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41-50,
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writes:Where do i start! I have been with my oh for almost 3 yrs now, we have a 23 month old daughter, but right now we are close to finishing! We have trust issues, i thought we finally got over them but then i found out he had been lying again so my trust has gone out the window. He says he loves me but im not sure i believe it anymore. He works all the time, so when i do get to spend any real time with him he sits around drinkin or falling asleep. We very rarely have sex, i have very low confidence so dont help. He says i dont make any effort and all i do is moan, which yeah that is true but i would not moan if he made an effort 4 me! I just dont see any way round this, its sad but we need to do the right thing 4 our daughter. We just cant seem to agree on anything. I dont know wot to do, i do love him, but how can i be with someone i cant trust. Do i give it another try... Again?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 May 2010):
He's a liar, and spends most of his time drinking or falling asleep. Truth is, unless you are both willing to get counselling and find out what the problem is, you might as well end it. You can be sure that even though your daughter is young, she'll be starting to sense that something is wrong and it will be stressing her. If all he does is lie, what's the point. He needs to get his ass into gear and you both need to get to a counsellor. If not, end it.
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