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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My former fiance wants to try again, but slowly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently started talking to my ex-fiance (we broke up 2 years ago). Everything in my life was going fine till my sister calls me and tell me she (my ex-fiance) wants to talk to me again and misses me and has feelings for me and all that.. I still have feelings for her so i ... (207 words)

How can I make anal sex pleasurable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4322 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ladies, how do you make anal sex more comfortable? Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I would love to try it and enjoy it but it just hurts so much! My man hasn't been real pushy about it since the first few times we tried and failed miserably but I know he would ... (78 words)

Fallen out of love but I stay for the sake of my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I was seeing this girl, we have been together for 2 months or so, my roommate knew this and we kept making plans to hang out well she suggested that we all hang out and she brought a friend for him, so they hit it off and we got kicked out the barracks so we go to the ... (545 words)

My Adult Sons Are Disrespectful And Verbally Abusive. I Could Really Use Some Advise.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 45 with 2 "boys" aged 20 and 22. Both are finished A-Level and College. The oldest works part time 12-16 hours a week mostly in the in the evenings and other than going to football and the gym spends his time either in bed or in front of the telly or face-boo... (808 words)

Have I Fallen Out Of Love With Him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some opinions and advice. I was with my man for 3 years, I fell pregnant within 9 months of meeting him, our son is now 15 months. I really did love my partner and never felt that way before, but this last year all I ever do is break up with him and kick him out ... (205 words)

In Love With A Man Who Has A Girlfriend Of Five Years. Not Sure What To Do, Please Help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi All, Now before I start...let he without sin cast the first stone! A bit of background about me. Single parent of 3 children and been single for 8.5 years by choice!Always put my kids first and as you can see quite a mature lady.But somehow fell in love with a co worker... (1554 words)

I Broke Up With My Boyfriend, And Now I'm Jealous Over A New Girl He's Seeing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I broke up with my boyfriend about 6 weeks ago. It wasn't in anyway a bad break up- our relationship kinda fizzled out and we decided it was time for us to go our separate ways. Recently(like the past few days) I've been thinking about him alot and wondering what hes up t... (149 words)

She's 15 and pregnant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I found out something. I'm not supposed to know, or to tell anyone, so i need to vent somewhere. Theres this girl in my grade. She's 15, and has a reputation of sleeping with a lot of guys, smoking pot, drinking, and i think she's done some drugs. She's not the smartest..and ... (187 words)

Mixed signals from a man aged 60

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

- I have been divorced since 2007 and I joined a friendship/dating site to meet a couple of male platonic friends. Anyway, I found one man was widowed around 9 months ago and was looking for "a serious relationship" so I sent my condolances and we started seeing each other. I ... (426 words)

In love with a co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I think I'm in love with a co worker. 3 months ago I was head over hills but made sure that he doesn't notice. I've tried to think of it as a maybe I'm in love with his looks as he very handsome. I was on leave for a month at least I was able to forget about him ... (128 words)

My girlfriend's father just learned I have Aspergers and now he doesn't want her dating me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, everyone. In a bit of a bother. A month ago I entered a relationship with the most amazing girl. It's become pretty obvious with friends and some family that this could get really serious, and was going extremely well until something happened. Now, when I was 8 year's ... (244 words)

We had sex then he deleted me from Facebook

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4331 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy I met last weekend, he's 25, 26 next month and I'm 18. We were getting on well. The next night I went to his but the thing is I was really shy and just blamed it on being tired. Anyways, we had sex. I know I shouldn't of but it just happened. Even the next day I was ... (95 words)

I finally told my g/f all the details of when I cheated and now I can't stop talking!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I cheated on my girlfriend 7 months ago and we have now been dating for 8 months. I told her that i cheated on her but didnt tell her everything. A few days later i felt guilty again and told her everything. Now i cannot stop telling her everything bad that comes to my mind ... (115 words)

Breaking up with someone who thinks everything is fine. How do I do that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm onl with my guy for 3 months and I'm already considering breaking up. He does not respect me, emotionally abuses me, says hurtful things that are destructive to my self-image, controls the things I do or what I wear. But how should I break it to him when he thinks the ... (62 words)

I want a driver's license but I'm too scared to get one

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4334 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I honestly feel like giving up on the idea of me ever getting my drivers license! I am 23 years old and still have to ask for rides like a damn teenager. I'm too scared to drive I get behind the wheel and panic. I just don't know what to do anymore... (52 words)

Do men enjoy passionate kisses after marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 10 years and when we were dating my husband would kiss me passionately and frequently. Then after the wedding I have spent the last 10 years letting him know it is a part of foreplay that gets me into the mood and that I need this form of intimacy, however ... (177 words)

STI tests and the IUD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When I met my current boyfriend (at 18) I had no sexual experience, I'd never even been kissed. During the two years that have passed since, he's become my first for everything. We've always used condoms during sex because at the moment it's the best method of birth control for ... (198 words)

Why the cycle of warm and cold?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - When I was in high school, there was a girl I like. She smiles at me and gets angry whenever I talk to another girl. Even if I dont talk to another girl, she is still mean (1 week mean and ignoring me and 1-2 days give me a smile, and then mean/ignoring AGAIN). this cycle kept ... (138 words)

Why would he do all of this to me yet still continue with the relationship? Am I the one to blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i meet my partner 6 yrs ago, he was my friends brother, she told me he liked me and did not seem to have a problem with dating him, that was until i did date him. Everyone seem to all of a sudden be on my back, why i dont know, first of my partner would come to me all the time ... (713 words)

Is he going off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there, ok I get so confused with dating these days! I met a guy at a friends country house wkd away, not total player type, not even good looking like I normally go for but we just clicked and hit it off and were inseparable for most of the wkd. We did not exchange ... (380 words)

