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writes:This is about a girl whom I consider as my soul-mate. We have been friends for about 5 years now.Ironically when she was in same city as mine for first 3 years, I got in touch with her very little.For last 1 year or so, since when she went abroad,we have started talking online. We connect very well, we kept on talking for 7-8 months like good friends, giving a lot of online time to each considering odd time zones.My feelings towards her grew with time, until one day she told me that she has been in relationships twice, and the second one is still going on. You must be puzzled that what kind of friends we were....but that is common in Indian people..they would not tell about these things until get complete trust on friend. I somehow made my peace with that fact after bein g in pain for some time. Now she seems to start getting little drifted from his curren BF, although it is not that serious.But she looks for me for advise. I do not know what to do...to support her to be with his current BF...or should tell her about me...or what...no idea. I am her best friend as of now with in terms of sharing. Please help.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 Well.. you don't want to get in between her and her boyfriend. You say she is drifting away from her bf at the time, so my advise is don't do anything irrational. If she breaks up with her boyfriend, then go ahead and tell her how you feel. But if you tell her now...and she breaks up with him or whatever happens..she might blame you later for trying to break them up. good luck
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (9 May 2010):
If she loves her bf, then don't gt into her way. But if she is goin through some problems with her current bf and if she hasnt told her bf about you, then I guess she does like you too. Give it some time. And don't screw up their relationship if there is no big problem between them. But if there is, you got every right to fight for the girl you love, coz you might keep her more happy. But if he is already keeping her happy, you shouldn't butt in.
With time, you'd know. Just stick around.Hope that helps.
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