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anonymous
writes:Am i being superficial? I went through hell in my divorce four years ago. It has taken me till now to get my self esteem back as I had a horrible divorce and a few bad relationships after. I am feeling well and my self esteem is back, I went on a date with a guy that seems to be the whole package except he is super skinny. I am thin and he weighs five pounfs less than me. I like a thicker man as this man does not feel masculine to me. My sister got mad at me and said well don't be upset that you are single when you met this great guy and he is too thin in your eyes. I relied , I do not see myself naked with him and she said in thiry years will that matter. My question is am I being too superficial? I do not expect a mant to look perfect, far from it..Happy Mothers Day to all the wonderful mothers, grandmothers and caretakers.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Send him over to me :) - I love slim guys. I'll send you a
thick one from Italy.
Jokes aside : it may be superficial,it may be shallow, it maybe frivolous- but ultimately, what can you do if you just can't feel attracted to him ? It's your own body that you share with a partner and I think it's natural that you want to be able to share it without forcing yourself.
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