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writes:Heyy, well to start with my boyfriend knows my facebook password and i know his, today an old friend of mine was talking to me and he was saying some pretty inaproprate things to me, my boyfriend saw them and got mad i begged him not to say anything to him as he is a good friend ive known since i was tiny anyway he did, he thretened him on my facebook then he blocked me so my boyfriend couldnt say anyhting else to him. Then i got mad at him and said what did you have to do that for, so then he went and changed my msn password so i couldnt talk to him on there (without my permission but i dont know how he did it because he didnt know my password to start with) then i guessed it, it was the same one as his facebook password so i eventually loged in.But am i wrong in thinking it was wrong for him to do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): your bf is way out of line. he had no right to change your password. that is abusing your trust that you gave him when you let him have your password to begin with. He took that trust and threw it back in your face.
please be cautious in this relationship. controlling behavior like this rarely is limited to just a one time thing. and it could escalate and get worse.
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (31 December 2011):
 Your boyfriend was wrong to change your password on you, he doesn't have the right to do that.I suggest you both change your passwords and do not tell each other what it is. This is controlling behaviour and shows a lack of trust. He should have let you handle the situation with this guy. Talk to your boyfriend and explain to him, how you feel and that you would have dealt with it in your way if he had given you a chance. That from now on you do not want to know his passwords and you won't be letting him know his password, because there has to be trust in your relationship. If he can't trust you or see that he did wrong, I would seriously consider whether you want to be in a relationship like this one. Good Luck.
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