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anonymous
writes:i have been with my girlfriend for almost 4 months now, i am kinda starting to loose interest in the relationship cause we all busy and i wanna focus on school too. Anyway we kinda split up like two weeks ago not really a break up, just like a break then this week after Christmas she asked if she could come over i didn't wanna sound rude or anything so i said sure. Then the unexpected happened, we ended up having sex this was the first time we had sex since we started going out. i wanted to break up with her before the sex that's why i let her come over to my house so we can talk about, but now i feel like if i tell her i cant see her no more she may think i just wanted to have sex with her. please help me out on this what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2011): If you break up with her now, yes she will think you just wanted sex. You should have broken up with her before you had sex with her. What should you do, well you should have kept in your pants and done the right thing breaking up with her before sleeping with her, now that you have already done that, you really need to have a think about it. You shouldn't stay in a relationship if it's not what you want, but if you break up with her, don't expect it to be nice break up, or to be friends afterwards, and don't get upset if she gets angry with you, as it is likely to be the case.
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