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writes:Well, there is this girl...let's call her Jude. Well i like Jude for a few months, and i can almost say i actually love her, though we spend little time together, about 4 times a month we go out together or with friends. Last time we went out, she asked me if her hair looks pretty, how's her new hairstyle, she was playing with her hair, and seemed a bit nervous. Well, i would like to tell her how much i care for her, but i am afraid, if she rejects me, because, when i try to flirt with her she doesn't seem to answer to what i say, or respond back, i am afraid of being rejected. I'd like an advise here...
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2010): Well, still me...i would like to thank you for the answer..though, i still couldn't tell her how i feel, yesterday we went to the park, and after a few hours, we were heading home. We took the bus, than, she said, "let's get lost" and smiled, i agreed and she ran out of the bus, i ran after her... and we were walking randomly down to the streets, we spent a lot of time doing this...but she still didn't seem to want us to be more than friends, i just could not get any reaction of her liking me... What makes me wonder is that at a time she made me curious about a story, and after i asked her a few times and gave up she told me about "how she kissed a boy on the first date and she didn't want to, but she fell for it" she was ashamed of that and didn't want to tell me, why to be ashamed of this...she just fell for it, and why tell me so sudden...man after this, i wanted to kiss her so much, but...i was afraid tat it will turn bad...it's so hard to love someone...because you just don't want to lose them...now i lost any hope..i just want to forget her...she is always in my mind..please help...damn love..
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 She could be feeling not confident,fearful or too careful ,of saying the wrong things to you when you flirt with her.
You need to be braver and take it in your stride if you are rejected. Love is not for the feign hearted.
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