My girlfriend is pregnant, I never wanted kids but she wont have an abortion or give the child up for adoption. Where do I go from here?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4335 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - We got back from a holiday to Florida yesterday and the past few days she had been feeling sick - we put it down to something she ate or the heat but i got her a test to put my mind at rest. She did 2 in the airport in the morning and they came back saying positive by 3 plus ... (461 words)

My boyfriend's dog is getting in the way of our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi ,The issue i have is when i stay over at my boyfriends ,his dog does not sleep at night ,he comes in and jumps on and off the bed ,this can go on for hours and everyone else gets woken up too .The dog can't be shut in a room ,he hates it .He was like this when i started ... (110 words)

Why is he being a bit cold towards me all of a sudden?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4324 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Iv known this guy im seeing for nearly 2 years and have been reasonably close friends during this time. We used to see each other when we first met but he wasnt over his ex so just decided to be friends. We have both recently ended very short term relationships that werent ... (258 words)

How to stop being lovey dovey?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, so here's the deal: My boyfriend hates when I'm... "gay" with him. Ok first off I'm a girl, and the word "gay" is how he describes it. I tell him I love him and I hug him lots and kiss him lots and want him all to myself sometimes- I'm just very affectionate!~ I'm ... (120 words)

Is he just shy, or is he trying to blow me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have known this guy for about 2 years, we play a co-ed sport together at university. A few months ago he asked me to stay over, since then we have had 5 sleep overs. we havent kissed at all, only talked and cuddled untill we fall asleep. it is always on the weekends and we ... (124 words)

What are the unwritten rules about living together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - what are the rules of moving in togather? Does the man always have to tell the wife/gf where he is going,what hes doing, vice verser with the girl, does she tell her man where she is going if she steps out the door, visitin rules who can visit who cant? etc, fill me in folks, ... (78 words)

I'm being pressured to get a job and drive , but I still don't feel ready!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'll try to make this as brief as possible... My mom and step dad have been pressuring me to drive and get a job, ever since I graduated, which was only a few weeks ago. Now, I took two weeks off from everything to de-stress, but now I've been studying for my permit test... (245 words)

Will I pee or have an orgasm?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (?) age 26-29 - I was being fingered by my bf and i felt like i had to pee the whole time will i end up peeing of will my body just have an orgasm?... (31 words)

Is this relationship something I can salvage? Is my resentment of my boyfriend due to this intellectual gap normal, or is it symptomatic of a deeper issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend isn't my intellectual equal. We've been going out for over 2 years and I'm contemplating ending it. While he is friendly, nice, and I would like to think loyal, we have never had an intellectually stimulating conversation. NEVER. HE absolutely lacks the ability to ... (508 words)

My father yells at me all the time and I can't deal with it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my dad says i'm stupid. he yells all the time. i have no one to talk to about this. he has always yelled, even if there wasn't a reason. i cry all the time and feel like no one cares anymore. i can't get away form him. i can't talk to a councilor, i have no friends. my mom has ... (97 words)

I'm starting to give up on women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I hate how women are so complicated, i think that everyone has relationships in the past that alter their veiws on other potential parnters, as how to act and how to behave and what not to do. I find that saying so true nowadays that women are so complicated, i'm close to ... (483 words)

Is it true that the most attractive girls don't get married first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend has some theories on why the most attractive girls often stay single longer than the less attractive ones. Tell me if you think this is true, or if there are some major confounders at work that would explain it better. If all ladies are ranked a number 1-10, wit... (246 words)

Are there videos for love making?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Has there beeen any porn created for people who want to be made loved to and give love to? I know they have it on sex, bondage, rape, domination, etc. But, what about people who want to see love making? Those who want to see a man treating a woman respect and a woman treating ... (64 words)

He's keeping a secret from me and I'm worried about what that means

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My BF of a year and a half had some type of trauma nearly 12 yrs ago. He eludes to it having made him who he is today but he won't share the story with me. I'm a bit hurt he won't share this big part of his life with him. I've shared my deepest, darkest secrets with him but ... (101 words)

What started out innocent has turned into a trouble situation with a man old enough to be my father

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4325 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I got myself in a unhealthy situation. - Short version: I befriended a new member of the archery range I'm at. He's in his mid fifties. He assured me all he wanted was friendship. Stupid and naive as I was I accepted this. I even accepted a job offer. Then he came up with ... (727 words)

Is this banter or should I be worried? And doesn't she see that the picture she uses of her and my boyfriend makes her look silly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all. I'm currently been with my bf for 7 months and things are going well. I've noticed though that on Facebook the same girl a work friends keeps posting on his wall and even posted a pic of them two sitting together we her leaning into him. Now I Don't mind that sh... (225 words)

Do I tell crush how I feel? I think he's attached, but he's moving away!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone, I could really do with some advice. I've been dreaming about a particular guy for almost two years now but have never told him how I feel. We're both doctors and he's about to move to a new area and it's killing me. Let's call him James. Well, we met two years ... (179 words)

Boyfriend acts kind of strange about sex. Is he gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age - My man prefers to masturbate while I am next to him sucking on his chest. I want him to have intercourse with me but he doesn't. He will only let me ride it and most of the time it is not that hard. He is 66 and I am 59. Do you think he might be gay?... (61 words)

I've fallen in love with my friend! Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4337 days ago

3 July 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so yes i've done the thing i have heard about soo many times, fallen in love with a friend. i am head over heals just think about him 24.7. would like to ask what i should do? we are both sikh, different caste (problem) he is 28 I am 22 this year. Just spoken through f... (221 words)