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female
age
30-35,
*Dazzling
writes:I'm falling for this guy I've gotten to know over the last few months. We started out just talking a lot and getting to know each other, talking for hours. As friends do. But since then it's developed to flirting a bit. He asked me to go to the ball with him and I said yes, but before that I asked if two people can go to the ball together as just friends. (I didn't like him in that way then!!) He said "Oh. Well that's even better."But now I really like him. Everyday he'll come up behind me and wrap his arms around my shoulders at school. I don't see him hug other girls. He tries hard to convince me to go to the same university as him next year. He's asked me who I'm into and I thought *you!* but said "cheese" and he said "my name is cheese? Lol jokes." I asked him if he could go on a date with anyone who would it be and why? And he said "You? Because you gave me these questions?" (Whatever that meant?) He's concerned when I'm ill and always helps me out with problems. He's gotten hurt when I ignored him when I was mad but we cleared that up.He bikes past my house after work and wants to see me then. So I come out. The whole time that we talk, we hug ar the same time. His arms around my waist, mine around his neck. He tucks my hair behind my ear and kisses my forehead. We hung out today. He kept trying to hold my hand while we were walking. We did that same hug-for-ages-while we talk thing and he asked me what I was thinking. And after I said "you like hugging, don't you?" He said something like "is there something else you like doing?" But he wouldn't say what.. i'm guessing he meant kissing? But I don't know. Before I left we hugged and he kissed my cheek, and I kissed his cheek.This is frustrating though. How do I know if he's just a flirt or if he likes me? Is he just a flirt if he doesn't ask me out? Cause I like him and I'd like to go out with him but if he doesn't genuinely like me then... I don't want to just fool around. I don't want to get hurt. He asked me to go to the movies together tomorrow. But it's just as friends. :( the ball is in 3 weeks and we're going together. I don't know. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012): I reckon he likes you, if you don't see him doing this to any other girl than I'm pretty sure he wants to be with you. Considering all the relationship type of things you guys are doing such as hugging and being slightly intimate, I think he thinks that you guys are practically are dating considering he did ask you out and you said yes even though you asked two other of your friends out.
If you're still feeling confused, what i would do to make things clear would be to ask him if he wants to be your official boyfriend, tell him how you feel. I'm sure he'll reciprocate the feelings considering all the lovey dovey things you two have already done. Just be straight forward, I believe you'll be fine :)
I hope you guys have fun at the ball Sweety ;)
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