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writes:I need advice. Two of my best friends havn't spoken to each other since early january. I have been trying to hang out with both of them. well kat* decided that i had to choose who i was going to stay friends with. and i told her that i didn't want to choose. but she wouldn't let it go so i told her that if i had to choose it would be lilith* because we have been friends since we were two years old and in the year and a half i've known kat she has tried to stop being my friend about four times. and that i was tired of coming to school afraid that she would be mad at me for no, or a very stupid, reason. she said that she respects my desision and its nice to know who her real friends are. She ignored me for about a week before I told her I still wanted to be friends. we tried but I think she took that as i was changing my mind. but she's mad at me again because i drive Lilith and another friend home after school and kat refuses to ride with us. she got mad because i only drive her when lilith doesn't need a ride. but i can't stand to listen to kat complain all the time about how her life sucks. not only that but she lives about a block from the school. if i so much as mention lilith's name kat gets pissed and either tells me she doesn't care because they're not friends or ignores me completely. however i still want to be friends. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Well, if they really are your friends, they shouldn't expect you to chose between the two of them! I suggest having a heart to heart conversation and CALMLY DISCUSS the matter at hand, if this doesn't work, try asking advice from a parent or an older sibling or friend or someone responsible that you can trust. Good luck!
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