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writes: Im a 16 year old guy. And I'm gay. Me and my boyfriend have been togethr for a while..but now he wants to get more intimate with me. I want to.. but i'm afraid at the same time. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (13 May 2010):
 Everyone here is right. You should only go as far as you feel comfortable. He should be willing to understand that... and help you work through it... but not force you or coerce you into doing something that you are not comfortable with.It sounds like you would also like to progress further so I would suggest going slowly... getting more and more intimate over several 'sessions'.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 in america this age is illegal to have sex so watch out especially if your boyfriend is 18 or over cos if you get caught he could end up with a criminal record. personally i think that laws regading age of consent in america are draconian. in the uk 16 is legal, and i was having sex before that but everyone is different and as such you must do what FEELS right for YOU.
dont be pressurised into something you dont want and you should really explain how you feel to your boyfriend.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Go slowly , begin with more touchings and caressing's and slowly progress from there. Do what you feel is comfortable and enjoyable .
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reader, ohemgee +, writes (10 May 2010):
Talk to him. You say you've been together for quite some time. Do you trust him enough to have this conversation? If so, then you should tell him that, although you want to eventually, you're unsure and you'd prefer waiting until you feel more comfortable. If he loves you, he should respect that.
Trust me, if you have any doubts whatsoever, it's better to wait. Because you absolutely cannot take it back once you do it. So it's important to be sure.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (10 May 2010):
 you are still young and you should only do things when you feel ready for them not when your bf wants you to be ready, you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel and if he really cares about you in the way that he should, then he will understand! X =]
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