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writes:Best and most effective ways to get over the crush who rejected you?It feels like I've tried everything but it still doesn't seem to help. I did what most people would say; "Cut ALL contact". And now a friend of mine told me that this girl has started dating another dude and it seriously breaks my heart.Thank you all in advance.PS: It will be VERY hard avoiding her completely comsidering that that we go to the same school and pretty much have the same friends.
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (1 January 2012):
 Just start looking for someone new.
That's what I did when my crush asked out my best friend. After a while, you'll start to notice other people, and forget her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2011): Gotta agree with 'freak', when I was rejected I just remembered, she's happy and I wanted to make her and I happy. So I only got half of that. But at least knowing she's happy, mAkes me happy.
Music is a great way to express your emotions privately. Listen to
'my sunshine' by jerimih
'without you' by usher.
And also adele songs are good for heartbreaks.
Just stay friends. Don't need to be ful contact, but don't forget about her on a negative note.
You will get through it! I did.
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reader, Ima FreAk!  +, writes (31 December 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
Best way to move on from a girl or any lover to be honest is think of the bad times you've had together. Everytime you look at her think of how she broke your heart and the fights that you guys had.
Don't cut her outta your life that is really unnecessary but you know talk to her be her friend kinda thing I know it's hard but sometimes its nice to be friendly to exes doesn't have to always end in a bitchy hateful way.
Another thing that could help is think that she is happy and that's what is really important doesn't matter who she is with so long as she is happy!
Honestly, it's ok to cry about it, you need some alone time where you can just be yourself. Music is the biggest cure and time is the greatest. Only time will heal and it will all get better in time!
Listen to songs like someone like you by Adele, till I forget about you by big time rush and definitely a really good one, better in time by leona lewis!
Keep singing and it will help, just forget about your crush and you know watch movies, take your mind of her but it's gonna take some motivation to get over her.
Don't make others feel sorry for you your yourself, don't feel sorry for yourself! You can get over her you can do it!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck!
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (31 December 2011):
 Make a conscious decision to move on, and one fine day you will find you did.
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