time we plan on seeing each other. She always makes up an excuse, the first time was she had to bail out her brother from jail. ... (449 words)

We have no communication and he wants to get married!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend blocks everything out, including me. My kids love him to death but this relationship is going dead fast and i have talked to him about it and he sees he does nothing wrong. i am about to blow up because we have no communication and he wants to get married? right if ... (68 words)

He wants to leave me because I'm not as smart as he is...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a husband that wants to leave me because I'm not as smart as him and he said he's lonely and I feel bad but we have three kids. I'm not perfect I have made some bad mistakes such as I used to hit my partner because he would back me in a corner. I don't trust him because ... (184 words)

I wish they didn't exist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is very harsh as I'm a mother to a 3 year old myself but I seriously cannot stand the sight or thought of my boyfriend's children. He has 3 kids to 2 different women they are 6, 4 and 2 and I'm now 3 months gone with his 4th. At one point I thought they were great but ... (161 words)

My insecurities? His inconsideration?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I really don't know who is in the wrong regarding our situation? My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year and just moved in together. He will sometimes put on these (sexy teenager movies) he used to watch while growing up (ps. he is 34 years old) and t... (484 words)

Have my wife and friend been intimate behind my back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4537 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - A while ago I asked for advice about fulfilling my wifes mfm fantasy with my friend. A resounding 'bad idea' was what most people said,which is fair enough and we are not going to pursue it. However,some of u said that given what I'd said about our relationship, the likelihood ... (468 words)

Should I really have to train my 27 year old boyfriend how to communicate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4540 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm not sure what to do or think. I have dated my boyfriend for a year. and he struggles with communication. I've tried to be very patient and let him be, and let him talk more when he is ready. However a lot of issues starting coming about, because of the lack of un... (779 words)

My husband is very critical of my friends, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband doesn't understand why I keep on being friends with some of my girlfriends. More, he developed an attitude of not liking them, because of their actions. He makes negative remarks about them all the time, and with some of them I agree but it doesn't stop me on being... (710 words)

I think we could have a great relationship if only the arguments stopped, but at the moment I'm only with him for the sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been seeing a guy for 5 months and he gets upset with me most of the time. After a week he looked through my phone and facebook messages as he has been cheated on in the past. He found messages on facebook, about 4 guys asked me out even though it said i was in a ... (420 words)

I get the vibe that he likes me but he is just too shy to make a move! What can I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age - My question is how do I know a man likes me? My daughter is involved in theater and two summers back and man would hang around in the hallways during some rehearsals and all of tech week. He also would go to all the performances. I hang out in the hallway making the ... (622 words)

Went out with a colleague who has a girlfriend just as friends, and I got upset with myself for enjoying it so much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i really like a guy i work with. the other day we went out as friends for a pizza and movie. he treated me so well that i got so upset and he ended up hugging me for 2 hours. im ashamed to say i really enjoyed it. i was feeling extremely low as i havent been treated well by ... (167 words)

My boyfriend's best friend is coming onto me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend but he seems to still put effort to get with me. Ask me for dinner, trying to get my attention, chat asking about me and my boyfriend etc. He's also my boyfriend's best friend. How he could still trying to close with me. Honestl... (183 words)

I want him to leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age - i'm a 50 year old lady and i'm married, but i'm not in love with my husband. we have both told each other that we love one another, but we'll not in love with each other. we separate for four months' because he stole from me his attitude was bad he was loud, jealous,did want me ... (198 words)

The spark is gone in the bedroom!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Im married for 8 years. The relationship is good we love each other very much. The problem is the spark in the bedroom is not there anymore. How can I fix that. She push me away if I try foreplay. What should I do? I really love my wife so I would love to get the sex spark ba... (65 words)

I've just discovered the girl I like has HIV and now I'm not sure what I should do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So for a good amount of time I've been single and haven't had much going on in my romantic life, partly because I'm very picky about girls and partly because I had a long period of being less social than I used to be. Recently though I've been spending a pretty good amount of ... (369 words)

Do any of you write to your exes after the dust settles?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4539 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I could use some guidance on something that has been bothering me for weeks. I divorced about a year and a half ago and recently remarried (to someone new). I am so in love and truly on a better path in life. My former marriage was long however, and now that the wedding... (325 words)

I doubted him so I tested him and now he says I didn't trust him so we have nothing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids.i am grl of 18 nd in a relationship wid a guy whom i love wholeheartedly.he loves me too.i hav a minor doubts on him considering his relation wid other grls.therfore,its been 2 weeks past , i have a loyality test on him nd he passed it .but from d day he comes to ... (144 words)

I have anxiety/panic attacks and I'm afraid to tell anyone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So I know this is really a relationship problem, but I don't really know where else to go right now. Lately, I've been having really bad anxiety, and I'm scared to tell anyone or go to a therapist. I'm only 16, and it gets really bad, I have panic attacks. I don't... (148 words)

Do you get turned on by tickling?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have liked tickling for as long as I can remember. I find it fun and love tickling girls, especially on their feet. Does anybody enjoy tickling or being tickled? And to make the discussion even more interesting, does anyone get turned on by it? I heard that people can ... (60 words)

One night stand cheat on my girlfriend of 3 yrs,..Should I tell her or live with guilt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4538 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my gf for 3 years now and our relationship has been the greatest thing in my life. Weve been though a hell of alot with each other and theres nothing i wouldnt do for her. Weve talked immensely about not cheating on each other bc we both have been in the ... (349 words)

How do I make him break up with me instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - My love life is crazy now. I met a guy and i really like him and he loves me but we have a long distance relationship and i think i have gotten over him i promised him i would not break his heart. How do i make him break up with me instead? I also need to know how can i tell i... (73 words)

We aren't dating even though I said we hold hands

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, I've known one of my best guy friends for a long time. We've always done everything together; we hang out 24/7 and we have a good time with each other. But this summer I have been feeling like he's more than a best friend now. He is super sweet and makes me laugh... (168 words)

Whenever there's a question of further commitment I freak out....I think I need more time to decide

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4541 days ago

16 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my guy for years now, been going out for 6. We've had ups and downs, he was deployed a couple of times, long distance, etc., but then we started law school together, a couple years ago. We originally lived together too but that proved too difficult, fighting a ... (552 words)