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writes:Are these signs that my boyfriend no longer loves me:- Turns up Late Alot- Puts His Mates First- Breaks PromisesHe always hugs me, kisses me, tells me he loves me and we still have sex alot (maybe too much) but some days he can be very distant. Im also 14 Weeks pregnant with his child but ever since we found out i was pregnant all we do is fight, which leaves me crying all alone while he storms off. i have tried my best to make it work, got over my trust issues, let him have time with his friends, treated him so nice, try to communicate, what more can i do? im tired of trying. the only thing thats keeping me with him is the fact im carrying his child. i love him but i cant take this anymore Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 Well it sounds pretty clear to me that he didn't want this baby while you did. If this was an accidental pregnancy then you are going to have to choose between the baby and him. Because the way it's going, it sounds like this is only going to get worse after the baby is born. If you want to keep the baby, you may have to accept that he's not going to be there with you to raise your baby. I don't think you should be looking at this as, oh he randomly doesn't love me anymore so much as he may just not want a baby yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): these are definately signs and dont wait around to be shown more get out now,you can make it on your own
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reader, ***__*** +, writes (9 May 2010):
They aren't signs he no longer loves you, they are signs he could possibly be cheating on you or that he isn't ready for a serious commitment, like having a child.
If all this started happening after you told him you were pregnant then he may be having problems dealing with the pregnancy.
If you haven't yet, you should really sit down with him and try to talk it out. Don't make it a fight, just a simple chat about whats bothering him or if hes really ready for a child.
And if having a baby is the only thing keeping you with him, you should really step back and think about things. My mother left my father while she was 7 months pregnant with me, because he wasn't ready for a child. I still see him every once in a while, and she had problems with money and such as I was growing up, but she is a lot happier now that she isn't stuck with someone who never wanted what she had to give to him.
If hes not ready / willing to deal with having a child, and you are against giving the child up, you should really think about leaving and trying to make a better life for you and your baby. Hes not worth sticking around if hes not going to be there to support you and love you.
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