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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): Maybe she enjoys the attention you get or maybe shes worried by it. Ask her and find out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): awe that's cute that you feel that way. You should tell her. She probably does that because she is insecure. Or maybe she wants to have a threesome so she is scoping out girls who look interested in you. Or she simply likes the attention you get from other girls for her own ego boost. But even that is a sign of insecurity. People who are confident don't tend to look for reassurance and unneeded attention from others. In fact that is one thing I HATE. I have dated guys before (and this is so annoying) that around other people, or certain people, they act super touchy-feely with me like to show the other people that we are together. Like its all a show with something to prove cause as soon as the other people leave he pays no attention to me.
I don't know. Ask her what's up with that and let her know it bothers you.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Now now. Don't read into it too much. She might just be making conversation.
All man's depression and suffering stems from seeing things that aren't even there...Meaning, all our suffering occurs from reading into things too much.
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reader, astral_traveller  +, writes (10 May 2010):
She is proud that she has you. She might also be expecting a response from you, asserting, you are proud to have her.
Your response could be - How does that matter, I have you !
Song to Remember in the situation - Beautiful girls all over the world .... they got nothin' on you baby
Words of caution : You are the better judge of your situation. Others can only relate your situation to events in their life or to the lives of people they know. So please do NOT get carried away with an answer that supports your thoughts.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (10 May 2010):
 For me, it's a turn-on when other women check out my guy. It's a confirmation of his hotness and my ego gets a boost because he's with me. Bet your girlfriend feels the same way.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 She is indirectly telling you that,"WOW! You are hot!."
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reader, ohemgee  +, writes (10 May 2010):
Sounds like you should tell her this. Calmly explain to her that you're there because you enjoy dancing with her, not checking out other girls, and that her saying this makes you a little anxious.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (10 May 2010):
 Sometimes, those comments that women make out of the blue don't seem to have a purpose but they do have a hell of a lot of a purpose. Sometimes women test you, and my feeling is that this is one of such tests. If it is a test, I don't really know what the right answer would be. But perhaps saying something like "Why are you telling me this?" would be a good thing to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010): maybe she needs reassuring if you truly are there to dance it wont be a problem letting her know you only have eyes for her
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reader, Red Green 0289 +, writes (10 May 2010):
Maybe it's flattering to her that she has you and all the other chicks can do is eye you!
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