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writes:gf wants sex without a condom, what does this mean? in all relationships i been in never had a girl ask to have sex without a condom, this is first time, bit wierd, does this mean she loves me or wants kids?
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (30 December 2011):
Ask her this directly. Make sure you're both STD free; get tested. And if you don't want an unplanned pregnancy, make sure she is on some other form of contraceptives.
But yes, generally sex without a condom is more pleasurable for her and you as well! Enjoy! But be safe.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 December 2011):
 Condoms can feel uncomfortable, be awkward to deal with, and can interrupt everything. She may want to feel you rather than feel latex. There are many reasons.
Regardless of her reasons, you need to both be tested for STDs before switching from them and make sure she's on another method of birth control that has had time to take hold/be effective before you ditch the condoms.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 December 2011):
 Did you ASK HER?
Maybe she just prefers sex without a condom. I know I do.
IF you are in a long term committed MONGOAMOUS relationship and both have had STD testing and she is on some reliable form of Birth Control (i.e. implants, shots or birth control pills) then perhaps it might be something to consider.
My doctor knows I have had STD testing, that I am living with my partner that we are mongoamous and yet she still insists we should be using condoms...
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): with some (serious) bfriends I did ask that, but only because I am allergic to latex and non-latex condoms are very expensive and less reliable, and I was always taking the pill, and always asking to exchange HIV tests-- could it be that she is uncomfortable with condoms?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): If you have been together for a long time already then most couples stop using condoms with the gf takin the pill or some other method of contraception. Before you do, you should both have STI tests and a blood test for HIV because you can't be too careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): She probably just wants to 'feel' you.. Only way to find out is to ask her?
Condoms prevent transmitting STDs as well as birth control.. so maybe if you do want to go without you should both get tested first
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reader, wendy2011  +, writes (30 December 2011):
hi, this could mean anything, but less likey means its because she loves you. it could mean she wants the natural and definately better 'taste'. it could mean she wants a baby, or worse, it could mean she is HIV positive and doesnt care about infection anymore. I would advise you not to accept. explain to her that you feel using condoms is the best to prevent infections and unplanned preganancy. ask her also why she wants it that way...
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