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*avis2015
writes:i have been in love this this dude for almost four years now but we havent been in a committed relationship. he is or has been engaged.but says he's loves me and want to be with me. I dnt kno if i should wait on him or move on? he havent talked about the situation in almost a month now.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 4 years and still not committed .I don't think he will ever commit to you in another 4 years.
If he cannot do it in 4 years, he won't be able to do it even if you give him 10 years.
You should move on and forget about him.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 May 2010):
 Why wait around for this guy who clearly doesn't want you when you could be having fun with so many other men? If he really, truly, wanted to be with you he wouldn't let hell, high water, or Glenn Beck stop him. You are too good to wait around for him to get a clue.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): Dump him and move on. He may or may not love you, but his love is only hurting you if he can't or won't be in the kind of relationship that you need, or if he is unable to even clarify your relationship. Don't torture yourself and waste your precious time, go find a man that can give you the kind of relationship that you need. Also, do you really want to be with someone who tells other girls that he wants to be with them while he's engaged? If he'd do it to her, he'd do it to you.
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