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writes:I have this guy who is my friend and me and him mess around alot not anything sexual but we do stuff like kissing and flirtin. Anyways he just started to go out with my friend and im really mad because she know we mess around. And even though they are going out me and him are still messing around. So anyways i wanna kno does this make me look like a whore and should i stop messing around with him?
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 It sounds like you already know its wrong, and its not doing you any good to continue. Find another guy!
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 I think your friend is a fool to go out with a guy she knows is still messing around with you. But as he has chosen her to be his girlfriend, this means you are the other woman in this situation. If he doesn't give you the respect to ask you to be his girlfriend, don't give him the satisfaction of having two women on the go. He doesn't deserve either of you, but hes chosen your friend, so it would be best for both of you, if you back off. If he wonders why, tell him he can't have it both ways.
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (9 May 2010):
The guy seems like an idiot. He is not worth the time and effort. Also, he is not worth more than ur friendship with your friend. Just let it go. You can find better guys to mess around with.
Hope that helps.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 May 2010):
Not a whore, no. But every time you kiss this guy who has a girlfriend, you're stabbing you friend in the back, you're damaging your reputation and you are certainly leaving your own self respect in the gutter. So stop messing around with him.
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