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writes:There's this guy who I really like, but the problem is that I can't tell if he's interested in me too. I mean, there's things he does or says that seem like he could be interested but what if it's just my imagination? He's a sports assistant at my brother's school and when I first met him the only time he'd talk to me was when he was commenting on something my brother had done: got hurt, played some sport well etc., really simple things, but now when we talk it could be about anything else. To make this shorter I'll just list a few of the things he does that make me think I might stand a chance - jokingly teases me or mimicks things I say, starts random conversations as I'm about to leave (like he did the other day saying, "Did I see you in town yesterday morning?"), nudges me in a playful way, shares any snack I might have with me at the time, eye contact, smiles A LOT usually in a cheeky/mischievous way, he's also incredibly sweet to my brother when I'm there. And I don't know if this is anything to do with anything but the other guy he works with used to be really friendly with me and now he doesn't even look at me. I'd really appreciate any kind of help. Thank you so much in advance. x Reply to this Question
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reader, Zanie  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 Well it seems all points, point to yes. I would think by though signals, that he was liking you. However, you never know, some guys are just flirtatious by nature.
You won't know unless you ask. Maybe you should invite him to some group event and see if he takes you up on it. If he does, then seize the day!
Good luck!
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