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30-35,
anonymous
writes:how do i forget about a girl i had some fealings for?we had been talking for about 2 months flirting and all of that... at one point she asked my brother when i was home from work cos she wanted to talk... she had personal heart to hearts with me seeking advice (now this was a realy personal deppresive state she was in, and i was honored she turned to me for help... and i cant emphasise this fact, because if she hadent told me what she did i would have forgotten her a long time ago its the fact she told me made me think she maby likes me more than a friend and wich connected me more to her) and asked to meet up with me, wich she never has and hasent mentioned it since and she nevers initiates a convo with me im always the one to talk first, but when i do talk to her i always get a reply and she will allways chat back. but recently i have found from facebook (isnt facebook great) she likes some one else... i think, and she is facebook marrying the person i think she likes, they always flirt and her friends are trying to get her with him. for me its time just to forget, its not going to happen with her (wich i once thought it might, im sure she did aswell) and i just need to forget about her, but how? im a regular facebook user and i cant help been nosy every now and then and i always see her online and resist the chance to speak to her buts its hard :( so what can i do to forget about her? and just on the off chance from the aabove does it sound like ther could be a chance in the future? :Pthanks
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (6 January 2012):
 I don't understand why you don't (or didn't) tell her how you feel?
It would be so much easier. You already have history and you said you think she likes you. You have talked before, you just need to step up and take charge of the situation.
There's only one thing you can do when you are not sure, ask the other person. Then you will have your answer and will know what to do from there.
Forget all that facebook staring at the pages and letting your mind drift off. We are made to communicate and feel. If you try and it works out then great, if not then you will be a free man to try another time and you will learn from it.
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