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writes:My girlfriend is only 15, and she wants to go clubbing. She lives in Montreal, and im in Toronto (long story, she had to move for a little while away from Toronto but were going to stay together). Im 15 as well, and i think a) she is way to young, b)she doesnt know what clubs are like, and c) something is going to happen to her. I dont want to be a spoilsport, but if she goes, something will happen to her. Her 18 year old cousin is going to get her in whenever she plans on going. I dont know what to do, i really love this girl and she absolutely loves me, but am i naive to think that something will happen to her? She absolutely isnt going to cheat on me willingly, but im still scared.Ps her cousin isnt going to keep an eye on her, shes going clubbing, not babysitting.
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (9 May 2010):
 You shouldn't assume that something bad will DEFINITELY happen to her. She might end up going out, having a terrible time, and then being put off clubs for years. Maybe you should talk to her and try to understand why she wants to go so badly. Her answers might surprise you.
Don't hesitate to express your concerns and your distaste for the entire situation, but let her react how she wants. It sounds like you do trust her, so just keep strong, and let her live. Being so young and in a couple, one of the worst things you can do is stop the other person from experiencing things and growing.
All that being said, you have the absolute right to ask her to not get blindingly drunk. That kind of behavior is just stupid and unsafe. As long as she is smart, and she loves you, she should be able to do whatever she wants and you don't have to worry. Good luck to you!
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