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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My bf and I are both in our first serious relationship, and also inexperienced. I am more shy while hes a bit more adventurous and doesn't mind trying new things regarding physical intimacy. We haven't gone all the way, because I dont want to. But he really wants to try oral. He has no problem doing it to me, but when I went down on him i just couldnt do it. I got my period the day before and i hadnt eaten all day cuz i felt a bit nauseous. Before I barely did anything, I started gagging but i tried again and i gagged even more, my eyes got watery, and i felt like i was gonna throw up. He got very upset with my reaction, and doesnt want to try ever again. I know i upset him a lot and hes hurt. but the taste and feeling was very new to me, it was my first time and I think i need a lot more practice than he does. Now he just wants to stop being so physical, cuz we had less problems when we weren't. He says I shouldnt do it to make him happy, i should do it cuz i want to. idk....I just want to know how i can get better, any tips would be helpful. I dont want this to come between us. and is it ok for him to not want to try again? He thinks it happened cuz of him physically but i just didnt know how to stop gagging. im so upset for hurting him but i want to try again.
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reader, VioletSparkle  +, writes (30 December 2011):
For tips, just search cosmopolitan (no joke) http://www.cosmopolitan.com/
and then experiment for the pleasure of both of you, but very lightly, like it is a game, a bj is just a bj, and you had low blood sugar levels :) Of course, that is if you really want to do it, if you have some problem with it for your own reasons, then just give up. It can be nice to girls too
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