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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hey, how do i know if the guy i'm in love with is not taking me for sex, we dated for a couple of months before i realized that he has a girlfriend, we were having a long distance relationship and seeing each other once every 3 weeks. To cut the story short i know about the gf and withdrew myself altough he kept being in touch , till i finally saw him again after 3 months and we had sex then i travelled again. He called and texted ver since but i feel that he still disappear sometimes . when i ask him about his love life he always says that i'm different and i'm his love. what do u guys think? am i wasting my time?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (10 May 2010):
Yes. He's using you and that's it. You need to move on.
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female
reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Well,to be blunt,yes.
He knows that he can have both his gf and you- so why should he make a choice ? For him, things are fine the way they are .
And also, when you knew he had a gf, you withdrew from him- but he did not leave her to come after you.
I'd say that pretty much things will stay the same, it is up to you to decide if this is enough for you or not.
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